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I'd resign. End of discussion.

I'm not your ex, I'm not your ex, I'm not your ex! I don't watch football, except for the huddle and am not a big fan of Billy Joel. I threw up a few pics into my private album. You decide if I look like your ex! You're cute when you're crushing. So, once again, what's stopping you again...well...besides you, that is!

Quote: Originally Posted by Chat Room Hero After 2 years if you mean that little to her, you deserve a lot better. True and... Quote: Originally Posted by shockandawed Time and distance does wonders. Use this period in your life to learn about and improve yourself. ...true.

Quote: I would think that men are the monkeys.. It's in the hands....

If sex was the only thing on his mind he would have objected right away. He wouldn't be around three weeks later and still come around her to where he won't kiss her. He wouldn't be talking to her causing the breakdown in communication. He'd have left her three weeks ago.

Quote: Originally Posted by SadShamrock Emperor, thank you for your response. i actually wish there was someone physically here who could confiscate my phone. I thought about breaking it, so I can't call him- but then I can't call anyone and no one can get in touch with me... The most pathetic part. I just looked back on threads I have written in the last year. I have almost identical posts from exactly 1 year ago . is it possible...

For the sake of your kids, she owes it to you and to them to TRY to work through this, get counselling and also when she's feeling abit, do marriage counselling with you. (Though make sure the counsellor she uses also does marriage counselling.) It could be she is overwhelmed of being a mom and feels like she doesn't have her own life. Your youngest is 5 and probably started school not too long ago, so that's a big adjustment...

Quote: Originally Posted by movingonandon Yup, our grandparents, hands down the greatest generation ever. You forgot to mention two things: in addition to the depression, they 1) also fought two wars AND 2) although they were dirt-poor, they still looked MUCH BETTER and CLASSIER than the contemporary slobs plauqing the streets everywhere; Look at any depression-era picture. Both are very true, though every generation has a major war that...

yeah my ex used to cry so many times when we would argue and break up for a day or so, and text me, call me...of course i never ignored him like hes doin to me now...and once he actually said he tried to kill himself but when i told him i cant live without him...he....omg i dont even wanna think about this anymore.........the past is so different from the present

I've actually figured out why and how people do the whole checking out thing. You see, human beings are naturally selfish, that comes from primal instincts of self preservation and the tendency to always do what's best for them (or what they think is the best) at some point. When someone falls out of love, they have two choices: either break everything off immediately or stay with their partner while their cooling period / checking...