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Question for Cl-Camperchik
Published (2009-12-03 23:20:00)
Hi Berkeleyfan, First, I'm sorry that you've had to?go through this.? Next, I am glad to see that you and your husband are both in counseling, both couples counseling and individual.? During my roughest time, I did go to counseling for about 6 months, and learned how to communicate.? That was the best thing I got out of counseling. Getting the togetherness back in a marriage takes work.? It's not always easy.? With DH and me,...
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Trying NC again
Published (2009-11-30 11:55:00)
Makes perfect sense. Have the two of you ever met? If so, how did it go? Yes, we've discussed meeting, but most of the time we talk about it like more of a fairy tale fantasy than real life. Except for yesterday..we started talking again (after only abotu 36 hours) and he brought up meeting. Not much elaboration, but it was definitely mentioned in a more serious tone. Thanks for all your advice. It's great having communities like...
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Marry him knowing what I do?
Published (2009-12-01 15:10:00)
Well I am my own currently, always had my own apartment and he his. He is living with me in my apartment, but currently he has been gone for 6 months. the thing is I really want to share my life with someone, i have been on my own since I was 22. But it has to be the right person, and not because I am needy of someone. There is one scene from Desperate Housewives, that always sticks in my mind. Edie tells Susan that she (Susan)?can't...
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Met someone else on FB....
Published (2009-12-02 09:43:00)
I would agree with sparkeldust on this one. This situation has many elements of immaturity to it and all involved need to grow up and face reality.
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Trying NC again
Published (2009-11-29 06:47:00)
I don't mind at all, don't think you are getting too personal... and yes, I have told him I love him as well. In the beginning I'm not sure that I did, but it definitely grew into that. I guess I should correct myself, b/c I do believe you can love each other, but it isn't the same as the relationship I have with H. I do know that is "real-life" love, b/c we have been together a long time, we actually...
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Tickets, please!
Published (2009-11-30 07:30:00)
Hi S4K I was in an EA for a long time. Last December we ended it, we are family friends and it was very complicated. For the past 7 months we have been trying to be real friends w/o letting our feelings surface. I ended our so called friendship last Wednesday b/c it was still a "private" friendship. Even though we can talk out in the open, we either emailed, sent texts and when we spoke it was not in front of our spouses. I wanted...
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Marry him knowing what I do?
Published (2009-12-01 15:38:00)
You are right that there are red flags all over the place here.The good thing is that you already caught him twice and know what he is capable of BEFORE you married him and had his kids. Had I known that my H was capable of all the stuff he pulled on me with his overly friendliness, flirting, an affair, and several attempted affairs with other women that never materialized cause in some of the cases I caught him beforehand. I would hate for...
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Marry him knowing what I do?
Published (2009-12-01 07:47:00)
it sounds like you need to live alone for a while to see where you, as a person, are going with your life. Do you really need someone else to be happy? I am in my mid 40's and there is no shortage of men out there who are single and decent too. I don't' need a man to define myself or make me feel complete. I am doing that all by myself for once! And i am in the process of divorce too. Thats one of the things that has led to our...
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Met someone else on FB....
Published (2009-12-01 14:20:00)
I'm not trying to sound judgmental, but, to be honest, this all sounds rather juvenile and escapist.? The fact that he's 38 years old and is asking you to be his "online girlfriend" would make me a little wary as to this man's maturity level and, from the sound of it, he was pretty quick to say "I love you".? The bit about his kids loving you as much as he does sounds pretty creepy and weird too. I think...
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Tickets, please!
Published (2009-12-02 03:55:00)
Thank YOU for your post.? Be strong!? Focus on your love for your husband and focus on your life with him.? Focus on yourself.? Be strong for yourself.? You have made a wise decision not to continue something that can never be and something that may hurt so many other people, including yourself. No matter how much hurt I am feeling and cannot seem to get over them after discovering everything about nine months ago, I still love my husband so...
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Started 4 days, 2 hours ago (2009-12-01 14:20:00)
by sparkledust27
I'm not trying to sound judgmental, but, to be honest, this all sounds rather juvenile and escapist. The fact that he's 38 years old and is asking you to be his "online girlfriend" would make me a little wary as to this man's maturity level and, from the sound of it, he was pretty quick to say "I love you". The bit about his kids loving you as much as he does sounds pretty creepy and weird ...
Started 1 day, 17 hours ago (2009-12-03 23:20:00)
by cl-camperchik
Hi Berkeleyfan,
First, I'm sorry that you've had to go through this. Next, I am glad to see that you and your husband are both in counseling, both couples counseling and individual. During my roughest time, I did go to counseling for about 6 months, and learned how to communicate. That was the best thing I got out of counseling.
Getting the togetherness back in a marriage takes ...
Started 3 weeks, 1 day ago (2009-11-13 09:46:00)
by sparkledust27
What a sweet story. I hate to admit it, but it made me tear up a little bit. I wish they were all like this. It sounds like the two of you have an awesome friendship. It must be so nice to know that he loves you, and not only that, he's not afraid to show you that he cares. The little things mean a lot, don't they?
Started 3 weeks, 2 days ago (2009-11-12 10:25:00)
by sparkledust27
Well, to be perfectly honest, from what you've described, I really don't understand why you're still there. I mean, he's obviously lying, you say that you're only hanging around for the sex and there isn't much of that, and it sounds like he's just dragging you down. Have you tried marriage counseling? Are you even interested in trying that? If everything in your gut is telling you to bail, I ...
Started 5 days, 19 hours ago (2009-11-29 21:05:00)
by emscemily
I would definitely confront him if i were you... and i think you should let him move overseas because is sounds like neither of you are ready for a commitment. Time apart will do both of you good. It will help you decide what is best for YOU. And no, its not harmless. what's next? meeting women on the side too? Do you really want to be with someone you're not sure you can trust?...
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-28 03:44:00)
by cl-camperchik
Hello Happydayz125,
Welcome to the board!
Before I would offer any advice as to stay or work things out, I'd like to ask a couple questions.
It seems as though your snooping was "innocent" enough. It is the time for snooping for Christmas gifts!
Can you tell me that this was a complete surprise to you? You had no idea he was "up to something"?
It's easy for married ...
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-28 11:07:00)
by cl-camperchik
Hanvan,
I am thinking about you and hoping you'll be feeling better about things very soon. Keep us posted.
Started 6 days, 18 hours ago (2009-11-28 21:59:00)
by hanvan2
I can relate very well to your situation, as my OM is in another country as well, w/a girlfriend and child (I'm M). I know where you are at right now, and one thing you said, "I think I am probably selfishly expecting too much from him," is true. If you step back for a minute and think about it, you are in two different worlds. You knew from the beginning he has a GF. Of course jealousy is ...
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-28 11:38:00)
by cl-camperchik
At Peace,
I'm glad for you. You have made a strong decision that you will not be a secret. If you have to keep things a secret, then you're crossing a line. I haven't reached that point yet. I still enjoy our private conversations. There are no "I love you's" or anything like that. But we share things about our daily lives, and our kids.
It's very difficult to remain friends once ...
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Started 5 days, 19 hours ago (2009-11-29 21:05:00)
by emscemily
I would definitely confront him if i were you... and i think you should let him move overseas because is sounds like neither of you are ready for a commitment. Time apart will do both of you good. It will help you decide what is best for YOU. And no, its not harmless. what's next? meeting women on the side too? Do you really want to be with someone you're not sure you can trust?...
Started 6 days, 18 hours ago (2009-11-28 21:59:00)
by hanvan2
I can relate very well to your situation, as my OM is in another country as well, w/a girlfriend and child (I'm M). I know where you are at right now, and one thing you said, "I think I am probably selfishly expecting too much from him," is true. If you step back for a minute and think about it, you are in two different worlds. You knew from the beginning he has a GF. Of course jealousy is ...
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-28 11:07:00)
by cl-camperchik
Hanvan,
I am thinking about you and hoping you'll be feeling better about things very soon. Keep us posted.
Started 4 days, 2 hours ago (2009-12-01 14:20:00)
by sparkledust27
I'm not trying to sound judgmental, but, to be honest, this all sounds rather juvenile and escapist. The fact that he's 38 years old and is asking you to be his "online girlfriend" would make me a little wary as to this man's maturity level and, from the sound of it, he was pretty quick to say "I love you". The bit about his kids loving you as much as he does sounds pretty creepy and weird ...
Started 3 weeks, 1 day ago (2009-11-13 09:46:00)
by sparkledust27
What a sweet story. I hate to admit it, but it made me tear up a little bit. I wish they were all like this. It sounds like the two of you have an awesome friendship. It must be so nice to know that he loves you, and not only that, he's not afraid to show you that he cares. The little things mean a lot, don't they?
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-28 03:44:00)
by cl-camperchik
Hello Happydayz125,
Welcome to the board!
Before I would offer any advice as to stay or work things out, I'd like to ask a couple questions.
It seems as though your snooping was "innocent" enough. It is the time for snooping for Christmas gifts!
Can you tell me that this was a complete surprise to you? You had no idea he was "up to something"?
It's easy for married ...
Started 1 day, 17 hours ago (2009-12-03 23:20:00)
by cl-camperchik
Hi Berkeleyfan,
First, I'm sorry that you've had to go through this. Next, I am glad to see that you and your husband are both in counseling, both couples counseling and individual. During my roughest time, I did go to counseling for about 6 months, and learned how to communicate. That was the best thing I got out of counseling.
Getting the togetherness back in a marriage takes ...
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-28 11:22:00)
by cl-camperchik
Prettyinpink,
I'm sorry you're feeling so down right now.
I, too, seem to be stuck at a point. For awhile, I felt that I had reached acceptance that all OM and i could everbe, would be close friends. And then, he does things that give me some glimmer of hope, some sense that he cares for me thesame way that I care for him.
My OM has pulled back... I don't get the early ...
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-28 11:38:00)
by cl-camperchik
At Peace,
I'm glad for you. You have made a strong decision that you will not be a secret. If you have to keep things a secret, then you're crossing a line. I haven't reached that point yet. I still enjoy our private conversations. There are no "I love you's" or anything like that. But we share things about our daily lives, and our kids.
It's very difficult to remain friends once ...
Started 3 weeks, 2 days ago (2009-11-12 10:25:00)
by sparkledust27
Well, to be perfectly honest, from what you've described, I really don't understand why you're still there. I mean, he's obviously lying, you say that you're only hanging around for the sex and there isn't much of that, and it sounds like he's just dragging you down. Have you tried marriage counseling? Are you even interested in trying that? If everything in your gut is telling you to bail, I ...
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