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yes, inhaling vicks in steam would work, cause it's got those kinds of oils in them, plus rubbing it on your chest should help inshaAllah, both your nose and your chest. if you just have a cold/flu and these things are effective you don't need to see a doc, a cold is caused by a virus which a doc can't give you anything for anyway, all they'll do is either send you home and tell you to drink fruit juice (vitamins help your...

see if they will make a good spouse by asking around. if they do, propose if not and the fitnah is that great, i would avoid even going near them (even if accidental that u bump into them), i'd avoid taking the same corridors they do if i knew that's were they walked to get to class, etc. if you know they are coming your way, keep your gaze lowered all the time and dont "accidentally" look. the more you look, the...

Well you did it once, you can stand up to her again. If speaking to your husband about it makes no difference, then you'll have to make the changes yourself/.

Quote: Originally Posted by Ebony Well then perhaps insist you'll do all the things she does because you are the child's mother. If she doesnt listen to you when you ask politely, then perhaps being a bit blunt might sink it in. Tell her you are capable of caring for your own child (this may clarify whether she thinks you are incapable, or she doesnt realise thats how she's making you feel by doing what she does) Some women are...

shumra, i understand all you say, its a pity, difficult times i guess. but sister i dont think you should say, better to get married and divorced, dont think like that, divorces arent good. Allah hates divorces even if they are halal. i understand how you are thinking, but thinking like that, can do so when you get married, you get a divorce. its funny how in european countries they think our parents forces us for marriage, when it seems to be...

Well cooking is important and enjoying a good meal can bring people closer together These are my suggestion: 1) Take cooking classes 2) Give your mother-in-law a big hug and tell her how your husband always mentions how much he loves her and how great of a cook he says she is and that you would really be honoured and feel like a daughter if she could learn you to cook his favorite dishes (to start out with so she won't think you want to...

i am a really bad liar and would totally mess it up, if i were to pretend to be on the phone to "husband", so i do even wish to attempt it. If it makes a difference, when i did go in there, one of my colleagues happened to be in there already, so he said hello and that was it, the guy behind the counter was just staring at me and as i went to pay for my things, he says to me in front of everyone (there were about 5 people in...

again, yes its a big deal for me, plz read my earlier post: I knew this question was gna come up. MY ANSWER: I dont feel comfortable at all with them on my face. i know Allah gave me them for punishment or for the good, but there is no Hadith to say u cant remove them, as i wasnt born with them, so im allowed, and as laser treatment didnt help, im doing it this way....so thats why im doing it. yes, i thank Allah that my scars arnt as worse as...

sorry, forgot to mention 'peace upon them both' on my previous msg. Insha-Allah, may Allah forgive me for not mentioning it!

Quote: Originally Posted by click a very strange tread im noticing among Christians (no offense intended) is their rendering invalid/denying their own texts whenever it is presented as a piece of evidence that doesn't suit them. im not sure, but sometimes i feel its cos they cant admit they are in the wrong if you want to debate with them, then make sure you present the things that you know they already believe in cos they cant deny...