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QUOTE(burlyheart @ Dec 2 2009, 08:05 PM) I have already, I've already said I feel bad for being immature and complaining. Like i said, older guys who want younger guys are just looking for a piece of meat. Have fun!

QUOTE(fayimtung @ Dec 2 2009, 07:42 PM) Generally speaking, older men don't reject younger men on ground of age gap. It so happened that the ones that you befriended are not ready for 1-on-1 relationship and prefer the freelance status. Move on, my friend. I have already, I've already said I feel bad for being immature and complaining.

QUOTE(touche @ Dec 2 2009, 05:36 PM) Yes, sweetie, telling yourself is one thing, but what you need to do now is to put it into practice, to take concrete action, then you'll be able to see a change for the better to your current situation. You said you will "wake up" and then start doing things for yourself. Well, you should wake up now. Stop giving yourself excuses. I can understand why you are having...

QUOTE(karl @ Nov 29 2009, 08:32 PM) Personally, I feel that you are now at a stage where you are slightly a little obssess with "getting into a relationship", its normal, you are young and you enjoy the romance and the novelty a relationship offers. You've definitely hit the nail on the head with that observation. So many young people are so obsessed about getting into a relationship they become more...

QUOTE(simplifried @ Dec 2 2009, 12:00 PM) tks touche.. I've been telling myself all tt.. I need to mull over this.. N maybe when I'm tired.. I will wake up n do things for myself.. But I dunno how long tt will take me. Yes, sweetie, telling yourself is one thing, but what you need to do now is to put it into practice, to take concrete action, then you'll be able to see a change for the better to your current...

QUOTE(DarkLord @ Nov 30 2009, 04:39 PM) Sometimes is general perspective, or more of objective definition. In terms of maturity, means that someone can handle it like an adult, that we can always discuss about problems and settle it amiacably. The worst come to worst is a breakup, so why the drama? Sometimes, I wish we skip all the philosophical bullshit about different perspective, that one man's meat is another...

QUOTE(burlyheart @ Nov 26 2009, 10:36 PM) That's interesting... Hey could you explain the 'puppy dog method' a bit more? A little confused. cute and needy, need lots of attention and abit on the irresponsible side, expecting your older half to do it for you...that sort of things. QUOTE(ecity @ Nov 27 2009, 08:05 AM) I've seen some pretty strange relationships over the years - some of the...

QUOTE(burlyheart @ Nov 29 2009, 10:30 PM) THAT is the main issue I'm having. Older people can't bring themselves to give me a mutual level of respect because of such generalization like you are doing. Cos all you brats do is to live up to the generalisation that you are all just dying and gagging to have a bf and that without a bf your life is utterly worthless and total crap. You can write a whole bloody thesis...

QUOTE(simplifried @ Dec 1 2009, 11:48 PM) Hi.. I need some help. I am at a brink of depression. I am trying this forum as an outlet to seek some resolution for my misery... I am a working professional and still denying the fact that I prefer guys over gals. All my life I might have been delusional. So here goes my story, I have been friends with this guy for almost 6 yrs. He is my senior. After I graduated from uni, he asked...

QUOTE(burlyheart @ Nov 30 2009, 08:32 PM) Problem is, said older men generally end up rejecting me when I ask if they would like to take it to dating on the grounds of the age gap. Generally speaking, older men don't reject younger men on ground of age gap. It so happened that the ones that you befriended are not ready for 1-on-1 relationship and prefer the freelance status. Move on, my friend.