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user's latest post:
I thought we were sticking...
Published (2009-11-19 11:25:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by chakka He is attracted to all kinds of woman and the fact is, I am not attracted to many guys at all except him. Mabe it bothers me simply that he would want to play alone at all. Chakka, speaking frankly 'as a guy' but not speaking for all guys, we have a sliding scale. It's usually pretty wide and if any woman fits into that range then as a guy we will sleep with them if the opportunity presents...
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Are vanilla friends not so...
Published (2009-11-16 17:00:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by ncmd_couple Another suggestion to possibly find out is to search the swinger's search sites for their area and look to see if they have a profile on a site such as Swing Lifestyle. Who knows, they might have seen your profile if you have one. Probably they are talking about an adult night with no kids! S We have no idea what sites you belong to, NEWPANTS, so, do a simple search on any you belong to and see......
user's latest post:
I thought we were sticking...
Published (2009-11-19 13:26:00)
You both make alot of good points and I am so grateful for your thoughts. The Mr is interested in working things out. He doesn't want to go out again any time soon or until I am happy. He really does have our relationships best interest at heart.
user's latest post:
I thought we were sticking...
Published (2009-11-19 11:44:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by DigginIt Chakka, speaking frankly 'as a guy' but not speaking for all guys, we have a sliding scale. It's usually pretty wide and if any woman fits into that range then as a guy we will sleep with them if the opportunity presents itself. Keep this in swinging context here and not a monogamous relationship. It has nothing to do with love but just mere attraction and lust. Getting into some of the...
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Are vanilla friends not so...
Published (2009-11-18 09:45:00)
Re: Are vanilla friends not so vanilla or are we just imaging it? Lots of different ideas and thoughts from everyone. Like many including myself, just asking would save alot of wondering. Looking forward to finding out what there true intentions are. Please be sure let us know. Its like watching a tv show's season finale, don't leave us hanging! __________________ ~You only get out of it what you put into it~
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I thought we were sticking together
Published (2009-11-18 18:33:00)
I had an experience once at a party where my date had a wicked evil flashback to a childhood trauma and just emotionally "shut-down" for the whole night. I knew something was wrong - but she wouldn't talk about it to me while we were there. She kept saying, "Just leave me alone for now and go enjoy yourself" Silly me... (I was young'er & dumb'er those days) so, I took her words to...
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Bothered by what happened during...
Published (2009-11-12 12:21:00)
Be honest about what you want. The earlie post was dead on you gave permission. Don't be afraid to speak your mind.
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Setting the mood...
Published (2009-11-15 12:48:00)
We are planning a small couples only party for Mrs Shys B'day. A few couple that we have met and some that we have had contact but yet to get together. 5-6 couples including us in a nearby hotel suite. So far, that plan is for a couple of scented candles and lots of votif candles to set the mood. We are mostly a soft swap group with bi-friendly females but we are going to have condoms,lube,towels, and wipes Of course we will have our iPod...
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first time swinging together -...
Published (2009-11-15 20:50:00)
I agree certain positions are harder then others. We played with one couple and the guy could NOT do me doggy style. I tried but it wa a weird strange pain like i had never felt. HE was no bigger or smaller then average. I guess we are just shaped differently. WE were fine in other positions.
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Latest active threads on Situational HELP!::
Started 3 days, 17 hours ago (2009-11-18 18:19:00)
by WonderWhat
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I proceed to go to the car and pass out. [...] he spent the rest of the night doing nothing , checking on me frequently.
Ummm, sorry to point out more negatives, here, but if he was really feeling like a jerk, wouldn't he have gotten in the car with you and driven home instead of staying and "checking" on you?
Methinks that there are disconnects ...
Started 6 days, 17 hours ago (2009-11-15 18:16:00)
by xxxboxy
On this one, I'd just go with the flow. If they're swingers they'll think that they're seducing their vanilla friends.
Started 1 week, 5 days ago (2009-11-09 17:05:00)
by little firefly
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Originally Posted by NDN I'm sorry I made you feel as you did. You know that you come first to me always. This was something new for us. We will work out timing issues in the future. As I said before, I wasn't upset with you, I mean, I'm the one who told you to go play....What had me bothered and what I'm not thinking some people are really ...
Started 3 weeks, 3 days ago (2009-10-28 12:35:00)
by sexcupid
The first question that came to my mind was "Why does she have to watch you if she doesn't like it?" I say this because I really don't care for watching my boyfriend having sex with other people...just that he had a good time while doing it (and with any luck I'll be busy with playmates of my own that I won't be worried about watching him).
However, the biggest thing that jumped out at me was...
Started 1 month ago (2009-10-18 10:17:00)
by padoc
One of the great things about women is that generally "one size fits all". Unless you're sporting a fire hose, you shouldn't have a problem. The fact that both the wife and the playmate have experienced pain may indicate a technique issue rather than simply a size issue. Patience, gentleness and insuring proper lubrication and arousal in your partner will go a long way towards getting you all ...
Started 1 month, 1 week ago (2009-10-13 00:32:00)
by slevin
I'm sure I might accidentally touch that area while manually stimulating a
woman. If someone told me explicitly not to touch there I would be vigilant
about not doing that, but I can see how it could happen accidentally.
Whether it was intentional or accidental would be something I'd have to be
there to figure out for myself.
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-13 13:40:00)
by LikeMinds321
I have always packed cotton bandanas in my play bag. I like colors of orange, red, and pink. I tie a couple together and hang them over the lampshade(s) in the room. This way it puts a nice warm glow in the room. Most hotels are now using those cool bulbs and so there is no worry of starting a fire (for those who have that concern). Even with incandescent bulbs, you should be okay because ...
Started 3 weeks, 6 days ago (2009-10-25 16:38:00)
by Edison Carter
Ed here-- My recommendation, if you've been told by many that being 320 pounds is good looking, that you proposition the people that have said it.
My wife, Susan, always says,"Anyone who asks if they look fat in a dress, already knows the answer."
That being said, people can tell you anything, but actions speak the truth. The truth is, you have problems finding Play couples.
The best...
Started 1 week, 5 days ago (2009-11-10 10:25:00)
by Dynamar
My advice... forget it and move on. There could be many reasons why he is no longer communicative. Perhaps he was angry or disappointed that you cancelled and didn't want to take the chance of being cancelled on again. Maybe he's married or otherwise entangled, and while it was a fun fantasy talking to you, maybe he got cold feet after you all scheduled the meet. Who knows? Bottom line is ...
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Hot threads for last week on Situational HELP!::
Started 3 days, 17 hours ago (2009-11-18 18:19:00)
by WonderWhat
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I proceed to go to the car and pass out. [...] he spent the rest of the night doing nothing , checking on me frequently.
Ummm, sorry to point out more negatives, here, but if he was really feeling like a jerk, wouldn't he have gotten in the car with you and driven home instead of staying and "checking" on you?
Methinks that there are disconnects ...
Started 6 days, 17 hours ago (2009-11-15 18:16:00)
by xxxboxy
On this one, I'd just go with the flow. If they're swingers they'll think that they're seducing their vanilla friends.
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-13 13:40:00)
by LikeMinds321
I have always packed cotton bandanas in my play bag. I like colors of orange, red, and pink. I tie a couple together and hang them over the lampshade(s) in the room. This way it puts a nice warm glow in the room. Most hotels are now using those cool bulbs and so there is no worry of starting a fire (for those who have that concern). Even with incandescent bulbs, you should be okay because ...
Started 1 month, 1 week ago (2009-10-13 00:32:00)
by slevin
I'm sure I might accidentally touch that area while manually stimulating a
woman. If someone told me explicitly not to touch there I would be vigilant
about not doing that, but I can see how it could happen accidentally.
Whether it was intentional or accidental would be something I'd have to be
there to figure out for myself.
Started 3 weeks, 3 days ago (2009-10-28 12:35:00)
by sexcupid
The first question that came to my mind was "Why does she have to watch you if she doesn't like it?" I say this because I really don't care for watching my boyfriend having sex with other people...just that he had a good time while doing it (and with any luck I'll be busy with playmates of my own that I won't be worried about watching him).
However, the biggest thing that jumped out at me was...
Started 1 month ago (2009-10-18 10:17:00)
by padoc
One of the great things about women is that generally "one size fits all". Unless you're sporting a fire hose, you shouldn't have a problem. The fact that both the wife and the playmate have experienced pain may indicate a technique issue rather than simply a size issue. Patience, gentleness and insuring proper lubrication and arousal in your partner will go a long way towards getting you all ...
Started 1 week, 5 days ago (2009-11-09 17:05:00)
by little firefly
Quote:
Originally Posted by NDN I'm sorry I made you feel as you did. You know that you come first to me always. This was something new for us. We will work out timing issues in the future. As I said before, I wasn't upset with you, I mean, I'm the one who told you to go play....What had me bothered and what I'm not thinking some people are really ...
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