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user's latest post:
first time mfm.. and his green...
Published (2009-07-01 19:43:00)
I wonder if perhaps your husband is concerned about emotional involvement happening between you and a single guy that you play with? Something that he isn't concerned about when you play with couples and that he knows isn't an issue when he is talking with the women you have played with (since it's him doing the communication). Perhaps the sexual intimacy isn't an issue for him, but the potential of an emotional bond...
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Daughter caught us - How to...
Published (2009-06-28 12:56:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Playingnow Has anyone been caught in the act and how do I handle this? I'm the guy who made this discussion go off the track so I feel responsible to put it back on-track. Yes, sounds like the OP handled this about as best as it could have been. Probably scared the heck out of the OP's daughter. I commend Playingnow for putting her consideration above any of theirs. Would any of us performed as well in...
user's latest post:
first time mfm.. and his green...
Published (2009-06-30 18:47:00)
At this moment I will make a guess that your husband is embarrassed or uncomfortable sharing the cause of his jealousy...he may not even know what has triggered it, but will realize later and share it with you then. Sometimes, on reflection, what was exciting during play starts to feel threatening. Did the other man do something that got a response out of you that your husband hasn't been able to produce; does Mr. X have a larger cock,...
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Why Facebook Is a Bad Place for...
Published (2009-07-01 17:45:00)
I can take the rejection personally and be a little weird about it all, so I just try to hang back and avoid reading stuff. Just play it cool and you'll have more fun. Expectations are the killer.
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MFM experience with extremely...
Published (2009-07-01 08:15:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by it'sso Ergo, both your wife and you appear to have a relationship different than that of the OP. Regarding my suggestion of him finding a playmate that can offer him something which his wife doesn't, presently, Isn't this, in fact what his wife has been enjoying? _ I cannot disagree with you. I guess it was the way it struck me at the time or the way I read it. It just sounded so tit-for-tat. The...
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Husband wants swinging more than...
Published (2009-07-01 13:19:00)
Susan here-- Dav-Kat are exactly right. I love our Play with others and I was Playing three years before Ed and I met. Yet, as much as it is a part of who I am, if I ever needed to give it up for any reason that meant maintaining my marriage, it's a no brainer, we would stop. I would not miss it because their is nothing more important than the marriage. We Swing as a sexual extension of our marriage, not to augment it or to fill in any gaps.
user's latest post:
MFM experience with extremely...
Published (2009-06-30 22:59:00)
"As for Mrs. CXXC and myself, providing we stick to our ground rules, solo or couple play is a wonderful thing. If she called me up while I am out of town and informed me of an opportunity to play, I could not say no as I am afforded the very same from her." Ergo, both your wife and you appear to have a relationship different than that of the OP. Regarding my suggestion of him finding a playmate that can offer him something...
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Boyfriend wants mfm...need advice
Published (2009-06-27 13:29:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by surga22 Me and my boyfriend have only been dating for about a month. He recently asked me to have a three sum with him and another guy. I have had three sums with other women and I'm completely up for that. But i am very nervous about doing this. . So i am not sure what to expect. I just need some advice on how to calm my nerves? And maybe what to expect? Also my boyfriends reason for wanting this is he says...
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Latest active threads on Situational HELP!::
Started 3 days, 6 hours ago (2009-06-30 21:00:00)
by violet1475
My husband and i have been together for a little over 2yrs. We both enjoyed swinging for 1yr and a half of our relationship. We did it for all the right reasons. We both had fun and it was some what of a connection for us. We would enjoy all aspects of it, whether it was before had talking about the things we wanted to try to the actuall acts. A couple months back we found out that I had HPV. We...
Started 2 days, 13 hours ago (2009-07-01 14:51:00)
by dumbasarock10
Okay, this isn't exactly a swinger's issue, but it seems as good a place as any for sound advice. And this could get lengthy but I'll do my best to keep it short. First, I'm deployed to Iraq. There's a girl in our unit I'm real close with, but not like that. We've been good friends forever. She really trusts me, but I'm not her type. She's a lesbian. We'll call her Lori. Well, we recently...
Started 3 days, 10 hours ago (2009-06-30 17:35:00)
by hypnoticgreene
ok to start... We have been swinging for awhile but I(female) had never felt the desire for two males at once but with some talking and experimenting with toys I agreed this would be a new experience that I would enjoy. Long story short we met a nice couple that play both together and alone. and he was given permission to fulfill this new desire of mine and it went wonderful. but 3 days later...
Started 5 days, 2 hours ago (2009-06-29 01:26:00)
by JandCMI
Sorry in advance for the length of this post. It's late here! This is more a rant and sad sob story than anything. Most of all, we hope that someone has had some kind of similar experience and can pat us on the back and say "it will be ok" (or will hopefully agree with our main takeaway lesson at the end) A few months ago we met a really great couple from Swing Lifestyle and played with them...
Started 2 weeks, 3 days ago (2009-06-16 16:49:00)
by weatenan
We have been swinging for a while now. well kind of, we really have only done mfm, go our own seperate ways once in a great while, we have done a swap one time but did not enjoy it as much. We recently found someone new to have a mfm with, it was someone my wife knew that she was friends w/ during college. I met him and he seemed very nice and not pushy. For us as a couple we are very picky ...
Started 4 weeks, 1 day ago (2009-06-04 06:11:00)
by Playingnow
My wife and I have been playing for about a year now. We were invited to a private party at a freind's freind's home. Things progressed through the evening pretty well. We knew there were other couples already playing when we arrived. We met a nice couple and before we knew it, were enjoying each other in a large tent the hosts had set up for pleasures. As I was being rode by the wife of ...
Started 2 weeks, 2 days ago (2009-06-17 16:04:00)
by surga22
Me and my boyfriend have only been dating for about a month. He recently asked me to have a three sum with him and another guy. I have had three sums with other women and I'm completely up for that. But i am very nervous about doing this. . So i am not sure what to expect. I just need some advice on how to calm my nerves? And maybe what to expect? Also my boyfriends reason for wanting this ...
Started 2 weeks, 5 days ago (2009-06-14 22:37:00)
by NorthLaCpl
My girl friend and I have been together for 2 years now and have enjoyed a wonderful relationship. We love each other and communicate very well. Recently during some pillow talk I mentioned that I sometimes found it hot to think of watching her have sex. She was shocked and surprised that I would be okay with it, but to make a long story short, she decided she would like to see me with another ...
Started 10 months, 2 weeks ago (2008-08-20 10:48:00)
by awesomecplmn
So we are scheduled to attend a party this Saturday and my period just started today. Then if I count forward, I am scheduled to get it a couple days before another big party we wanted to attend. Is this the universe's way of telling me it's not liking my new lifestyle?? Hubby doesn't like to have sex while I am on my period, but I've heard lore of men who love it. What's the story? Are ...
Started 2 weeks, 6 days ago (2009-06-13 14:15:00)
by Famous04
Okay so last night we went out a swingers club that we go to quite often and ended up fooling around with a few other couples, everything is great right? Well the one thing we have always specified is that we are only a soft swap couple, no full swap, at least not until we are both 100% sure we are ready to get to that step. So Im having some fun with a girl and look over and my girlfriend ...
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Hot threads for last week on Situational HELP!::
Started 4 weeks, 1 day ago (2009-06-04 06:11:00)
by Playingnow
My wife and I have been playing for about a year now. We were invited to a private party at a freind's freind's home. Things progressed through the evening pretty well. We knew there were other couples already playing when we arrived. We met a nice couple and before we knew it, were enjoying each other in a large tent the hosts had set up for pleasures. As I was being rode by the wife of ...
Started 5 days, 2 hours ago (2009-06-29 01:26:00)
by JandCMI
Sorry in advance for the length of this post. It's late here! This is more a rant and sad sob story than anything. Most of all, we hope that someone has had some kind of similar experience and can pat us on the back and say "it will be ok" (or will hopefully agree with our main takeaway lesson at the end) A few months ago we met a really great couple from Swing Lifestyle and played with them...
Started 2 weeks, 3 days ago (2009-06-16 16:49:00)
by weatenan
We have been swinging for a while now. well kind of, we really have only done mfm, go our own seperate ways once in a great while, we have done a swap one time but did not enjoy it as much. We recently found someone new to have a mfm with, it was someone my wife knew that she was friends w/ during college. I met him and he seemed very nice and not pushy. For us as a couple we are very picky ...
Started 3 days, 6 hours ago (2009-06-30 21:00:00)
by violet1475
My husband and i have been together for a little over 2yrs. We both enjoyed swinging for 1yr and a half of our relationship. We did it for all the right reasons. We both had fun and it was some what of a connection for us. We would enjoy all aspects of it, whether it was before had talking about the things we wanted to try to the actuall acts. A couple months back we found out that I had HPV. We...
Started 3 days, 10 hours ago (2009-06-30 17:35:00)
by hypnoticgreene
ok to start... We have been swinging for awhile but I(female) had never felt the desire for two males at once but with some talking and experimenting with toys I agreed this would be a new experience that I would enjoy. Long story short we met a nice couple that play both together and alone. and he was given permission to fulfill this new desire of mine and it went wonderful. but 3 days later...
Started 2 days, 13 hours ago (2009-07-01 14:51:00)
by dumbasarock10
Okay, this isn't exactly a swinger's issue, but it seems as good a place as any for sound advice. And this could get lengthy but I'll do my best to keep it short. First, I'm deployed to Iraq. There's a girl in our unit I'm real close with, but not like that. We've been good friends forever. She really trusts me, but I'm not her type. She's a lesbian. We'll call her Lori. Well, we recently...
Started 2 weeks, 2 days ago (2009-06-17 16:04:00)
by surga22
Me and my boyfriend have only been dating for about a month. He recently asked me to have a three sum with him and another guy. I have had three sums with other women and I'm completely up for that. But i am very nervous about doing this. . So i am not sure what to expect. I just need some advice on how to calm my nerves? And maybe what to expect? Also my boyfriends reason for wanting this ...
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