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Our personal opinion is that the elusive bi-female does not really exist in the lifestyle. Yeah, you see their profile on AFF and Swing Lifestyle but, they aren't really for real. Most of the women are either the wife part of a couple looking for the women, or a hooker trying to get a pay check. I have come to the conclusion, that the single women in the swingers lifestyle just don't happen very often

Hi, this is Petra. Sorry for kicking an old thread, but I came across this and had to respond. If you get to the point where you love someone, then you are willing to give them things without an expectation that you will get something back. (For all the backwardness of my parents, I realize that this is something they taught me by example, although it took into my twenties to fully sink in.) My husband was the same way. When we were dating and...

Quote: Originally Posted by Boyd72 All the women I have dated before dump me when I bring up the idea of swinging. Is there a better way to bring it up, or do I just have to keep looking for the right person? In our humble opinion, your approach to get your gf to swing is counterproductive. For married couples like us, a strong and loving marital relationship comes first. Having established that trust in each other, one can bring up the topic...

I was rather fortunate and a couple of the gals I'm currently "dating" have had prior experience in swinging and are not opposed to doing it again. How was it brought up? One of the gals was a friend whom I've known for a few years prior to any "dates" - and she and I used to tell stories about our experiences. The other gal & I - while out on our first date, tossed back-n-forth the whole...

Of the single females we have played with... All of AFF... they have had a one line profile. No pic.. some used the chat room and some did not... two were smoking hot and one was good looking..... We have only met one on Swing Lifestyle.. and yes she is hot and her profile is sort of like the OP's question. YMMV

If we're out of town, or at a hotel party and already have a room, obviously we're not going to ask for anyone to split the cost of the room with us. As far as a single female, no matter if we pursue her, or she pursues us, we would pay the cost of the room, and probably of most expenses, such as drinks, dinner, etc. If a single male pursues us, then we'd expect him to host or pay for a room. One reason for this is also that we...