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Quote: Originally Posted by xxxboxy And unfortunately you're at your least "feminine" at competition weight and those are the pics that you're putting out there. Most people don't have enough experience with competition body builders to know how to envision you with that extra 15-25lbs that takes you from a rippling muscle head to to very nicely toned feminine form. Take some pics of you as you are normally...

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Quote: Originally Posted by FitCpl30s You are definitely right, I am more like 15 to 25 pounds heavier, to look like those photos you have to really deplete your body of carbs and water. In those pics I am also at my weakest. Posting current pictures is something that you should consider doing. Everyone wants to post a picture of them looking their best, but if you look substantially different than how you look right now it's misleading....

Quote: Originally Posted by FitCpl30s You are definitely right, I am more like 15 to 25 pounds heavier, to look like those photos you have to really deplete your body of carbs and water. In those pics I am also at my weakest. And unfortunately you're at your least "feminine" at competition weight and those are the pics that you're putting out there. Most people don't have enough experience with competition...

I have to say that when you are flexed your muscle definition is on the high end of what I care for, but when you are relaxed you have nice curves (what I could see on Swing Lifestyle). I certainly didn't find you unattractive! I'd have no problem approaching you, and the muscle definition under your clothes would be a pleasant surprise. Really toned shoulders and backs are an especial turn on for me!

Another thing could be that women are often very sensitive about their bodies, and they're intimidated by how fit and good you look. They may think to themselves "She's in such good shape, she'll think I'm just too fat." A lot of women are worried about their bodies being too chubby, and a muscular, fit woman might make them a little insecure.

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Quote: Originally Posted by FitCpl30s This is how I look normally. I suggest taking that photo of the two of you, editing it so your faces aren't visible, and using it for your default profile picture. You both look great and you are showing yourselves as a couple. In general when you post pictures, I would be careful about showing how muscular you are. You are trying to be sexy and enticing to potential swing partners, not being judged...

Quote: Originally Posted by FitCpl30s We don't like posting pictures when we feel we don't look our best, that's why there are mostly competition photos It's all in the image you are trying to project. A woman with only pictures of her new super sized boob job says 'I am proud of them' but also 'look at how great they are, you know you want them', just like the overdone big willie pictures that guys...

Quote: Originally Posted by FitCpl30s Mostly the new couples, the regular couples know us. There is an upside to a club. You learn a lot from watching the other couples. You see who they play with and who they don't and even can learn some habits. Maybe some of the people who used to approach you may be intimidated by some of the newer couples you have been playing with. Maybe they feel you play with too many couples. Maybe they are...