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Tadahiko, I think your right about poly being more about the relationship first than it is about the sex as it is in swinging. But I also think that everyone arrives at it differently. There isn't one road map for life. S

Speaking for a Poly threesome, Anna was my girlfriend in high school and my first lay. She and my wife have been best friends since 7th grade. Our relationship was borne out of having a great love for someone that we naturally wanted to extend into the sexual realm. It wasn't "we want to swing, but only with one person." The relationship came first. And just like with a long-term partner, we spend more time doing other...

Thank you The Fuse. What we did was to set down and totally discuss this, lay some hard rules out, NO money moves between us., C and I pay for ours, P pays for his.. We don't "live" together full timebut we do communicate and see each other alot during the week. And the love is between C and I. P has feelings but as he told C and I he's NOT in love with me. He's knows the difference. P enjoys the closeness of...

First of all, to the Swingersboard! You've found the right place for discussion, information and support. Sounds like poly to me. I don't think your post mentioned the word "love", but your relationship definitely goes beyond swinging. Sounds like it works for everyone. The dangers: you sound smart enough to know what the dangers are. They are there, but personally I wouldn't let that stop something that seemed...