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Re: swingers and D/s community rift Quote: Originally Posted by FitCpl30s What are D/s people??? dominance and submission __________________ It's Tom's and Trina's world; we just live in it.

I'm not a part of the D/s community, but there are many that integrate their D/s and swinging together here. I haven't noticed a rift in the community here. I don't know why there would be a conflict, either. We're all kind of a "to each their own" type of "family".

Most safe sex discussions describe a monogamous relationship as a safe practice. In the exact sense of the word I don't think a couple who swings could be defined as monogamous. But I feel that swingers separate physical monogamy from emotional monogamy.

We start talking as soon as we can, privacy is key...... But ya know, we have talked with our playmates as well about how we feel. We're also talking about a romp or two we had over 25 years ago.... I can't believe there is ever a time to stop talking, at least, occasionally in private.

Always discuss, ALWAYS Not necessarily the graphic details, but more a compairing of notes, and getting an overall concensus of how we felt it went. Never leave anything unsaid, if something bothered either of you.. Dont let it go.. Better to get it out and work it out..

Re: How have you changed as you got more experience? We are still in the 'honeymoon' aspect of it and so we are not really changed too much from when we started. Off the bat: We are planning a Hedo trip - would have never done that a year ago. We are a lot more racy in public sometimes - very sexual in a club now. Mrs Diggs is pushing her bi-sexual boundries every chance she gets. I'm sure there are other things I'm not...

Re: Risk Mitigation and Swinging – Is it Worth the Risk? Well, I agree that you don't have to take that. But you don't have to "take their face off" to accomplish the same thing. Technique is more powerful than brute force in most cases. __________________ Try anything once, twice if it is fun, three times if it is real good!

Quote: Originally Posted by LFM2 While I agree that nobody deserves disrespect, this isn't much of a deescalation technique. I thought the point was never to escalate a situation into violence, but try to deescalate and talk things out. Personally, your "He-man alpha-dog" behavior is offensive. Your behavior, unfortunately, would reflect the rest of the swinging community, and it's no wonder why some people think...

Sure, sometimes you know who's played with whom. Sometimes others know with whom we've played. I don't know if this sounds squeamish or childish or prudish, but I just think it's more appropriate to let that stuff come out naturally, if it's going to, and not worry about it. I don't mind others knowing if they see us at a party, or if we tell them because it seems natural to share that information. I mind if...

Thank you SW_PA_Couple, I most certainly put the wrong word. I shall endeavor to correct my sloppy mistakes. After all, one mistake is more than enough to bump an A down to a B.