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Quote: Originally Posted by ncmd_couple Mrs. O, It is very common to feel what you feel. After all, with two kids and one on the way, there is that nagging thought of, "what if this screws everything up?" in the back of your mind. The key is that if you and your husband can talk openly and honestly together. Then you really know the answer to that questions in advance. Do a lot of reading here. I think that talking is the...

Fredsgirl, Do you have direct contact with the lady in question? Maybe it would be a good idea for you two ladies to chat online quite a bit before Fred gets home from Iraq. S

A couple questions for you. Is this an established pattern of behaviour with her in other areas of her life? Is it typical for her to want to do something and seem excited about it but in the end allow her anxieties and resting inertia keep her from actually following through with it? Is she a procrastinator and puts things off untill the window of opportunity has passed? Is she a perfectionist that is often crippled by her own perfectionism...

It's normal to excited and nervous and to even think about backing out. I've told this story before and I'll probably tell it a thousand more times, the first time I headed out to meet other swingers (we were heading to a vanilla bar to meet several couples with no thought of anything more than meeting) I was so nervous I couldn't go inside. I didn't go inside. I did finally meet them all later after arranging a...

Nymphowind, I have to ask is this how you communicate with your wife now ? The reason I ask is because you confuse the heck out of me... I can imagine you might be giving this vibe as well to MrsNW. Each time you post here you mix everything from playing with singles (male and female) to full couple swap. They are all uniquely different. Each having a whole separate dynamics. It seems to me at least, and I have asked Mrsfun as well to read...

My husband and I have been dancing around the idea of becoming swingers. We are not entirely sure that we are totally ready, but we are ready to start reading and learning more about it. Last night we sat down (well, lied down since we were in bed already), face each other and look at each other the whole time and ask and told each other what we wanted. We came up with some rules, specific rules. We came up with our own guidelines and how we...

Thank you both of you. I felt that I should ask others who have been there and done that. I plan on showing Mr. O some of the things I have found on here that seem very interesting and that he should read. I agree talking is something that should be done in any kind of relationship. I've been talking with him about how I feel and he's been very understanding. I've also been talking one on one with a gal who has done this. She...

We are planning on our first fmf. Fred knows someone and has asked her if she was interested. She said yes. We know each other from high school, but she doesn't live nearby. She will come and stay a weekend. He has had a couple of experiences prior to me. I have none. So my questions are the following: He said she is willing to do more touching and kissing and things like that. How do I know what I am allowed to do, should I try and get...

I cannot believe that I am the first one to answer this question. Alrighty, sit back and relax, fredsgirl because I am about to dazzle you with knowledge and wisdom beyond the pale of understanding. We had our first FMF experience about two months ago. The thing that really helped us was finding out what the expectations and boundries for our playmate were. At first she was reluctant to answer. So, we did what any normal couple would have done...

Quote: Originally Posted by the2vs1913 This post will be rather long, so bear with us. I'm sorry but you've exceeded your posting size limit of three sentences. In the future, please refrain from posting more than three sentences or your post will be trimmed for you. just kidding of course! No need to worry about long posts! Type away! Quote: Originally Posted by the2vs1913 My husband and I are very open with each other Having 100%...