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First what is your preference? Do you want them to stay? Or would you feel more comfortable if they didnt? Once you have that firmly figured out, grab the ball with both hands and throw with all your might, putting it back where it belongs... IN THIER COURT Look if as was previously said IF they are driving a distance, Hold the conversation well before shaking hands that night.. if you are comfortable with company for the evening, offer and...

So how did things go ? Did everything end comfortably ?

Quote: Originally Posted by good times Sleep overs involve a whole different dynamic that, frankly, we wouldn't have been prepared for prior to having some experience. Our last romp, we invited the couple to sleep over. This is a couple we have been playing with almost exclusively. We have a guest bedroom and when the play was over we all retired to our respective rooms. The Mrs and I had more sex, lol. The next morning we have coffee...

Quote: Originally Posted by LikeMinds321 Wait a minute! Wait a minute! Offering your wife as a "gift" is a bad idea and your reason for doing so makes no sense to me. How do you think that letting this guy have sex with your wife is going to get him "back into school, cutting his gambling addictions down...and shit like that?" I think I have not worded my op correctly here. My wife finds him physically...

We've thought about when it happens and what would happen, then comes do they, he , she(unsure how its coming first) stay the night or thanks for a wonderful evening should do it agian, maybe(who knows?)and they retire the evening? I'm not sure if I would want that especially, the first time.

Quote: Originally Posted by dulciprajna ...my wife turns to me and says that she wouldn't mind bringing T into the bedroom if he just gets his act together. He is doing just that, but we need to see that he is serious on some of his goals (ie, getting back into school, cutting his gambling addictions down to < $100/mth, shit like that). I would love to help the guy out, and I think offering my wife as a gift would definitely help...

1. Dont rush things!!!!!!!!!! (rule for starting out) 2. Chemistry! (Not spoken but soooooooo important for us) We still consider ourselves newbies and learning the ropes but when we first were looking, we contacted and had contact from people we would never play with today. Luckily the timing, situation, or gut kicked in and we didn't make any big (and only a few little) mistakes. It is easy to find people who just want to get naked and...

The benefit of sexual abandonment in Arab country is that you man will be the king. As always your wife is expected to provide you with all your sexual want and need and that would include your desire to experience sex with another woman whether or not in her presence. We are forbidden to take a virgin without pay to father and it is expensive. I took the one virgin when I was 46 years old. She was a grown woman of 15 who wanted to have me for...

Quote: Originally Posted by focusdude1984 I've talked about it to my wife just sort of beating around the bush she said she is still not sure so i haven't pushed the subject and I haven't asked my friends just because I don't want to freak them out. Probably just one of those fantasy's I'll have to keep to myself. Appreciate the response one question what are vanilla friends? That's good, you and your wife...

Thanks for all your welcome! Looks like here is really good place to be. I hope the jorney will be the same great!