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yUCK. I agree that's totally gross. The kid thing would have freaked me out and we would have left too. So far we have not run into people that do drugs in hte lifestyle and I hope it stays that way.

Quote: Originally Posted by hippykid hmm ima have to stop reading these ones and goto the good times its getting me so sad why are thier so many idiots out thier i realy hope i dont become one of those type of people but then again im way to shy to realy do anything it would be more voyeurism hehe I think knowledge of what can happen is important, just so you are prepared and avoid getting one self into a situation that is bad. If you worry...

It depends on the offense and how you personally take it.. Old pics are sometimes misleading sure, but, by the same train of thought, Not everyone has regular photo sessions, and who knows, maybe they were taken by other play partners, with a cam... We still to this day see ads with couples looking for someone to take erotic pics.. But lets suppose they have pics from ten years ago.. and time hasnt been kind.. If they arent up front with you,...

hmm ima have to stop reading these ones and goto the good times its getting me so sad why are thier so many idiots out thier i realy hope i dont become one of those type of people but then again im way to shy to realy do anything it would be more voyeurism hehe

Sounds very much like you made the right call.

I've only HEARD about "horror-story" incidents like this one occuring in the lifestyle ... and it saddens me to know that those days aren't "long past" or gone by the way of the dodo-bird. While I do think it's within everyone's rights to raise their own kids as they see fit (maybe they're the kind of folk that believe that sex shouldn't be hidden from their kids - I dunno, I...

Quote: Originally Posted by WildHogs Maybe swinging isn't for us? Seems to me you might simply need a new set of swinging acquaintances. Most of what you describe in your story is outside of the norm. ~Michael

Once the kids showed up, party over. I have heard similar stories and stories where a party went on while the kids were awake and upstairs. Not for me.

Susan here---Don't play pool at a place called Mom's, don't eat at a place called Pop's and do not swing with kids around. This is why resorts can be great or parties where you are much more familiar with the hosts and the environment. I have to admit, we are not good at improvising an evening or having 'faith' in people we do not know well that are also hosts. Your mileage may vary.

This is why we never go to a private house party without previously knowing the hosts, or at least two or three of the invited couples. We always meet people for the first time either at lifestyle clubs, or at public places for meet & greets or for first dates. Only once we're comfortable with them do we accept invites to private homes. I think that's why we haven't had these kinds of unsavory experiences.