Started 2 weeks, 2 days ago (2009-12-17 16:59:00)
by nhgal2006
Why would someone want
pity sex? <shrugs> I have no idea
Just how bad do you need sex to take pity sex? Not that badly. I'd rather do without
What do you hope for when you get pity sex? Nothing
What the difference between pity sex and self gratification? Not a helluva lot. Both are depressing, in my book
Which is better, pity sex or sex alone? I don't want ...
Started 3 weeks, 4 days ago (2009-12-08 23:20:00)
by txknight
You guys have allot going on right now. I don't know how far along the pregnancy was, a month or two I am guessing? I just want to say, from a man who went through a stillbirth, your DH may be blaming himself for the miscarriage and on some level feels you don't want to have anything to do with him right now because he thinks you blame him as much as he blames himself.
Don't ask why, just ...
Started 1 month ago (2009-12-03 21:54:00)
by peterthewolf
I haven't looked into the new recommendations. I did not know they recommended women not do self exams. I suppose they might have decided that by the time a woman can feel a lump, it is well past the time when a
mammogram would have picked up the lump. That certainly does sound odd to me, though. Since a self exam does no harm I cannot see why they don't recommended women do them often, ...
Started 2 weeks, 5 days ago (2009-12-14 07:19:00)
by cl-memeu2
Thank you for posting this Nenu!
Started 1 month ago (2009-12-01 07:00:00)
by galrobin64
My hubby had his prostrate removed this year also, so I have an idea of what you are going thru. Have you talked to your dr about cialis, levitra or viagra? These worked with my dh, but he had problems with the side effects. You can try Muse, which works really well. It's like a pellet you put in your penis, so it's not painful. You will find that it does get
better with time, because your ...
Started 1 month ago (2009-11-30 05:37:00)
by cl-nenuphar_19
Hi tjacord, and welcome to the board. Have you been able to talk to your husband about the amount of porn he is watching? How did you discover it, by finding a record of the web sites he's been on, or some other way, for instance credit card bills, if he has to pay to visit these sites? His porn consumption is not likely to be related to you, your age and how you look, but rather to a need he...
Started 1 month ago (2009-11-29 14:30:00)
by cl-nenuphar_19
Hi, lostfan, and welcome to the board. It really sounds like there are many
things goin on in your life and you feel overwhelmed by them. Actually, I think your husband sounds overwhelmed by it all, too. It also sounds as though you feel it is up to you to handle and heal all the problems, as you perceive them. Your initiative to find a therapist and talk is excellent, I strongly urge you to...
Started 1 month ago (2009-11-28 20:41:00)
by unhappy-in-love
It's a real problem.
Everybody wants to be loved and deserves to be loved just as he/she is. However, we're either attracted to someone, or we're not, and I don't know how to make myself be attracted to someone if I'm not! Before we married, my husband and I never discussed taking care of our bodies after we married. I just assumed that he'd take care of his body. After all, we were both ...