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Title: The Serious Stuff
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Users activity: 38 posts per thread
Forum activity: 75 active threads during last week
 

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Threads: 75 309 819
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Anon (5850)
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Published (2009-12-14 10:00:00)
Thanks once again for all the supportive posts. I would just like to say that I have dealt with this the proper way to protect my Son and the other boy. Professionals will be involved from today and this will be investigated thoroughly i'm sure. Sorry to sound ungrateful, but please could people now stop commenting about what route to go down and who to get involved. As I say, i've done it - exactly by the book - which has been...
leisha s(2)
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Published (2009-12-14 18:23:00)
ok this got me thinking so i did a search and found this which may be of interest to u: siblings DNA Tesing Siblings DNA testing is ideal in situations where two alleged siblings want to confirm their biological relationship and verify if they are full or half siblings or possibly not related at all. The siblings DNA test can be conducted with or without the parentÂ’s sample. easyDNA can confirm if two people are related by sharing one or both...
Anna F(8)
9
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Published (2009-12-14 10:38:00)
Hi Anon, How are you now Hon? Did you find time to make that appointment?
zoe l(115)
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best friend's fiance tried...
Published (2009-12-14 23:13:00)
would she belive you though if you told her,? would she not ask more questions and believe nothing happened? im asking this as i know someone who has jst fell out with best friend over similar kind of circumstance xx if it was me, i must be a crap friend, i wouldnt tell her, i wouldnt rock the boat so close to xmas and maybe have her or him resenting you, you dont know how he has her you could say he could lie and she could believe him, its...
emma H(82)
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Police and social services are...
Published (2009-12-13 22:08:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Anon (5858) Please help me! Me and my partner had a fight Tuesday night it got very heated and physical my 1 yr old LO saw everything it was horrific! I called the police as I was scared and panicked well we both got arrested and my LO stayed at my in laws. I got treated like absolute crap I was made out to be the aggressor and him the victim. I got cautioned for scratching his face which I did in self defense when...
debra a(2)
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Anger and behaviour problems...
Published (2009-12-14 13:40:00)
Hi Sarah, What a difficult time you've been having recently. This must all be so hard on you. I have no doubt at all that your son is probably feeling very confused at the moment with things that are going on at home and starting school, so this will be adding to his behaviour problems. You have done all the right things from the sounds of it, with getting your gp involved and picking up your son early from school. Unfortunately getting...
rachael n(3)
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please help
Published (2009-12-09 18:21:00)
i do agree with everything you have all said, and i know i should get out. but despite everything, the kids really love their dad. its so hard the comments mentioned about the eldest copying his behaviour is already showing as she bullys us and the sister. also, the baby is having trouble sleeping recently and won't eat, making me think this is also affecting her i have the numbers of womens aid etc. i am going to talk to him one last...
Jennifer D(9)
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HELP! pertunity Pay
Published (2009-12-10 14:13:00)
New boss does not have to allow the holiday carry over from last year. That was an arrangement between old boss and your OH. Most holiday years run from April to March. But some companies (the company my Mum works at for instance) runs their holiday from Jan to Dec. So it maybe best if your OH asks old boss to reimburse him for those days. So long as the number of holiday days taken meets the amount accrued over the correct time this is not an...
Anon (5865)
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havent spoke about this before
Published (2009-12-14 00:01:00)
my husband doesnt no a thing. all my daughter and husband know is he was a rat bag to with. she doesnt want to have any contact with the ex. im just worried one of the ex's friends was her dad and not him x
Linda H
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best friend's fiance tried...
Published (2009-12-14 23:14:00)
Hi Beth, You have done the right thing by going to bed and rejecting his drunken advances. I imagine you are wondering weather you should let your best friend know what her BF done when he was drunk?
 

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Started 4 days, 19 hours ago (2009-12-11 22:19:00)  by Linda H
Hello Zoe, Being a Mummy is the hardest job in the world. You say that your little girl does not sleep very well, sleep deprevation could be part of the reason you are feeling so low. Do you have a partner Zoe? Is there anyone who could let you have some well deserved Me Time? We all need a little break now and again Zoe. Are there any CHIDLRENS CENTRES near you? They can offer ...
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Started 1 day, 21 hours ago (2009-12-14 20:45:00)  by zoe l(115)
hi hun first of all, i hope your ok, dont b ashamed of how you feel, your very lucky hun youve got two gorgeous children a lovley other half whom i bet love you so much, and you said youve got somereally good friends, and babe those who matter dont mind and those that mind dont matter :d, if people are going to be judgemental well there not worth any time, and its never what you look ...
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Started 1 day, 5 hours ago (2009-12-15 12:02:00)  by zoe l(115)
ahh bless u babe maybe go see a sympathetic gp , you obv know its not good for u i wont help weight loss either babe as you body goes into overdrive and will hang on to body fat as such, maybe speak to gp about a healthy eating eat food that can boot your metabolisim :d and about ur a/ds i dont really have any advice hun , do you feel lik you could go to gp?xxxxx
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Started 3 days, 22 hours ago (2009-12-12 19:51:00)  by Anon (5850)
Sorry, that should read 'is this normal behaviour for a 7 year old, not 5 year old.
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Started 1 day, 19 hours ago (2009-12-14 22:27:00)  by deborah b(202)
personally i would want to know if my fiance was a potential cheating scumbag before i married him. as a good friend you may have to risk the backlash and do whats best for your friend. you might feel worse if they went ahead and got married and he then cheats on her later on. sorry cant be much more help - you are in a horrid no win situation. sending hugs
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Started 6 days, 23 hours ago (2009-12-09 18:18:00)  by helen (2)
you poor thing, sending you lots of love and hugs
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Started 2 weeks ago (2009-12-01 21:32:00)  by Jackie P(19)
Quote: Originally Posted by Anon (1557) Not sure where to post, need to get it off my chest though. I dont want my kids anymore, I just cant do it. I have no real feelings for them. I know i'm lucky to have them, they are great kids and are well behaved. so i feel absoloutly terrible for saying this, but then part of me doesnt... because its the truth. It's just i know its ...
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Started 2 days, 18 hours ago (2009-12-13 23:07:00)  by Mel W(13)
Oh jesus I know you havent come on here for pity but I really feel for you. I would def mention it to your counsellor, you sound like you have a good relationship with her and thats what she is there for. Your ex will have a hard job getting back into your babies life even if he wants to, what a nasty nasty man. Well done you for finding the courage to leave for your own sake and ...
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Started 2 days, 7 hours ago (2009-12-14 10:20:00)  by Ellie B
hugs 1st of all i can sympathise with this, my 6 year old has just started hitting at school, and has been red slipped for it... I think its good that the GP and school have offered help, unfortunately these things do take time. Do you think its so many changes all at once? starting school, dad leaving, and papa in hospital? when your 5 its easier to lash out because you cant explain ...
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Started 2 weeks, 3 days ago (2009-11-29 00:02:00)  by sharon r(264)
Not being OTT in my opinion.... maybe offer advice to them both and see what happens, not sure if your friendly with mum but ask her if she sought any help or advice from health visitor etc Not sure what else to advise to be honest but think id be the same....
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Started 3 days, 22 hours ago (2009-12-12 19:51:00)  by Anon (5850)
Sorry, that should read 'is this normal behaviour for a 7 year old, not 5 year old.
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RE: please help - 33 new posts
Started 1 week ago (2009-12-09 16:47:00)  by Mari B(2)
Rachael, as hard as it may be you need to leave with your kids. I can't imagine that you really love someone who hurts your babies, but can imagine you love the person he used to be. He clearly isn't that person anymore and as he has no regret this situation isn't going to change, it can only get worse. I also assume that he's hurt you (it would be unusual for someone to think it okay to ...
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Started 2 days, 18 hours ago (2009-12-13 23:07:00)  by Mel W(13)
Oh jesus I know you havent come on here for pity but I really feel for you. I would def mention it to your counsellor, you sound like you have a good relationship with her and thats what she is there for. Your ex will have a hard job getting back into your babies life even if he wants to, what a nasty nasty man. Well done you for finding the courage to leave for your own sake and ...
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RE: need a hug - 22 new posts
Started 4 days, 19 hours ago (2009-12-11 22:19:00)  by Linda H
Hello Zoe, Being a Mummy is the hardest job in the world. You say that your little girl does not sleep very well, sleep deprevation could be part of the reason you are feeling so low. Do you have a partner Zoe? Is there anyone who could let you have some well deserved Me Time? We all need a little break now and again Zoe. Are there any CHIDLRENS CENTRES near you? They can offer ...
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Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-12-07 18:38:00)  by rachael n(3)
hiya. i'm not sure what to say but i didn't want to read and run as it were. you shouldn't be getting so stressed in your condition hunny, and you should be eating properly. i do understand why you feel the way you do though. go back to the jobcentre and keep on at them. go every day if you have to! its the only way those people will actually take any notice. also, speak to your HV or midwife...
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Started 4 days, 13 hours ago (2009-12-12 04:52:00)  by Anon (5846)
I need a moderator someone help
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RE: I have a problem - 10 new posts
Started 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2009-10-30 18:22:00)  by Gail B(14)
Emma you have to tell either your HV or your Dr what you have just told us. Crash dieting like this is not healthy and could do your body more harm than good. WHat would happen if you were to pass out while you are caring for your lo. YOU have to get better for his sake. PLease, PLease, PLease speak to your dh about this too.
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Started 6 days, 23 hours ago (2009-12-09 18:18:00)  by helen (2)
you poor thing, sending you lots of love and hugs
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Started 1 week ago (2009-12-09 16:02:00)  by sarah p(1017)
Hi i didnt want to read and run, i would of thought that with his age would be able to choose where he lives within reason. Best thing i think would to get in touch with Social services or a solicitor and they will be able to give you the appropiate advice. Good luck hun
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Started 3 days, 5 hours ago (2009-12-13 12:22:00)  by Tawny W(2)
Hello, I don't know the ins and outs of how social services work etc, but i will say that you should confide in your dr tomorrow, they're there to help, and are trained in things like this so they can help you with how you're feeling, especially as you're feeling suicidal at times. If you tell the Dr about your drinking habits especially as this causes the fights, they'll be able to create an ...
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