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user's latest post:
no idea what to do
Published (2009-12-14 12:15:00)
Hello Amy, That sounds fine to me. You may want to ask them to pass the number on as they may not realise you need them too. It's very sad that your ex isn't involved in your daughter's life. She obviously has fond memories of him, and you're doing good by her to not ruin these . You sound like a strong mum who is doing her best by her daughter, well done
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Single mum to 3 - pregnant and...
Published (2009-12-11 15:40:00)
Kathryn, I understand where you're coming from when you say this is your last chance to have a 4th baby. Although in my case i already have 4, i knew i wanted another one and fell pregnant in May of this year. I have also been married since 1993, but have spent the majority of my marriage as a single parent, due to my husband's constant travelling. I am returning to the Uk after dedicating my life and time to his career and dreams as...
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i am not coping to well
Published (2009-12-13 11:30:00)
Hi Lisa I wanted to send you a huge and let you know that we are here if you want to talk. It is so hard when you are still feeling a strong emotional tie to your ex. The pain can be unbearable. I know that at the moment it seems unlikely but the pain will pass and you will learn to smile again. It sounds like seeing your ex is not helping you. You still have strong feelings for him and he is to a sense playing on these. He is texting you and...
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what is everyone else doin
Published (2009-12-14 07:44:00)
I know how you feel - but it is not a card/present that will be 'from you'. It will be from your kids so let them choose.
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Like a bereavement
Published (2009-12-13 17:14:00)
I agree with Julie, certanily for me it was like a bereavement and like she says worse as you still see the person and the fact that they are goetting on with their life and sometimes causing you more hurt. I often said (and sometimes still do) it would have been better if my ex had died then i wouldnt have had to see him move on with his life and wont have to see him (although not actually see him) get married to another woman. There wouldnt...
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free dating sites
Published (2009-12-14 00:17:00)
Plentyoffish.com ....largest free dating website in the UK.
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Any single mums...
Published (2009-12-13 11:50:00)
Any single mums...who dont want to be on their own today? (liverpool) xx
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help please
Published (2009-12-14 23:50:00)
im already on anti depressants the doctor thought it was relevant as the stress would hurt my baby more than the tablets. i wish what you said was true but he has loads of friends and i dont even have 1! i made him my life stupidly and now hes gone i have no1-he was everything. i know that was stupid but i cant change the past. i do appreciate my children-i would have killed myself when he left but if i did my son would have no1 and i couldnt...
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husband says he's leaving...
Published (2009-12-12 17:11:00)
Has he changed the account details? If not, I would keep spending as normal. You are entilted to a shre of his income as you are working at hoime and looking after the kids. Plus, if he is staying put at the moment, you carry on until it changes.
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no idea what to do
Published (2009-12-14 13:17:00)
Yeah I think that's fine. I would put something in it like 'I have moved home and although you don't see E at the moment I thought I would pass my number on as I didn't want it to seem like I've done a disappearing act should you ever change your minds. I don't have ex's number so feel free to pass it on. My number is xxx-xxx-xxx Amy You never know it might prompt them to get in touch. Whether you should put...
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Latest active threads on Single Parents Support::
Started 6 days, 8 hours ago (2009-12-10 12:30:00)
by Jennifer D(9)
If you can prove to them that you can continue paying the rent on time then there should be no problem.
Here is a good handy tool to make sense of your money Statement of Affairs Calculator fill that in and see where you can cut back. Meal planning and dropping down a brand or two will all help. Getting rid of all luxuries will also help
Good luck it is hard until you adjust but it is ...
Started 1 day, 21 hours ago (2009-12-14 22:52:00)
by Kerrie P(22)
I would HATE it if I was in your situation but I'm not so here's my thought from an outsiders point of view.
Maybe you should be really pleased that your DD is comfortable enough with this woman to hug her. You'd hate it if your ex had shacked up with someone who your children couldn't get on with and if this woman is going to be part of your kids lives then better that they feel ...
Started 2 days, 6 hours ago (2009-12-14 14:28:00)
by Amy H(160)
she needs some proper legal advice, and quickly.
Im sure the cab could probably advise her but personally I would find a solicitor
Started 2 days, 3 hours ago (2009-12-14 17:17:00)
by kelly m(466)
well that was like reading about myself apart from my husband left me 6 months ago after bein together 3yrs and is the dad to my 16 month old boy and im 27weeks with his 2nd child. i dont even know where my husband is, he doesnt reply to my texts and doesnt want to know his sons. i feel very betrayed as i too wanted this relationship to work but as ive realised it takes two to want it and if they...
Started 2 days, 2 hours ago (2009-12-14 18:36:00)
by Kirsty M(310)
Hi Michelle, sorry you are having a hard time atm . There are not many 'child friendly' jobs to be had, it is very tough out there atm. I think it depends how you feel re your job, do you enjoy it? could you manage financially on is? If it were me in your situation I'd personally look at the bigger picture, how would you feel at home, rather than working? Just playing devil's advocate but it can ...
Started 1 day, 19 hours ago (2009-12-15 01:30:00)
by Carolyn H(75)
Hi
I really don't know if this will help but was a suggestion put to me! I'm a single mum with 7 month old boy/girl twins (I have not had a penny from their dad!!!!)and due to go back to work in Jan. With childcare at £75 a day for them am really not sure what I'll do!
As I say someone suggested doing a full time college/university course. Apparently you get free childcare (am not ...
Started 1 day, 21 hours ago (2009-12-14 23:40:00)
by Anon (5816)
first of all have a big im so sorry you are feeling so low. I've been through some of what you are now & my experience was that my ex & daughters father (he also has no contact, his choice) went on all of these social networking sites etc as he had nothing better to do, he is the one who has lost out, it may feel like it's you but it's not! You haven't been on these sites as you have better ...
Started 3 days, 9 hours ago (2009-12-13 11:30:00)
by emma H(82)
Hi Lisa
I wanted to send you a huge and let you know that we are here if you want to talk. It is so hard when you are still feeling a strong emotional tie to your ex. The pain can be unbearable. I know that at the moment it seems unlikely but the pain will pass and you will learn to smile again.
It sounds like seeing your ex is not helping you. You still have strong feelings for ...
Started 2 days, 8 hours ago (2009-12-14 11:53:00)
by Anna F(8)
Hello Sam,
Welcome to Netmums and thank you for your post.
It sounds like you've had an absolutely awful time of it . Was his leaving unexpected? It seems you've supported him and lived with things you weren't happy with, and now he has gone. It is very early days and thus it is completely natural to be upset, grieving for your relationship - even if there was a largely abusive ...
Started 6 days, 2 hours ago (2009-12-10 18:38:00)
by Tracey H(222)
Hi katy,
my little one went to stay at his dads when he was about seven and a half months, at the time i did feel he was slightly too young but as was returning to work soon after i needed his dad to have him overnight. He has him from 5pm on saturday to 5pm on sunday, three weekends out of four and i have him the fourth weekend.
i knew his dad would look after him, and sent pages of ...
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Hot threads for last week on Single Parents Support::
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-12-07 23:00:00)
by Kathryn B(94)
I know what I would do. Are you married to him? Surely you can't be divorced already? I don't think its right. I would go to your brothers wedding and let them be bridesmaids. That is just my opinion. I know how I would feel if my ex of 1 yr annouced this. Besides we are still married
Started 1 week ago (2009-12-09 13:29:00)
by Frances B(55)
Life certainly isnt over and you wont be destitute, but what is your status? Are you a British citizen and were the children born here or Africa? It depends very much whether you will get any assistance, let alone housing. That doesnt mean you will be on the streets, but you have to be realistic about what you can get and when. Hard as it is, keeping a positive mind will help you overcome many ...
Started 5 days, 6 hours ago (2009-12-11 13:51:00)
by Vicky C(168)
So sorry this is happening to u, especially at this time of year.
If he is def goin i think he should go now rather than prolong everyones pain and misery, especially the kids, they will know things are strained in the household.
How old are ur children?
Started 2 weeks, 1 day ago (2009-11-30 21:37:00)
by Emma M(953)
How inconsiderate of your " special friend" lol
Hope you dont mind me adding my bit
Ive been chatting to a man for three months now,he seems quite nice not after one thing etc. but three months and he hasnt even asked to meet up,maybe hes to polite to say hes not really interested i dont know maybe im just sick of being alone and after today seeing my pig of an ex all over his fluzy i ...
Started 4 days, 23 hours ago (2009-12-11 21:30:00)
by lisa w(52)
I think that sounds like quite alot. My ex works shifts so when he is on a early shift he sees kids from 3.30pm - 7pm on a Tuesday and Thursday and then has them Saturday 11am - sunday 2pm that week then the following week when he is on afternoon shift he cant really see our DD for long as she is at school he comes on a Thursday and takes her to school and has our DS until I finish work at 2....
Started 1 week ago (2009-12-09 17:32:00)
by katie h(113)
I would think that the best first port of call would be your drs or gum clinic to get yourself checked out. Then take it from there. If it comes back all clear it is up to you if you mention to him about what his ex told you. After all, exs do have it in them at times to be malicious
If it comes back that you have got something then you can treated and deal with that. But really your health ...
Started 1 week ago (2009-12-09 00:38:00)
by Carolyn M(101)
Were you married?
Is he on the birth cert?
Can you get legal aid? I would suggest you get your own solicitor and start keeping a diary of his approaches to you.
Started 5 days, 4 hours ago (2009-12-11 16:26:00)
by Cara P(20)
Didn't want to read and run...haven't got any answers for you, however as as a newly single mum i've just applied for housing benefit just wondered how long it takes as well!
Hope some can help.
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-12-08 00:21:00)
by sharon w(298)
The answer is yes hun. It does affect it. But not alot. It all depends on how much you get.
My ex pays me in the same way. He pays £200 pcm. They do use it to work out how much housing benefit I am entitled to, but they still pay the full amount I am entitled to.
It will also affect you income support if you claim it.
Started 2 days, 21 hours ago (2009-12-13 23:37:00)
by Sara D(11)
The workman always blames his tools..........
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