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Hey, I completely get where you are at, I am there myself. I don't plan on telling anyone about my status; and can't imagine being involved with anyone intimately either moving forward *(have not since diagnosed 1.5 yrs ago)....I am from Iowa (headed there for two months Jan. 1st) so understand the midwest mentality... I mean people there don't even discuss having cancer let alone HIV/AIDS so what to do..... Post Extras:...

i been poz five years and i have not shared it with any one, i learned how to deal with it on my own is hard sometimes but i find strenght in praying. my health is very good no complaints. if you feel the need to keep to your self just follow your heart. take care and have faith.. happy holidays! Post Extras:      

The most difficult part for me was telling my three teen-aged children, after my ex-wife began using this info to threaten me. Since all three were different ages, I met with them separately and gave them an overview about HIV. The majority of my time was spent telling them what I needed to do in order to stay healthy. This included keeping my stress level down. Unnecessary stress would keep me from helping them grow into adulthood, watching...

I'm looking for others to talk to in Atlanta. Edited by tha1uwant2k9 (12/21/09 05:56 PM) Post Extras:      

This posts reminds me of my mistake too....he was kind of gym tonned and forcing to hv unprotected....i was so stupid....anyways...i dont mind killing him and then getting jail....report it to state govt if possible....hv heard god exists...its christmas today...really feel sad...these ppl spread HIV ...such a big danger for humanity.... Post Extras:      

Well first of all, if you know your status you cant just say its not your fault the condom broke. You NEED to tell your partners you are positive. YOU must give them a chance to decide if they want to continue. I wasnt given that chance, and here I am POSITIVE. Not everyone is going to say no to having sex with you. My partner and I have a normal sex life, he is NEG. Its very important for you to tell your sex partners your status. And next...

You're a fine one to talk! Why should you care that your hook-up didn't tell you and you now feel he deserves to die when you have now done the same thing. Put someone at risk without telling them they might be at risk. "I hv been been poz for approx 1 yr...cd4 quite good n maintained...few days back i had anal sex(i was top) with a guy and discharged inside..when i took out...condom was tornd..after having sex ... I told him...