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user's latest post:
Need a man's viewpoint, please
Published (2009-12-21 01:03:00)
Just and Sisters, you are both right. I do need to work on myself, and yes, I have trouble believing him now when he says he loves me, and the hurt is just not going away. I have an appointment after the first of the year with a doctor to discuss weight loss and other health issues. I have tried counseling, but am very uncomfortable discussing private matters face to face. Somehow, talking to strangers online is easier. We did talk for some...
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My wife is depressed and nothing...
Published (2009-12-23 16:34:00)
63vino, You want to know if she wants to be with you. Just steadily increase the priority of other things in your life while slowly but steadily reducing her priority to you. When you are together you are loving and engaged and supportive. Just make yourself less available. And as for her trying to pick a fight - just put it back on her "you seem upset - do you want to tell me what is bothering you?" If she doesn't you...
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getting on track
Published (2009-12-19 00:22:00)
ty to the last 2 post
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should i fight for her ??
Published (2009-12-23 17:01:00)
Let us know how the holidays went. I'm curious if things are better or if it's more drama. I still think you deserve better.
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should i fight for her ??
Published (2009-12-18 02:48:00)
no her heart attack happened after dinner lying in talking about the wedding for the next day. the doctors told me the corze for heart attack most likely was drugs. before i met her and we came to Australia she was drinking allot and doing drugs i took her away from all that and i gave her a new life. and because shes got a week heart if she starts drugs again it could be fatal. everything was fine till she went back to the uk. im thinking of...
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getting on track
Published (2009-12-18 08:56:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by lacrosse yes it is very hard but its not like she hasnt done some thing to lose my trust for her. right now we are working on things but the hardest thing for me is that i feal like she puts me on hold for her single friends i ask her on a date and she already has plans with her friends on monday befor the weekend. It doesn't matter what she did. Thinking like that will get you no where....where would we be if...
user's latest post:
Betrayal and depression?? - Page 3
Published (2009-12-21 08:30:00)
She doesn't know what she wants?? Sometimes its me, sometimes its not?? I'm trying hard to understand why?? I never knew that I was such a bad husband??
user's latest post:
New guy in my life seems...
Published (2009-12-21 08:11:00)
Hard to tell since so little information comes over a wire. Maybe you just need to do something to make clear how open you are to his advances should he choose to advance. Maybe he's misreading you, and trying not to rush you or something.
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My wife is depressed and nothing...
Published (2009-12-24 07:47:00)
hey mem11363 Thanks, I think this idea will fit well into my situation. It will give me more breathing room away form the grump and she'll realize that she can't simply continue to suck me into the vortex of "life is bad". She does consume my time and I don't think she even realizes it. cheers
user's latest post:
getting on track
Published (2009-12-18 09:15:00)
Thus is the problem with lies. You lie about something small and when the truth comes out the questions come of "Oh my god, what else have they lied about?!?" I think the key for you two is going to be talking. Nail down a specific time and date with her. Hey three weeks from Friday we need to meet and have dinner. If she is not one to want to talk about personal stuff at a restaurant, make her a nice dinner at home and start...
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Latest active threads on The Men's Clubhouse::
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-12-17 11:13:00)
by deadline
just 4 weeks ago we were happy thinking of buying a house.
things changed within a week how can some one stop loving you within a week. i think she is just confused and i don't know what to do
Started 10 months ago (2009-02-28 22:55:00)
by Earthmother1970
Is she seeing a therapist / counsellor of any sort? Have you considered marriage counselling?
Started 1 month ago (2009-11-24 11:05:00)
by dan681
Betrayal and depression??
I've been married for 14 years. I just recently found out that my wife had an affair. She also told me that she had been lying and doing cocaine for @ three years. We went to our first marriage counseling session last night. I am trying to make this work. The counseler really made it hard on my wife to...
Started 3 months ago (2009-09-24 14:22:00)
by swedish
Many women have a problem with their man looking at porn. He probably felt you might not approve so he kept it on the down-low. I don't think this is uncommon...akin to guys hanging out and commenting on a good looking woman where if their other half were there they wouldn't say anything. So, it's to prevent you from being hurt, but now that the cat's out of the bag it's best you talk through ...
Started 3 months ago (2009-09-20 19:02:00)
by MBuck26
I do ..for reasons I have explained on previos threads ..Porn always helps , Yes my spouse is aware of this ,however I am a grown Adult and she is far from my mother ..lol..she doesnt mind I've caught her More than once watching it ..
Started 2 months ago (2009-10-22 20:26:00)
by themrs
How about when my husband makes a decison that I totally disagree with and I say, "Okay". It really means, "I hope you don't screw this up but in the interest of your ego I will show you respect and let you make this mistake."
Started 5 days, 8 hours ago (2009-12-20 21:59:00)
by artieb
Is he particularly religious? Many faiths teach that sex should be reserved for marriage, so he may be trying to follow that. If you hang out on line long enough, you will encounter people for whom waiting until marriage didn't work out so well, which is something you might want to consider.
Started 6 days, 18 hours ago (2009-12-19 12:14:00)
by lastinline
Nonnie, no mysterious wisdom for you here. I will however repeat the obvious, which sadly while obvious should prove helpful nevertheless.
1) Work on reconnecting with your husband. Spend more time with him, and not in front of a tv, but quality time.
2) Give thought to how he specifically likes to be loved and love him that way, not necessarily the way you feel comfortable loving him....
Started 7 months ago (2009-05-30 01:26:00)
by Blanca
Quote:
Originally Posted by newguy
So this isnt an average womans behaviour. I was hoping that it was. Maybe I just need to be stronger emotionally and not let her control me that way.
I dont know if this is average behavior or not, but I do know that myself and my four older sisters have all acted this way at some...
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-12-17 08:01:00)
by Blanca
what did you lie about? how did she find out you were lying?
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Hot threads for last week on The Men's Clubhouse::
Started 6 days, 18 hours ago (2009-12-19 12:14:00)
by lastinline
Nonnie, no mysterious wisdom for you here. I will however repeat the obvious, which sadly while obvious should prove helpful nevertheless.
1) Work on reconnecting with your husband. Spend more time with him, and not in front of a tv, but quality time.
2) Give thought to how he specifically likes to be loved and love him that way, not necessarily the way you feel comfortable loving him....
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-12-17 08:01:00)
by Blanca
what did you lie about? how did she find out you were lying?
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-12-17 11:13:00)
by deadline
just 4 weeks ago we were happy thinking of buying a house.
things changed within a week how can some one stop loving you within a week. i think she is just confused and i don't know what to do
Started 10 months ago (2009-02-28 22:55:00)
by Earthmother1970
Is she seeing a therapist / counsellor of any sort? Have you considered marriage counselling?
Started 1 month ago (2009-11-24 11:05:00)
by dan681
Betrayal and depression??
I've been married for 14 years. I just recently found out that my wife had an affair. She also told me that she had been lying and doing cocaine for @ three years. We went to our first marriage counseling session last night. I am trying to make this work. The counseler really made it hard on my wife to...
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-12-17 01:00:00)
by Ditajr
Maybe I am the wrong person to give advice, but I have realized in the past how many years that he isn't going to do any chores or cooking. Once in awhile he will take clothes from the washer to the dryer...only to let them sit and get wrinkled. I have learned to just be quiet. We both work 40 hours a week. It is just easier not to argue. That isn't to say that I don't believe men should have ...
Started 5 days, 8 hours ago (2009-12-20 21:59:00)
by artieb
Is he particularly religious? Many faiths teach that sex should be reserved for marriage, so he may be trying to follow that. If you hang out on line long enough, you will encounter people for whom waiting until marriage didn't work out so well, which is something you might want to consider.
Started 3 months ago (2009-09-24 14:22:00)
by swedish
Many women have a problem with their man looking at porn. He probably felt you might not approve so he kept it on the down-low. I don't think this is uncommon...akin to guys hanging out and commenting on a good looking woman where if their other half were there they wouldn't say anything. So, it's to prevent you from being hurt, but now that the cat's out of the bag it's best you talk through ...
Started 3 months ago (2009-09-20 19:02:00)
by MBuck26
I do ..for reasons I have explained on previos threads ..Porn always helps , Yes my spouse is aware of this ,however I am a grown Adult and she is far from my mother ..lol..she doesnt mind I've caught her More than once watching it ..
Started 2 months ago (2009-10-22 20:26:00)
by themrs
How about when my husband makes a decison that I totally disagree with and I say, "Okay". It really means, "I hope you don't screw this up but in the interest of your ego I will show you respect and let you make this mistake."
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