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user's latest post:
wife - kids first, me second? -...
Published (2009-11-13 15:35:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by brighterlight - 1.God, 2. Yourself and your spouse, 3. Children. . I agree with that except in the case of infants, who are totally dependent for all their needs. After 11, there is no way anyone should have to be providing basic care for a kid ( except in the case of physical or mental disability of the child)
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wife - kids first, me second? -...
Published (2009-11-13 19:57:00)
Maybe it is semantics. Not to be overly quantitative about this and seem autistic: - We have sex twice a week - she can put kid focused activites where ever she wants. She can do stuff 5 nights a week that precludes sex - which is putting them first those nights. I not only am ok with that I am happy with it. AS LONG AS I get my 2 nights. And when they were younger it was 3 or 4 or LOL - cannot imagine it anymore but 5 nights a week. So I am...
user's latest post:
urgent help!!!!! - Page 2
Published (2009-11-11 09:16:00)
hi..i dont blame my wife and yes im trying to regain her affection.If she was texting my buddie i would be carrying on more than what she has to me....all i want to do is fix things up and move on with our marriage....thanks
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Love, Depression, Booze - Page 26
Published (2009-11-13 23:01:00)
Man the wife is having such a hard time with handling life and pressure along with seperating priorities.. She was having a bad day at work and I was texting her. She really couldn't talk much which I understand but man after she got off work I never heard from her.. She would come home make dinner for her and the kids and her mother.. Then her shows were on. Mean while I worked until 7 and then went food shopping and didn't come...
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wife - kids first, me second? -...
Published (2009-11-13 15:41:00)
I think that it can be safely said that putting a spouse first is never at odds with good parenting if both husband and wife are mature and loving toward one another and their family.
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Compromise? or Taking Advantage?
Published (2009-11-04 18:28:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by StrongEnough It seems so much more real when I type it here and damn it is so embarrassing to think my life is like this. I am a strong woman and I would have never guessed I would be living like this. I have lost myself and am humiliated. I hear you, I am with ya! As women we have a tendency to tell ourselves the fairytale version of our relationships. Saying "he hit me" out loud brings that all...
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wife - kids first, me second?
Published (2009-11-12 13:53:00)
Cone- Nice to see you again I think the best marriages are where the wife and husband put each other first, and then the kids when they come along are second. In this way, the kids can feed off the security of the stable love-bond of the parents. Anything else is upside down. Think of it as a pyramid. The energy love and power comes down from the top (the parents) and filters down to the kids. If that bond is not strong - what are the kids...
user's latest post:
Men and their Sports
Published (2009-11-13 15:06:00)
i guess women are just has bad with hair nails and shopping my husband is always at least two shops in front of me lol
user's latest post:
I met him on Yahoo Personals
Published (2009-11-11 01:42:00)
you have no relationship you have 2 people pinging one another he's playing you big time and you know it
user's latest post:
did i get stood up?
Published (2009-11-11 10:00:00)
I wouldn't bring it up if I were you. Don't call her, don't text her. She would have texted you if she was anxious to see you. Of course, some women have a rule about not calling or persuing men. I would wait until the next time you see her in person. Depending on the situation, I would try to bring up in a joking manner how she stood you up. Then the ball is in her court and she will either kind of blow it off, or tell you that...
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Latest active threads on General Relationship Discussion::
Started 4 days, 9 hours ago (2009-11-11 05:07:00)
by andrew
urgent help!!!!!
Hi ,
1st time i've actually used or have been on one of these forums but i'm wiling to do anything. I have been married for 11 years now and have never had any major issues until now.
A few months ago i was caught being flirtaceous with my neigbour via sms. We had an agruement over it. I was pleading...
Started 23 hours, 59 minutes ago (2009-11-14 14:31:00)
by MarkTwain
danl-
Hello and welcome
Assuming your wife is not having an affair... (and she sounds too busy for that) -
Your wife is running on empty. And although you were an idiot for not supporting her over her mother's cancer, it's all in the past. That may have been when some of the rot set in, but really, you should not blame yourself too much. She sounds like she is on the verge of a ...
Started 2 days, 15 hours ago (2009-11-12 23:29:00)
by Blanca
i dont know what your story is exactly, but its just been my experience that sometimes people have an initial panic attack when they think they are going to lose someone, but they dont actually mean what they are saying.
i just think you should not let him in emotionally for awhile until he really proves its you he loves and its not just him acting selfishly.
Started 1 day, 23 hours ago (2009-11-13 15:02:00)
by breakable
Started 4 days, 4 hours ago (2009-11-11 09:37:00)
by WarmFront
It's Tough Living on the Road
My husband and I have been together for 6 and half years. We have 2 wonderful children, a dog, and we learned recently that we will be adding a 3rd kiddo to the ranks. Unfortunately, my husband's job requires that he travels.. a lot!
Until this year, I have always stayed at our home with the kids ...
Started 2 days, 16 hours ago (2009-11-12 22:03:00)
by MEM11363
I think you should print this and show it to him. It is very well written and it is heartfelt.
As a man - I know what it is like to feel financial stress. But it is wrong for him to take it out on you. It sounds like you really are doing the best you can.
Does he give you "credit" for the fact you are not having to pay rent due to your parents putting you two up?
Why is he...
Started 1 day, 13 hours ago (2009-11-14 00:31:00)
by JoLoPe
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Originally Posted by michell
Hi this is my first post.Dont really have anyone to talk too so thought I would try here.
I have been married for 15 years this christmas.We were friends for 5 years before we started dateing.I truly thought I knew him.Belived him to be sweet and romantic,fun and loyal.And for some reason I thought...
Started 3 days, 2 hours ago (2009-11-12 11:35:00)
by failedonce
She cheated once 7 yrs ago.
You caught her communications.
She go's over to play games overnight to friend.
She wants a no contest divorce.
My god sir, exit internet get a lawyer iron clad the agreement and be done with it.
She has her backdoor covered, via her mind or friend.
You are on the outs, and having been the victim 7 yrs ago.
This is an example of the ...
Started 1 day, 5 hours ago (2009-11-14 09:00:00)
by johnluvssarah
Yeah that sounds kind of weird. My first thought is that maybe he is curious about being with another man. I think most people wonder about same-sex sex but not to the extent of looking at pics and talking with other guys online. If this is something that you won't be able to get out of your mind while having sex with him I suggest you talk to him about it. Bringing it up will be awkward but it ...
Started 1 day, 5 hours ago (2009-11-14 08:33:00)
by Loving Husband
Sounds like you 2 should not have gotten married. Seems your views are off and it won't get better. I would cut your losses and leave.. There are things he expects that are more of his wants from you and nothing to do with the marriage. He wants you to be a different person..
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Hot threads for last week on General Relationship Discussion::
Started 4 days, 9 hours ago (2009-11-11 05:07:00)
by andrew
urgent help!!!!!
Hi ,
1st time i've actually used or have been on one of these forums but i'm wiling to do anything. I have been married for 11 years now and have never had any major issues until now.
A few months ago i was caught being flirtaceous with my neigbour via sms. We had an agruement over it. I was pleading...
Started 5 months ago (2009-06-16 15:05:00)
by humpty dumpty
oh and yes Trev has the biggest smile ever !!!!
Started 5 days, 23 hours ago (2009-11-09 15:19:00)
by cats101
Is this childish?
Recently, I had an agrument with my boyfriend. I was very hurt by certain things he said to me. I told him that I was very upset and told him not to call me the next day. I said that I was still going to be upset and needed a day to myself. I usually get like this when I get very upset. I feel like I need to stay ...
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-06 15:42:00)
by preso
Quote:
Originally Posted by Bel
Hi All,
Yesterday my boyfriend of 5 years told me he doesn't know if he loves me anymore.. Talk about being shocked! We bought a house together about 7 months ago and up until a few weeks ago I had no clue he felt that way.
You should focus on the mortgage you signed together...
Started 6 days ago (2009-11-09 13:50:00)
by dobo
You've already given us enough reason for you to forget about your ex-. Guilt is one thing, but this idea that you want to forget how bad things really were with her is another. You cheated on her -- with your current wife? If so, that could be part of the problem.
Yes, the first year of marriage can be difficult. But then yours is more difficult because you married against your ...
Started 3 days, 1 hour ago (2009-11-12 12:41:00)
by MEM11363
What does she do that makes you think you are a lower priority?
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Originally Posted by cone
I've been married for 2 years to a woman that already had 4 children. I love them like my own and accept them completely.
I also have two kids of my own.
I feel like I am not number one to her, sometimes not even equal...
Started 6 days, 1 hour ago (2009-11-09 13:10:00)
by Amplexor
What ever the relationship is with the other woman, end it now. You will never be able to recover your relationship with your wife with another in the picture. Even as an option. As for your wife, do you feel she takes advantage of your work around the house or does she simply not put any value on it? Consider reading The Five Languages of Love. It appears the two of you may be missing each...
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-11-06 12:32:00)
by MEM11363
You have been too nice. She sees you as weak. Women don't respect/love or have sex with men who are too nice.
This does not mean you should be a jerk. It does mean that when you feel you are right - and man - you are right about one thing - she is trying to control your entire life.
And that is wrong. You need to tell her that you are going to do a certain amount of stuff ...
Started 4 days, 10 hours ago (2009-11-11 04:24:00)
by luvhatemyhubby
Men and their Sports
Why are men so addicted to sports? My hubby has downloaded a sports radio called Sports in Air( iTunes Store ) on MY iPhone. He lost his iPhone and uses up credit on mine by playing stupid games like Alpha Shooter( iTunes Store ) and listening to news(only sports). GRRRRR!
I have tried telling him, shouting...
Started 4 days, 12 hours ago (2009-11-11 01:42:00)
by recent_cloud
you have no relationship
you have 2 people pinging one another
he's playing you
big time
and you know it
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