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user's latest post:
Pay the OW?
Published (2009-11-29 23:35:00)
No Contact is the rule. Stick to it.
user's latest post:
Re: I Cheated on My Husband...
Published (2009-11-25 01:54:00)
OK. I'll be the first to admit that compared to what most of you have gone through, I'm a big, fat p.u.s.s.y for hanging around the "coping" section. But unless there's some kind of rule that a cheater can't be forgiven and a marriage can't be salvaged, you all need to cut her some slack and give her the advice she seeks. I'll even be willing to take some of the heat by suggesting that SHE needs...
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I Cheated on My Husband... - Page 4
Published (2009-11-29 23:51:00)
It doesn't even make any sense if you are back in "ok" terms with your spouse...
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no wonder he likes watching...
Published (2009-11-29 22:15:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by noideato20 Ok heres my daily rant. Yesterday H put up the christmas lights. Then we are out in the yard looking at them and he proceeds to take pictures of the house with his cell phone. No doubt so he can send them to Jezabel. GeeeZzzz how stuck on yourself are you? Posted via Mobile Device The thought that she could look at pictures of Christmas lights the two of you put up and be callous enough to still want to...
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Whats behind the sudden change?
Published (2009-11-29 22:33:00)
Because everything hinges around a decision to cheat/cross the line. Before the decision to go ahead and cheat, there's not much to really worry about and cover up. But once the cheating starts, there's a lot to lose and things tend to get put in motion to defend against being caught and/or the character assassination of the cheated on spouse.
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no wonder he likes watching...
Published (2009-11-29 23:23:00)
Because some part still is hanging on.He knows he is wrong. If he does not move out on the 30th,you need to be the strong one and tell him to leave and that you do not appreciate him calling the home wrecker from your house and you do not appreciate him dragging this out as its to painful for you. He needs to make up his mind or you will need to do it for him,for your sanity.You also could allude to having a person interested in you,no need to...
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Please, let us continue...
Published (2009-11-29 21:53:00)
You can give the baby up for adoption. This way you won't have the abortion and the baby can be raised in a family that will love her/him.
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Sven's story and...
Published (2009-11-22 19:39:00)
Re: Sven's story and introduction If she is turning you down then I would watch out. I'm thinking she starting to be selfish. Meaning she only cares for herself. I was like that for some time and my exhusband couldn't take it anymore and cheated on me. I would give her another month to try to work with you on getting together, if she doesn't. She going to need to be pushed just enough so you can be heard and she must feel...
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Latest active threads on Coping with Infidelity::
Started 3 weeks, 1 day ago (2009-11-09 08:44:00)
by gdwright07
Discovered My Wife's Infidelity Last Night
Hi board,
Heres the story...Im sorry its long, but theres a lot to consider leading up to my wifes infidelity. My wife and I have been married for five years, Im 28 and shes 24. We met in the Navy. Shortly after we married, she went on a six month deployment. It was extremely ...
Started 1 month ago (2009-10-29 06:58:00)
by cody5
You've been a member longer than I and have enough posts for me to believe you've read as much, if not more, than I have. I, however, am unconnected to your situation where you are living in the belly of the beast, so to speak. In other words, your situaion is like any of the others I've read about so I can be objective where you cannot.
That being said, from a distance I am reading ...
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-23 23:04:00)
by jessi
Hi,
I'm sorry your husband has taken this approach, he is still not ready to totally forgive you for stepping outside the marriage.
Have you told him how you are feeling because of his actions? Maybe you push him a little and tell him that if he can't forgive you then maybe it's not going to work between the two of you. Or I suppose you might need to understand that because of your situation...
Started 1 day, 8 hours ago (2009-11-30 10:16:00)
by Victorianprude
X,
Sounds like you guys have amicable divorce coming, after all to give a free card means just that, honey go you go and enjoy yourself.
Yes, divorce and decontaminate yourself of this damaged relationship (baggage) and see what happens. This also gives you time to flutter your free wings remember you have been caged.
Started 3 days, 10 hours ago (2009-11-28 07:52:00)
by Sven
Robert, I am so sorry to hear this. You have a long road to cover.
First pointer is you must make it absolutely crystal clear that she must be open about her life and never lie to you. Even on the smallest detail.
Don't try too hard to fix the marriage. You need to hang back and let her try to fix the marriage. If you beg and plead and constantly try to convince her that everything ...
Started 1 day, 20 hours ago (2009-11-29 22:33:00)
by Atholk
Because everything hinges around a decision to cheat/cross the line. Before the decision to go ahead and cheat, there's not much to really worry about and cover up. But once the cheating starts, there's a lot to lose and things tend to get put in motion to defend against being caught and/or the character assassination of the cheated on spouse.
Started 1 month ago (2009-10-31 18:13:00)
by noideato20
i want to tell him because i think it would be fair for him to say yes im sleeping with this other girl thats why i dont want to hug you or tell you i luv you anymore instead of all that crap he told me
Posted via Mobile Device
Started 6 days, 1 hour ago (2009-11-25 16:46:00)
by frozensprouts
I may be way off here, is it possible that you are still upset about the affair? Did you get chance to be "angry" with her? If not, maybe telling her that you are angry at her ( if , in fact, you are angry- maybe you aren't, I don't know) and allowing yourself the time to let that anger out would help you.
best of luck and I hope you feel better soon.
Started 2 weeks, 3 days ago (2009-11-14 11:11:00)
by cody5
Hi Dee. I'm a bit of an expert on this topic. Please read through my thread on spouses, clubbing, and "legitimized infidelity" in this section. My wife, and other posters in that thread were drawn to nightclubs for the exact reason your pal took his buddies there: to "cheat" legitimately. It's just dancing, right? No harm no foul.
However, I and other spouses in my shoes have to deal ...
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Hot threads for last week on Coping with Infidelity::
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-23 23:04:00)
by jessi
Hi,
I'm sorry your husband has taken this approach, he is still not ready to totally forgive you for stepping outside the marriage.
Have you told him how you are feeling because of his actions? Maybe you push him a little and tell him that if he can't forgive you then maybe it's not going to work between the two of you. Or I suppose you might need to understand that because of your situation...
Started 1 week, 5 days ago (2009-11-19 15:51:00)
by dobo
Are you sure you are not punishing her for making herself attractive for the other guy and not you, by witholding sex? Personally, despite what she's done and how her weight has grown, I think you are wrong to withold sex from her. You elected to stay married. People don't get married to not have sex.
Started 1 month ago (2009-10-31 18:13:00)
by noideato20
i want to tell him because i think it would be fair for him to say yes im sleeping with this other girl thats why i dont want to hug you or tell you i luv you anymore instead of all that crap he told me
Posted via Mobile Device
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-23 08:47:00)
by Initfortheduration
Are you having sex with ben?
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-11-22 16:57:00)
by Idkwtd2009Nov
Is it good idea or bad idea to confront the other woman?
Part of me wants to ask her if she slept with my H. He denies it.
Part of me knows that this might give her the opportunity to dig her nails in deeper in my H.
We plan on working on our relationship and H says he will break off all ties. Should I leave it alone and trust him that he didn't sleep with her.
It is a ...
Started 3 weeks, 1 day ago (2009-11-09 08:44:00)
by gdwright07
Discovered My Wife's Infidelity Last Night
Hi board,
Heres the story...Im sorry its long, but theres a lot to consider leading up to my wifes infidelity. My wife and I have been married for five years, Im 28 and shes 24. We met in the Navy. Shortly after we married, she went on a six month deployment. It was extremely ...
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-23 02:29:00)
by michzz
I would like to read your LONG posting, but I cannot wade into it.
Please, please, please edit it to include paragraphs!
Started 2 days, 4 hours ago (2009-11-29 14:05:00)
by regret
I know I posted the story here without asking anyone anything....I just don't know what to do at this point. I couldn't sleep... he just woke up for a glass of water and....ignored me.
Could somebody please.... help me... and tell me what I can do right now? As ridiculous as it sounds... I am really broken hearted. Being pregnant and showing.... I don't know what to do, and I really don't ...
Started 6 days, 1 hour ago (2009-11-25 16:46:00)
by frozensprouts
I may be way off here, is it possible that you are still upset about the affair? Did you get chance to be "angry" with her? If not, maybe telling her that you are angry at her ( if , in fact, you are angry- maybe you aren't, I don't know) and allowing yourself the time to let that anger out would help you.
best of luck and I hope you feel better soon.
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-22 19:56:00)
by sunflower
Why is it that most stories you here about people are cheating with a close friend of there spouse or someone just way to close to home. Dont they get that ONE they will be caught and TWO when they do its going to KILL the other person.
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