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its been about 3 years that we r together .. VA is hell on earth .. I talked to him last night and told him that we should wait .. he said they are (ALL DR lawyers and the peeps@ the prison )having a meeting soon to decide about the visitations..

I had three checks on my own account that bounced and I couldn't pay so I failed to appear, so I have to misdemeanor warrants for my checks and one for failing to appear in another state from where he is. He says they are only looking for felony warrants. What do you think?

No family day, but they have a program they can qualify for that's called Day with Dad, they get to spend the whole day with their kids playing games and eating pizza and drinking cokes. They do it about every 90 days or so and you can't have any tickets on your record or you won't qualify. It's a really good program. They also have a marriage seminar once a month that is three days long.

Quote: Originally Posted by socal mom Boy those cops must have been bored. I would be thinking in terms of lawsuits too. How stupid. Maybe I am slow -= but what good would a credit card do for an inmate? How could they purchase something, unless they had a cell phone I suppose - also illegal in Calif., but the prison phones are supposedly monitored. I am sure there are many things going on I don't know about. they could take the numbers...

Sleep in carline at (close to) prison. lol--A of course and for the drive stop by starbucks on the way.

Well, I do hope you get your visits back. That will give you more time together and more time to decide if you are getting married for all the right reasons and expectations.

Quote: Originally Posted by BamaKathy I've never heard of a video visit. How do those work? you see the person on a little TV screen while basically talking on the phone with them. its a pathetic excuse for a visit.

Sweetheart, if he can't understand that marriage is far too serious a step to take without careful consideration then I think you need to truly have a few heart to hearts about what marriage means.... NOT about your relationship, but the actual nuts and bolts of marriage because no matter how much two people love each other, being married IS different than just being in a relationship.

Quote: Originally Posted by determined823 Sorry to hear about you getting denied. I know it's frustrating. It never happened to me, but I had a friend who was denied and told to get a disposition. She got it and sent it in and was approved. Hope it works for you too! Really? Thats exactly what i had to do too so im praying i get approved soon. i havent seen my baby in over 3 months

According the the back of the visiting questionnaire she might not have been able to refuse a strip search. Here's what it says: The following laws relate to prison visitation: Subject to search: Visitors entering the correctional institution, camp or facility grounds are subject to search of their person, vehicle and property. Except as described below, visitors may leave the institution, camp or facility grounds rather than submit to a...