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Ah, that's too bad... I was kinda hoping for, "He said yes!" Oh well. It sounds like you're really okay with it, anyway. Thanks for updating, and I hope all your holiday soirées are delightful!

You get what you pay for... could be 1001 reasons he closed his account... it's just the nature of the internet and a bottom of the barrel free dating site. Easy come, easy go (but he has your email, perhaps he will write... it's only been a day.). Don't let the tire kickers and the bad ones win... keep your account, open additional accounts elsewhere. You only need to find one good one. All the rest don't count. I will...

She'll probably get engaged or married while she's in Pakistan to a Pakistani man that her family has known for some time. That's usually what happens.

Thanks for all the input. Countryboy, your ideas are the sort of thing I'm really talking about. There apparently are ways of invoking good feelings. I guess like many things, first it takes awareness and then it takes practice. It's like making eye contact. That took a little time and effort. Before that, I was never even aware that I failed to do this important thing! Deborah. When I play with women, I just seem to get scratched!...

I'm saying this because my ex, in his pride and ego, refused to learn Spanish, and this was always a cause of friction with my family. Qué, el tio no quiso aprender? Then you have the discussions between saying Ca'yye a la Argentinean or Calle. Or calling a Carro, coche, or the Wawa instead of the Camion for a bus. Or that is muy padre. Or voz y tu.

lol did you have a good time or not?

It's really sad isn't it, that if she never said anything to him, he would still love her. So the fact that she brought up 83 men, totally changed his love for her. Hmmm.... makes me think. Is it that he doesn't love her anymore, or that he is just totally shocked at her looseness lol. This is why men and women both really shouldn't care too much about the past. Why do men want to know this, and even women for that matter?...

I have to admit, I'm really dense when it comes to the subtle signals women are alleged to make to let a guy know they're interested. Friends keep telling me it's true, but I honestly don't see it. I wish they'd just come right out and say, Hey, I had a great time, would you like to get together (again) some time?

These are the tough questions in life man. There's no real answer to your question. trust is the real key to disclosure, and trust is sometimes developed very quickly, and sometimes it has to be built over time. It is good, however, that you are in therapy. It helps develop the necessary skills needed in order to be able to alk these kinds of issues out without a violent emotional reaction to them. I myself was in therapy for a while...

You can deny all you can however the whole world knows that there are more ignorant and racist people in your country. Im not muslim,however i was hurt by the racist comment the previous guy made. My moron friend clearly didnt understand that we were having a culture discussion. According to him anyone who is not christian or from america is muslim. I must say that is the mentality of a lot of americans. And also some canadians. By far,...