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user's latest post:
Define...
Published (2009-11-28 17:13:00)
OP, I guess that I come down to this on the subject: 1) I agree with the mentality which SassySky mentioned, with the following caveat: treat the guy like how you would like to be treated. If you are at a point where you wouldn't mind if the guy came up to you and said, "Sorry Babe, I found another," then you're probably not exclusive. However, if you would be very hurt since you thought you had invested a lot into the...
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does relationship history...
Published (2009-11-28 18:28:00)
as long as she hasn't had FWB's and has exes who still hang around and text and such.....i don't care.
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does relationship history...
Published (2009-11-28 18:27:00)
History goes into the history book. Don't dwell on some thing you can not change and scarifie a good present and future.
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Define...
Published (2009-11-28 15:03:00)
edit: woops, lost my mind for a minute. now it's back.
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does relationship history...
Published (2009-11-28 18:16:00)
Not particularly. Unless they've left you damaged and broken and emotionally unavailable, I really couldn't care about your history. If they did, well it'll be obvious and we're probably not compatible anyway. We all have a past, I choose to look to the future having learned from my mistakes. I look for someone strong enough to do the same.
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So the ex text Free Dating,...
Published (2009-11-28 17:29:00)
I guess you have never been told that once you have sex with a man he has the right to you thereafter anytime he wants, as long as you are currently single. Please do your part. He is within his rights.
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So the ex text Free Dating,...
Published (2009-11-28 16:07:00)
I think you should text each other until the electro-magnetic spectrum can take no more, then maybe I won't have to deal with text messages ever again.
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hey guys Free Dating, Singles...
Published (2009-11-28 09:56:00)
Jesus OP, is this the same guy who "your friend" had problems with last week!?? Remember that thread you started? Frankly, you sound really immature, insecure, and waaay too clingy for someone your age.
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He said " Let's be...
Published (2009-11-27 23:55:00)
Oh Wack.. we need to find you a mole. Dont you know? ALL men are conniving, tricky, not to be believed Peni. It comes with the peni. Men are the root cause of ALL evil.. well.. except for that biotch EVE who forgot her douche during the WINTER months and handed that guy an APPLE to keep his mind off the smell. Yeah.. THAT was the beginning of all evil.. well.. that and that sneaky box set from Pandora.. I mean.. Pandora's BOX was NASTY....
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So the ex text Free Dating,...
Published (2009-11-28 16:43:00)
Since it obviously bothers you enough to ask about it here, you should communicate that concern to HIM as well. If you want it to stop, you have to tell him to stop first. If he continues, modern electronics makes it fairly easy to end all contact from him. All ex's can get horned up and want at least THAT part of the relationship to come back, but it really isn't healthy, IMO. For HIS sake as well as yours, I'd suggest you...
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Latest active threads on Ask A Guy::
Started 1 day, 14 hours ago (2009-11-28 16:03:00)
by Krebby2001
He gets horny now and then. If you're horny as well, go ahead and answer his, ah, texts. Otherwise, on account of, he doesn't say stuff like, "I still have feelings for you." that probably means that he's just horny. If you are, too, why, hey, do I need say more?
Started 2 days, 5 hours ago (2009-11-28 01:01:00)
by Justwaiting85
Why bring it up at all on a first date? Why not wait until there is some chemistry? It seems to me that you drop a bomb on guys so that they will either run off or give you some BS reason to think something is wrong with them like "they either are too eager to get together". And yes the amount of sex you get in a relationship can be a deal breaker weather you are a guy or girl. If your ...
Started 1 day, 14 hours ago (2009-11-28 15:31:00)
by Justwaiting85
All that really matters is how compatible we are.
Started 1 day, 17 hours ago (2009-11-28 13:06:00)
by indefatigabilis
After a girl feels me up, we're exclusive. I respect myself. From my side, if I am interested in someone, then why would I want to date anyone else, and if I am not interested, then why would I want to date her? This modern dating that you youngsters do is confused. Get together with the person. Notice if you like being with them. Yes, no, or maybe. Maybe is the same as no. If yes, see ...
Started 2 days, 2 hours ago (2009-11-28 03:45:00)
by kornbluth
it's obvious it was a cut and paste job, so my question to you men is if you had great banter with someone then you get some wacked out email, would that kill your interest? Sure would. To many people, e-mail means nothing but relaying FWs. Mash a button and, poof, they're big-city editors and arbiters of public affairs. What would you get from a roomful of chimps with keyboards? More damned...
Started 1 day, 18 hours ago (2009-11-28 11:31:00)
by ArsenicAndOldLace
The ones who email and ignore the whole profile are the ones that are not worthy of an explanation when they get deleted. No need to respond to an azzhat.
Started 1 day, 21 hours ago (2009-11-28 09:26:00)
by quatrequinze
Sometimes, we're too lazy to text back, or it just slips our mind. Sometimes, we pass out on the bed and completely forget in the morning. Guys don't really think these things matter, like texting back to say good night (but we do try to). We'll just think everything is good, not knowing we're making the other person worried, and not knowing that our text message back to them would help them ...
Started 2 days, 11 hours ago (2009-11-27 19:11:00)
by NotSoLuckyLuke
Yes guys can have friends that just so happen to be girls if you havent done anything further than lunchs and email it should be fine its the woman he's with that might stop the talk all together if she thinks he may have ever had real feeling for you but there might be a chance that after they break up you will be the one that is emotionally avalible to him ( the rebound)
Started 2 days, 3 hours ago (2009-11-28 03:25:00)
by rainman12
Umm...well...as A White Guy...I don't use it, but I know people that do...chances are they're probably (somewhat at the very least) racist. I work with Chinese kids, but I'd never call them chinks just out of fun (...unless they call me gweilo first).
Started 3 days, 2 hours ago (2009-11-27 04:19:00)
by Kyle4phun
an interested male will take the lead... don't accidentally fool yourself into thinking otherwise... then again... maybe he is interested and just is too shy... i dunno... i dont understand that
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Hot threads for last week on Ask A Guy::
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-11-20 22:36:00)
by J daddy
Sorry Elisabeth, I also have a thread posted on here about a similar situation with me. Basically, you can't force anyone to like or love you. Even though he is sending mixed signals, there is nothing you can do about it. Hope you find someone who has it together and knows that they want you without flip-flopping their emotions. Best of luck to you!
Started 6 days, 12 hours ago (2009-11-23 18:10:00)
by Stray__Cat
This could be one of those needy questions. Alluded to in another of your threads. Asking us lugs won't help you with your guy. You'll just compare notes and be disgruntled.... and needy. It's nice to get a gift. But don't define your relationship by em. If he's a quality guy he'll treat you right. IF not, well....find one who does.
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-21 07:58:00)
by OpenHeart928
Men do this for the same reason some women show pictures of themselves in a bra, or a bikini -- to show off some skin and to attract someone looking on that level, or to at least put it out there plainly about what the physical package looks like. There are plenty of people on this site -- male and female -- who are seeking carnal knowledge of strangers. In fact, if you do a thorough tour of ...
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-21 13:07:00)
by *Cowboy*
Ok so I am just being nosey back... So if your get 20 replies here from guys of different heights and weight and race and drinking and smoking habits how can that help you. We all have different criteria for what we search for and weigh each thing differently. I want a FUN slim cute gal.... So the next guy may have totally different tastes. And we have 10 million members. See how this ...
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-21 18:21:00)
by ReBluez
The key to what you've written was... he was doing all those things BEFORE he slept with you, and promptly pulled back afterward. The mystery of having sex with you is over. I doubt he ever really wanted anything long term, he just wanted to have you scratch his itch. Now that you have, he's done. Bluez
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-21 16:34:00)
by Crooner23
Different guys have different preferences. Some guys like doing the pursuing others like to be pursued. In general, most guys like being pursued. It boosts the ego and makes us feel better about ourselves. So I would say, go for it.
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-22 00:06:00)
by Landra2
I'd have to agree with you.
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-21 13:02:00)
by raxarsr
just like you did right here should be fine
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-23 05:53:00)
by Heptone
At 28-years of age, "I don't think we are going anywhere," isn't a good sign. That's a good thing to say when you're 65 and about to nail two rocking chairs to the front porch, but not when you're 28 and have dreams of buying a family and marrying a house and cooking up some c0ckerpoodles. I don't think you have to split hairs on what it means, I think you have to figure out what it is you ...
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-21 18:34:00)
by RustyStrummer
It's best for you to state specific intentions, but it probably goes against your instincts. Im guessing that if you were to go ahead and list your expectations you might scare somebody off, and then what? The gradual withdraw is a sign. Undoubtedly. Don't let it upset you though, it happens all the time.
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