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user's latest post:
Drama Containment
Published (2009-12-01 21:01:00)
i agree with Edward E's suggestion, and i add the following as another option. turn it into an opportunity for that person to be empowered. say to the person, "i understand that situation is difficult for you. how can you fix it?" (notice i said "you" not "we" because it sounds like you have no desire to be a partner in solving whatever it may be.) actually, this idea came from a SciAm...
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Does Steve Have Asperger's?...
Published (2009-12-01 21:18:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Steve Pavlina I am ENTJ (with a moderate E and more extreme on the NTJ). Finally an accurate diagnosis. Now what is Erin? Hmmm, that's what I'm coming up with these days as well. I shifted from an INFP to ENTJ over the past year. Perhaps that's the influence that you've had on me through your blogs and stuff. *dunno* As for the threadstarter, this is the most ridiculous thing I've ever...
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The best decision I ever made:...
Published (2009-12-01 22:28:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by aelle Oh dear. This happened to my Danish friend a couple months ago. Except she wasn't bagged in 30 minutes. She bashed the guy's head on the counter top till she broke his nose, and told him she wouldn't stop there if she saw him in her neighborhood again. Don't mess with punks' personal space. Well, that's one way to cope with her vulnerability!
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How many shots at true love do...
Published (2009-11-30 14:33:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by brendannz They say don't give up, but don't you guys think that sometimes giving up your ego attachment towards things that that's when it shows up at your doorstep? Thing is, I thought I'd kind of managed that in this area, for a time anyway. Hmmm.. z's are coming, eyelids falling. Night night.
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Get off on a cartoon?
Published (2009-12-01 00:31:00)
I'm quite the fan of this artist: the art of Phil Noto
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How many shots at true love do...
Published (2009-12-01 22:39:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by ravrbrat well i got my first email a week ago, and one of the matches that their system offered to me was - myself. i guess i must be a really weird person, just like you supposedly are. haha! Haha, excellent! I think this is a sign. Ya know, "learning to love yourself, it is the greatest love of all."
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Social Dynamics 101
Published (2009-12-01 12:05:00)
[QUOTE=cylon;456232] Quote: "Its that Ive ALWAYS been an extrovert hiding out in an introverts clothes." I think everyone's an introvert and an extravert, and some people definitely have strong tendancies towards one or the other, but defining yourself entirely by some psychology book is a bit limiting IMO. Quote: This is great. Seems to me you and I are coming to some similar conclusions in life. One of the most...
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The best decision I ever made:...
Published (2009-11-30 21:59:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by cylon I think the point of this thread is that women don't like to admit they are vulnerable. Oh, for sure. I'm pretty sure guys also don't like to admit they're vulnerable to being used as an ATM by women who have no other use for them. Of course, the solution to that is for guys to not let themselves be used as an ATM. I take the same approach, from the female perspective.
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broke up 2 years ago and...
Published (2009-12-01 19:31:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by ravrbrat OK so after all that long rambling, here's my issue. I don't know what to do. Should I cut her out of my life? Should I take it as an opportunity from the universe for me to tell her honestly how I still feel about her, and hope for the best from there? First of all, just because it is a female/female relationship does not mean that it is an adult themed post... if people cannot handle it, it is...
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Latest active threads on Social & Relationships::
Started 3 days, 11 hours ago (2009-11-30 01:04:00)
by Angela
Gracestars, this is one thing I am as sure of as I can be: as long as you are alive, there is the opportunity for true loin-known love. I don't know if I can convince you of that, but I hope it helps to be reassured that there is someone out there (moi) who doesn't just believe it is so -- she knows it, deeply and thoroughly, sure as I'm having pudding for dessert. Quote:...
Started 1 day ago (2009-12-02 12:15:00)
by Blanks00
Massive generalisation: germans are really nice and really easy to get on with.
If you're meeting someone you don't know, it's a lot more relaxed to do an activity, like go to a gallery or just walk around town, than to 'go for a drink'. If you're doing an activity, there's no such thing as an awkward silence, if you're having drinks there definitely is
Started 3 days, 10 hours ago (2009-11-30 01:51:00)
by Blanks00
I welcome and in fact look forward to any (intelligent and open-minded) questions or comments about this.
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-26 04:56:00)
by PerDev
How To Set Boundaries With People?
How To Set Boundaries With People?
Specially close relatives and friends ?
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-24 21:00:00)
by Angela
What's the problem? Just find a couple of more guys/girls. Why squelch your own natural fabulous feminine energy when you could enjoy expressing and sharing it with people who would be absolutely delighted to celebrate it with you?
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-25 18:41:00)
by mikethedrummer44
I think I would just go over to their house and talk to them about it. I wouldn't be mad, just curious as to why they needed to steal my bin. They might have made a simple mistake, or they might want to recycle but not know where to get their own bin. It might be helpful to tell them where you got yours so they can get your own. Also, if you confront them like this, it's unlikely this event will ...
Started 1 day, 4 hours ago (2009-12-02 08:14:00)
by Indiana
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Originally Posted by Johnny Skosnik I'm going to a convention attended by an artist I greatly admire. I'd like to start a friendship with her (long-distance, she's 1,500 miles away), nothing heavy, just a simple on-line relationship. Problem is I'm unsure what *I* can offer her--she's got her own network, of course--or how to go about it.
Approach is easy: ...
Started 1 day, 12 hours ago (2009-12-02 00:15:00)
by spirit4711
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Originally Posted by jinkster
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The problem seems to be with me
... First of all, forget this one. You are not the problem, and neither is he. The problem as I see it is that both of you want different things in a relationship.
Compromises won't work either.
It is up to you both to respect each others values, get clarity on them and then ...
Started 1 day, 15 hours ago (2009-12-01 20:40:00)
by Eduard E
Hey Striver,
I've had my fair share of people sharing their dramas with me. It used to be fun to listen to them at first, but eventually I found it pointless and got bored.
My first piece of advice is just practice changing the subject when you don't wanna listen to the drama anymore. You don't even need to do it smoothly. They may not get the point. Say: "Aha. OK. Hey, what's a good ...
Started 4 days, 4 hours ago (2009-11-29 07:26:00)
by OlderWiser
There are full-on fetish cartoons, in fact, and cartoons that are drawn specifically for the fetish appeal.
My husband has a saying. If you can think of it, somebody's got a fetish for it. (And probably at least one website about it! )
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Hot threads for last week on Social & Relationships::
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-25 00:33:00)
by brendannz
I remember when I read "The Game" there was this guy who idolised Style and basically turned himself into a Style Mini-Me,
so congratulations for not turning yourself into a hero-worshipper of those guys.
Yeah some friends introduced me to the "community" but I could never get into it, I can only really 'just be myself.' Plus my friend who is into it got dissed by his mates for not knowing...
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-11-24 07:42:00)
by Plays With Life
Here's an interesting site with the top 10 " pornographic" images for women: Jason Rohrblogger's Top Ten...: TOP TEN PORNOGRAPHIC IMAGES FOR WOMEN
Ladies? What do you think? Yes / no?
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-26 02:45:00)
by Indiana
I think avatars have made everyone nicer.
Doesn't it seem a bit like everyone's more chilled out and friendly round here in the last week or so?
Is it the avatars? Or is it Thanksgiving and the approach of Christmas?!
Started 3 days, 11 hours ago (2009-11-30 01:04:00)
by Angela
Gracestars, this is one thing I am as sure of as I can be: as long as you are alive, there is the opportunity for true loin-known love. I don't know if I can convince you of that, but I hope it helps to be reassured that there is someone out there (moi) who doesn't just believe it is so -- she knows it, deeply and thoroughly, sure as I'm having pudding for dessert. Quote:...
Started 2 years, 9 months ago (2007-02-17 18:07:00)
by Little Deb
After taking a varety IQ tests, my score is anywhere from 110 to 120. However, my emotional health has held me back from learning to drive a car, and basically getting a job outside the fast food industry. I do think abstractly, which helps me with my photography and teaching myself to play mandolin (a very difficult choice, or so I hear!) When I was a child I was labeled a "slow learner", ...
Started 2 weeks, 3 days ago (2009-11-16 11:23:00)
by marinik
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Originally Posted by Coffeesmurf
I absolutely hate being a 'nice guy' and any and all suggestions are very welcome! I know this might seem funny but try reading the book Amazon.com: Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship (9781580627566): Sherry Argov: Books and just turn it around. This...
Started 3 days, 10 hours ago (2009-11-30 01:51:00)
by Blanks00
I welcome and in fact look forward to any (intelligent and open-minded) questions or comments about this.
Started 4 days, 4 hours ago (2009-11-29 07:26:00)
by OlderWiser
There are full-on fetish cartoons, in fact, and cartoons that are drawn specifically for the fetish appeal.
My husband has a saying. If you can think of it, somebody's got a fetish for it. (And probably at least one website about it! )
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-24 21:00:00)
by Angela
What's the problem? Just find a couple of more guys/girls. Why squelch your own natural fabulous feminine energy when you could enjoy expressing and sharing it with people who would be absolutely delighted to celebrate it with you?
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-25 18:41:00)
by mikethedrummer44
I think I would just go over to their house and talk to them about it. I wouldn't be mad, just curious as to why they needed to steal my bin. They might have made a simple mistake, or they might want to recycle but not know where to get their own bin. It might be helpful to tell them where you got yours so they can get your own. Also, if you confront them like this, it's unlikely this event will ...
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