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user's latest post:
Self Hate and Low Self Esteem
Published (2009-11-13 01:56:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by brendannz The perfect parents may be just as destructive.. True. That is why its important for children to see their parents as human: "Wow, that is scary!" or "I am sorry, I was wrong," or "I am not feeling good right now. I need a break."
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What you do if you are bored and...
Published (2009-11-13 04:33:00)
WHy? do girl friends have better solutions ? What should be there name Quote: Originally Posted by me2c Do you have a girlfriend?
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Self Hate and Low Self Esteem
Published (2009-11-13 14:32:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by dulaney0330 Robert Firestone's works:Fantasy Bond and Fear of Intimacy have really provided deep and remarkably simplistic insight into my own intimacy issues. In Fantasy Bond, he theorizes that self hate and low self-esteem "Stem from an idealization of the parents and the introjection of their covertly rejecting attitudes." I couldn't agree more. I felt rejected by both parents and...
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Stumbling block with LoA -...
Published (2009-11-14 00:14:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Manuel For example, I think that if you believe people are rude, you seem to run into more rude people in your life. But I don't think this is because you are attracting them TO you, but because your mind is focused on that idea so much, you simply NOTICE these people a lot more in your life. If you believe people are rude! Then you will attract RUDE people through this belief.. because all beliefs are...
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Is worrying always negative?
Published (2009-11-14 10:06:00)
just about any question that includes the word "always" will get a "no" from me. there will be exceptions. if excessive worry spurs us into action, that can be positive. but if a person simply sits there fretting about a hypothetical, that just creates more heavy emotional energy in my view. and if we can't really do anything to prevent the outcome we're concerned about, to me it seems like energy...
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Reading Minds!
Published (2009-11-13 10:30:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by The Cloud I know exactly what you mean. I'm not ready to lose myself either. I have this sense of fear, like there is some terrible emotion hovering over me, the cost of losing myself, and if I look up it will strike. So I cower and I crawl and pretend that that's having control my life, all for fear of this pain I cannot face. But no matter how cleverly I cower and crawl, I can't change the thing...
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Problem with blushing - Page 2
Published (2009-11-14 11:27:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Groovebox If anyone has any good advice on how to get blushing under control I would love to hear it. ... buy some brown cosmetic ??.
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My little voice inside my head...
Published (2009-11-13 11:52:00)
What a coincidence: I sometimes have a voice like that too! I think we all have, at least with some people. It can relate to feeling inferior to them or not being happy with your life/job. One advice, which I've been giving a lot lately, is look into CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy). It has some interesting techniques for changing your self-talk. I use them a lot for myself and with clients and they're the most effective tool for...
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Reading Minds!
Published (2009-11-07 17:19:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Andrew Gubb This is a hunch, but maybe you aren't attracted to them because they are too invasive and they hide their sexuality by trying to be "friends" with you. They don't understand the sexual game, or they wouldn't be trying to sneak under your radar with a nice guy act. A woman needs to be warmed up. It sounds like they have internalized the belief that the best way to get a...
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Is worrying always negative?
Published (2009-11-14 09:32:00)
Worrying always has a positive intention, but someone said that 90% of what we worry about doesn't happen, so it's usually got a negative outcome.
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Latest active threads on Emotional Mastery::
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-11-06 18:45:00)
by The Cloud
First off, I can almost guarantee that most (or all) of your guy friends have some sexual interest in you. That doesn't necessarily mean that their only intention is to sleep with you, though. In fact, that might not be their intention at all, but rather just something they'd be open to. I'm a guy, and while I do have an attractive female friend that I've no interest in sleeping with, she's ...
Started 1 week, 5 days ago (2009-11-03 19:44:00)
by Alex Wu
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the main reason i wrote this thread is to ask you all, is my life worth living?
The short answer is a definite yes. You're going to feel a lot of emotions, so be patient with yourself. First, there's no need to tell anyone in your life anything... only do that when you're ready and only when it serves your best interests.
Second, connect with some ...
Started 2 days, 17 hours ago (2009-11-13 11:41:00)
by Eduard E
Hmm... I can think of one right now, and it's about public speaking: me being in front of 200 people, talking about success, and having every person in the audience looking at me. Knowing that I have an open channel of communication with all those people and I can influence them with structured sounds that come out of my mouth. Awesome. What can I say: I love public speaking.
Started 1 year, 10 months ago (2008-01-18 03:11:00)
by placebo
Yeah, it heappens to me sometimes. Usually when i care about something too much. Answer : don't care so much.
Started 6 days, 12 hours ago (2009-11-09 16:43:00)
by aggie
i'll take mice and snakes any day... don't bother me at all!
heights, bridges, bridges over water...affects me physically.
i am afraid of my phobia.... for real!
Started 1 day, 20 hours ago (2009-11-14 09:20:00)
by Tanja
Could you give an example?
IMO, worrying too much is debilitating, it's fear based.
What could help you achieve greater results is a bit of adrenalin rush, but not in terms of being afraid, it's more of a feeling of expectancy. That's at least how it sometimes works in my case.
Started 2 weeks, 2 days ago (2009-10-30 06:11:00)
by Anagogy
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Originally Posted by Froztwolf Hi everyone.
I've been listening to a lot of Abraham-Hicks tapes recently about Law of Attraction. I was familiar with it before but decided to take some time and really try to master the concept.
While everything else seems to click into place there is one thing that I can't quite put together. They say that there is no ...
Started 3 days, 11 hours ago (2009-11-12 17:58:00)
by Angela
It's your gremlin speaking -- your identity-level limiting decision getting reactivated. When you disconnect the limiting decision, you'll be transparent to anything and everything anyone might say to you -- you'll still be able to HEAR it and respond appropriately, you just won't be at the effect of it anymore. It won't push your buttons.
Started 6 days, 19 hours ago (2009-11-09 10:15:00)
by Eduard E
I'd say, start with examining your thoughts and your internal dialog. Look fr negative, irrational and dramatized thinking. This is in my perspective the only think that can make all around you look dull and unmotivating. Reality is not that way, it's just your interpretation.
Do this and who knows what you'll find in there? Then, like in a lot of cases, it's probably a mater of changing ...
Started 3 days, 23 hours ago (2009-11-12 05:44:00)
by ChrisB
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Originally Posted by dulaney0330 Robert Firestone's works:Fantasy Bond and Fear of Intimacy have really provided deep and remarkably simplistic insight into my own intimacy issues.
In Fantasy Bond, he theorizes that self hate and low self-esteem
"Stem from an idealization of the parents and the introjection of their covertly rejecting attitudes."
I ...
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Hot threads for last week on Emotional Mastery::
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-11-06 18:45:00)
by The Cloud
First off, I can almost guarantee that most (or all) of your guy friends have some sexual interest in you. That doesn't necessarily mean that their only intention is to sleep with you, though. In fact, that might not be their intention at all, but rather just something they'd be open to. I'm a guy, and while I do have an attractive female friend that I've no interest in sleeping with, she's ...
Started 6 days, 19 hours ago (2009-11-09 10:15:00)
by Eduard E
I'd say, start with examining your thoughts and your internal dialog. Look fr negative, irrational and dramatized thinking. This is in my perspective the only think that can make all around you look dull and unmotivating. Reality is not that way, it's just your interpretation.
Do this and who knows what you'll find in there? Then, like in a lot of cases, it's probably a mater of changing ...
Started 6 days, 12 hours ago (2009-11-09 16:43:00)
by aggie
i'll take mice and snakes any day... don't bother me at all!
heights, bridges, bridges over water...affects me physically.
i am afraid of my phobia.... for real!
Started 1 week, 5 days ago (2009-11-03 19:44:00)
by Alex Wu
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the main reason i wrote this thread is to ask you all, is my life worth living?
The short answer is a definite yes. You're going to feel a lot of emotions, so be patient with yourself. First, there's no need to tell anyone in your life anything... only do that when you're ready and only when it serves your best interests.
Second, connect with some ...
Started 5 days, 15 hours ago (2009-11-10 14:18:00)
by themaster
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-07 23:53:00)
by rei
yes i have dealt with avoiding conflict. i don't like how it feels in my energy to get in verbal or physical arguments. but i also don't simply do nothing if i feel mistreated.
i think the key is to make small steps. sometimes things can be worked out without direct conflict, sometimes not. also, how to best deal with avoidance of conflict depends on the reasons for avoiding it.
if we ...
Started 3 days, 23 hours ago (2009-11-12 05:44:00)
by ChrisB
Quote:
Originally Posted by dulaney0330 Robert Firestone's works:Fantasy Bond and Fear of Intimacy have really provided deep and remarkably simplistic insight into my own intimacy issues.
In Fantasy Bond, he theorizes that self hate and low self-esteem
"Stem from an idealization of the parents and the introjection of their covertly rejecting attitudes."
I ...
Started 5 days, 9 hours ago (2009-11-10 20:11:00)
by themaster
Yep, it's hard for some people to understand the idea of being happy with "no reason" just reminding me.. makes me happy
The idea is we all need to channel our 5 year old selves and will all be just fine
Started 3 days, 11 hours ago (2009-11-12 17:58:00)
by Angela
It's your gremlin speaking -- your identity-level limiting decision getting reactivated. When you disconnect the limiting decision, you'll be transparent to anything and everything anyone might say to you -- you'll still be able to HEAR it and respond appropriately, you just won't be at the effect of it anymore. It won't push your buttons.
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-11-07 01:36:00)
by dulaney0330
How do you handle frustrating situations?
For example, today probably was one of the most frustrating days I have experienced.
I am a dog walker and I was just exiting out of the driveway from my last client when I misjudged the cement and landed in the small ditch beside it. My axle was grinding against the cement and and the tire had no friction.
So I was stuck. While I was ...
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