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user's latest post:
Oprah.com Community: 3 months...
Published (2010-01-05 10:10:00)
There is much strength in your words, subooru....you are a wise woman for sure. The support we all have received and given to others is a real loving gift...I too have always loved and been grateful for the incredible support found here.....it is something we can reach out to any old time...when we need it the most....re-reading if necessary and writing our heart's words. 64girl, I love what you have posted about watching....yes..that IS...
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Oprah.com Community: Ur Husband ...
Published (2009-12-30 10:36:00)
Yes I would talk to her but I am unable because of her emotional state she is obviously not seeing things very clearly. Since it seems she is floating in a cloud of lies and deception she is going to see what she wants to. He has lied to me concerning various things and I am aware of that. I do believe he has not lied about ones he has been with in the past but only one that he wants to be with in the future. His wife still views me as a...
user's latest post:
Oprah.com Community: Married...
Published (2009-12-31 15:32:00)
64girl- You are very smart. You triggered the self condidence thing and I was thinking that I am pretty confident. BUT was so unhappy about my weight and would never buy anything for myself. I was 45 lbs overweight. But when I started talking to the OM I felt better about myself and starting losing weight because we were planning on seeing eachother. Long story short, I lost 20 lbs, bought new clothes at Nordstrom because I wanted a sales...
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Oprah.com Community: 3 months...
Published (2010-01-05 07:36:00)
64girl you are so right to say what it is she wants in a relationship. It is time for her to think about herself. GREAT ADVICE!
user's latest post:
Oprah.com Community: Is...
Published (2009-12-29 00:30:00)
At least we agree that the media is causing this problem. I put soap operas in the same basket. Let me be clear- I'm not advocating a complete turning off of TV and the media, I am advocating an element of responsibility on the writers, authors- the people behind this content. The first amendment cannot be a blanket justification for some of the stuff on TV. And I don't think what I'm doing about it has any relevance to the...
user's latest post:
Oprah.com Community: Married...
Published (2009-12-30 18:36:00)
"On Christmas Eve I received another test wishing me a Merry Christmas. I ignored it. About three days later I received another on asking about my Christmas. I ignored it. But then I gave in and text him and asked about his Christmas. Dumb but I was happy to hear from him. He never responded. So I send him another one the next day and asked if he kept the gift I gave him. He responded by telling me to stop contacting him and to leave him...
user's latest post:
Oprah.com Community: Is my best...
Published (2010-01-03 00:17:00)
Wow, haven't seen a post on this thread for a while. So what ever happened to Rita? Has anyone kept in PM contact with her?
user's latest post:
Oprah.com Community: Married...
Published (2010-01-03 14:29:00)
Where is your pride and dignity? Is attention so crucial to you? This affair is not about him, its about you and your inadequacies. Women who have affairs with married men, need to ask why themselves why they are so desperate to play second fiddle to anyone. One of the women in Tiger woods, said i thought i was the only one.All married men say the same thing. A friend of mine who was married and also cheated on her husband, same story...he...
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Latest active threads on Infidelity::
Started 3 months ago (2009-10-03 17:43:00)
by open4now
Hi deacab,
There are many of us here who have had similar experiences...I don't have much time today to write but read your post and just wanted to reach out and tell you that you are not alone.....so many of our husbands were not in love with the other woman and had no intention of leaving their marriages.....it is an exasperating experience that we hae been through...and I feel for you ...
Started 1 week ago (2009-12-30 15:35:00)
by dulcette
When BOTH of you aren't willing to do what it takes to make it work!
Sounds like he may have already made the decision for himself.
Dulcette
Keep it simple-don't overcomplicate everything - My Motto for 2010
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-12-28 12:15:00)
by abc9999
Hey sub, I was just thinking about how things are going with you the other day and noticed that you have not posted in a while. It has been nine months since my discovery and we still have our ups and downs. My H said the same thing yours says about just "needing to get over it and move on" . I have told him that I have forgiven him(I truly have) but that the forgetting is the hard part. ...
Started 3 days, 11 hours ago (2010-01-03 18:10:00)
by dulcette
In each moment of our lives, we must make a choice.
You didn't ask a specific question, but if your question is "What should I do?".
You already know that answer, but I will help you with your inner voice. Tell this gentleman exactly how you feel. Be very specific with your current state of emotions with him.
Then let him know that you must live with your own conscious at the end ...
Started 9 months ago (2009-04-09 10:53:00)
by 64girl
nfaith777:
Well, I'm not an OW so I cannot give her persepctive. But I will tell you what I have learned from my experience (being the betrayed spouse). First off many women cannot be trusted. Unfortunately they are gossipy, caddy, and will stab you in the back. I have learned that through my 45 years of being on this earth. And I have seen it with my daughters as well. I first ...
Started 3 weeks ago (2009-12-16 22:39:00)
by mdbsmith
You need to tell your husband everything. he has a right to know that you don't love him enough to be faithful to him. You said you didn't to tell him because it would ruin everything. Well don't worry about that because you have already done that! Instead of worrying about your self here maybe you should think about your husband for once. you gave him what he wanted and that was just a little ...
Started 11 months, 2 weeks ago (2009-01-26 22:41:00)
by peaceyma
I'm not clear on your post. Did you have an affair with him or was it just that he kissed you? Nor do I understand why your BF's mom would verbally assault your MIL. Why would she do that? I could see her saying something to you but what did your MIL have to do with any of this? I think we need more info to help you.
Started 4 months, 1 week ago (2009-09-01 08:58:00)
by peaceyma
In my opinion they should not be going out alone together. Thing is if your husband KNOWS that Anns husband is so jealous he should RESPECT that and not do anything to rock the boat, such as taking her out with him alone. In my opinion that is disrespecful to her husband as well as to you. The fact that he gets defensive about doing it (when he knows her husband is jealous man) and knows how ...
Started 1 week ago (2009-12-31 05:34:00)
by open4now
I feel for you. To answer your question...Yes, it is possible to heal a relationship from infidelity but it is no easy task. It depends on the willingness of each partner....it takes a very strong determination from both of you to get through all the pain, anger, heartache, remorse, guilt, grief, fear, lack of trust. Only you know if he has that kind of determination.....the fact that he doesn't...
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-12-28 21:25:00)
by 64girl
I have questions for you! Why are you being coached what to say? If you feel strongly about your beliefs to the wife..........and it sounds like you are compassionate................why do you listen to "him"? Why not say what your heart leads you to? As you have done on this site. You say you begged him to leave you alone. Hmmm, strange! If you indeed new what kind of man he was (you ...
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Hot threads for last week on Infidelity::
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-12-28 12:15:00)
by abc9999
Hey sub, I was just thinking about how things are going with you the other day and noticed that you have not posted in a while. It has been nine months since my discovery and we still have our ups and downs. My H said the same thing yours says about just "needing to get over it and move on" . I have told him that I have forgiven him(I truly have) but that the forgetting is the hard part. ...
Started 3 weeks ago (2009-12-16 22:39:00)
by mdbsmith
You need to tell your husband everything. he has a right to know that you don't love him enough to be faithful to him. You said you didn't to tell him because it would ruin everything. Well don't worry about that because you have already done that! Instead of worrying about your self here maybe you should think about your husband for once. you gave him what he wanted and that was just a little ...
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-12-28 21:25:00)
by 64girl
I have questions for you! Why are you being coached what to say? If you feel strongly about your beliefs to the wife..........and it sounds like you are compassionate................why do you listen to "him"? Why not say what your heart leads you to? As you have done on this site. You say you begged him to leave you alone. Hmmm, strange! If you indeed new what kind of man he was (you ...
Started 1 week ago (2009-12-30 15:35:00)
by dulcette
When BOTH of you aren't willing to do what it takes to make it work!
Sounds like he may have already made the decision for himself.
Dulcette
Keep it simple-don't overcomplicate everything - My Motto for 2010
Started 1 week ago (2009-12-31 05:34:00)
by open4now
I feel for you. To answer your question...Yes, it is possible to heal a relationship from infidelity but it is no easy task. It depends on the willingness of each partner....it takes a very strong determination from both of you to get through all the pain, anger, heartache, remorse, guilt, grief, fear, lack of trust. Only you know if he has that kind of determination.....the fact that he doesn't...
Started 3 days, 11 hours ago (2010-01-03 18:10:00)
by dulcette
In each moment of our lives, we must make a choice.
You didn't ask a specific question, but if your question is "What should I do?".
You already know that answer, but I will help you with your inner voice. Tell this gentleman exactly how you feel. Be very specific with your current state of emotions with him.
Then let him know that you must live with your own conscious at the end ...
Started 3 months ago (2009-10-03 17:43:00)
by open4now
Hi deacab,
There are many of us here who have had similar experiences...I don't have much time today to write but read your post and just wanted to reach out and tell you that you are not alone.....so many of our husbands were not in love with the other woman and had no intention of leaving their marriages.....it is an exasperating experience that we hae been through...and I feel for you ...
Started 1 week, 4 days ago (2009-12-26 08:25:00)
by 64girl
Its an interesting perspecitve but should we go the way of the movies and accept everything they advoicate.? WE have to remember, its just a movie. Remember the movie where the woman is a cheap hooker and meets Richard Gear , a millionaire and ends up marrying him.........is that realistic? Movies are entertaining but they are certainly not relialy. Just think of everything else media and ...
Started 4 months, 1 week ago (2009-09-01 08:58:00)
by peaceyma
In my opinion they should not be going out alone together. Thing is if your husband KNOWS that Anns husband is so jealous he should RESPECT that and not do anything to rock the boat, such as taking her out with him alone. In my opinion that is disrespecful to her husband as well as to you. The fact that he gets defensive about doing it (when he knows her husband is jealous man) and knows how ...
Started 11 months, 2 weeks ago (2009-01-26 22:41:00)
by peaceyma
I'm not clear on your post. Did you have an affair with him or was it just that he kissed you? Nor do I understand why your BF's mom would verbally assault your MIL. Why would she do that? I could see her saying something to you but what did your MIL have to do with any of this? I think we need more info to help you.
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