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Quote: Originally Posted by Boricua You're either a GFWAP or not. Time to get off the fence about that one. I wasn't on the fence. I don't consider myself to be a GWAP but I suspected somebody might accuse me of this so I made the disclaimer to try to avoid this discussion. Quote: Originally Posted by Boricua Why are you hanging out with hot women who have nothing you're looking for? Because she's a friend. I'm...

Isn't is just like you (passive aggressive) to re-post something I had long since deleted...you understand why the forum has a delete function don't you? Obviously not. Hence your shaming tactics. That George never forgets because he has "email notification" dad gummit! I will make one observation...It looks like you may have got yourself into the Classic GFWP role: sitting there listening to your...

Quote: Originally Posted by Beerman I have really struggled with this attachment to outcome idea.‎ Identifying the challenge is half the battle...congrats Methinks your onto something

Quote: Originally Posted by growmyrocks If you do not know your true passions, you will struggle. I have to say that this could not be more on target for me. I am just starting to identify some of my passions but I have a long way to go!

I am gaining insights by studying the posts here as well. I've never been anywhere like this, virtual or brick-and-mortar, where I could say "We struggle with this." I have had the same experience. I interact with women at a professional level daily. I come off as poised and caring. I do great until I want a woman to like me! Then the old NGisms come out and I shoot myself in the foot by trying to impress her. With the...

rebirth, they're just shots! You can handle it. My daughter took 2 or 3 shots when she was like 2. She didn't bat an eye. She took it "like a man", if I do say so. Maybe I'm weird, but I don't mind them. BTW...you're mail box is full. I tried sending a PM, but it came back to me.

There are lots of reasons to avoid or fear things. There are alot of things on the list. Good for you.....I hope it works out like a lot of fears. That wasn't such a big deal. Should have have done that a while ago. One fear at a time.

Interesting... Part of me wants to tell you to go screw yourself with your comment. Another part of me feels shame about this being a difficult thing to do given my fear (irrational, but still fear). But my true self feels proud of my accomplishment facing the fear and choosing to do it anyway. Revolverboy, fears can be very difficult to confront. Do you know what yours are? How are you facing them?

Quote: Originally Posted by rebirth Interesting... Part of me wants to tell you to go screw yourself with your comment. Another part of me feels shame about this being a difficult thing to do given my fear (irrational, but still fear). But my true self feels proud of my accomplishment facing the fear and choosing to do it anyway. Revolverboy, fears can be very difficult to confront. Do you know what yours are? How are you facing them? Great...

Quote: Originally Posted by GeorgeWSmith I have a female friend who I've posted about here before. She's hot, but not what I'm looking for. She's a pretty good friend (ie gives more than she takes) so I might be a GWAP to her, but not with the negative connotation typically associated with that phrase. You're either a GFWAP or not. Time to get off the fence about that one. Why are you hanging out with hot women who...