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Unassertive in bed, secretive, obsessed about his looks and car, lack of friendships/relationships, extremely insecure, food addiction, believes his life is controlled by others, feels like he's a victim...it's a turnoff. I wish he would do something to help himself but he really seems to believe that he has no control over his life whatsoever. He could be so much more and he needs to take care ...

You have self worth despite what your hubby does/does not do. Start there. Fix the self esteem issues. Marriage counseling might help.

Quote: Originally Posted by Wonderer If your wife or girlfriend cheated on you is this what you would want your partner to do? Well I would have wanted her not to have done it, I would have liked her to be happy with me. Of couse when you ask the question if your wife cheated would you like to know I am sure most ...

Hi mickleb. You realize you haven't told us anything right? http://www.nomoremrniceguy.com/ngs.php This page describes Nice Guy Syndrome and there's a link to a basic Nice Guy test at the bottom. You could take it for your boyfriend to see if he might be a Nice Guy. But ya gotta give us some details if we're going to say anything.

have you told him all of this, like this? if so how did he respond?

Hi Wonderer. Many of us after reading the book couldn't believe how well it described us. This was my motivation for doing the exercises and improving myself. This might be a motivating factor for him too if you give him the book. I'm not married so I won't speak to more than that. The thread Is there a book for No More Ms Nice Girl? has a couple of suggestions for books for women if ...

I'll use mine as an example: For the longest time, I hated my mother. Not only did I have to change who I truly was around her, I would have to put up with her behavior, which was the extreme Nice Girl syndrome. She would be nice to the point that if one of the neighbors was holding a party or social gathering where a bunch of cars were parked on the street, she would not water the grass ...