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Quote: Originally Posted by Kevin Chevy, there's a time for forcing a man to face the fire, and there's a time for encouragement and honoring. It's all good. When Shockwave crossed a line Pisces took a stand and said, "Enough!" That's setting a boundary, and I applaud that action. I have no judgment about the rightness or wrongness of that action. Only Pisces can determine that for himself. It's his...

The first three CD's worked well for me but he's losing me with the inner body stuff.

Quote: Originally Posted by MrOkGuy But I still sustain my position, of an IM being a person that is not risk averse, AND is risk-aware, and is ready to accept the consequences of his acts, without blaming anyone but himself . There's a movie called 'Rounders' with Matt Damon and Edward Norton. Ed Norton plays a character that doesn't think about consequences while Matt Damon plays a character that thinks long term. In...

Gmanly... I have never run into an ex and wondered what I ever saw in her, but I can totally see how this will happen with this one, my most recent ex. My problem is that I have in the past had such an over-active sense of empathy. NOTHING has ever been anyone's fault in my mind. My father beat the shit out of me... I always rationalized it as not his fault, because his dad beat him and his mother in a daily basis, so that was all he...

I"ve never heard it described like that, but I just got through dating one of those. Interestingly, I had to ask her not to contact me again. I've never heard it put so concisely.

"In the name of my balls..." Gentlemen, my new war cry.

I am not too sure what there is to "gain" by this. Ie, if you bring stuff up then it leads to confrontation/discussion about what was really meant and not and so on and so forth. Doesnt sound like there will be anything she can say or would say that would make a difference. However, if it makes you feel better and get it off your chest, then I think it would be ok to say, hey etc, f you, and so on. Don't think there is a...

Quote: Originally Posted by growmyrocks Tell her to remove your e-mail from her address book. Perfect. Classy, and straight to the point.

Good luck.

Quote: Originally Posted by tokolos That hits home, I saw my dad do the same thing with my oldest brother, he always had some plausible explanation for 'giving' him money or rescuing him financially, but in the end, my brother treated my dad with a lot of disrespect, it really appeared to me my dad was buying my brothers 'acceptance', just like you expressed. You might want to address the issue in a heart to heart...