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Hi EM Great idea, albeit one I wish we didn't need My older brother Simon died of cancer last year, in April, aged 34. He was happily married and had everything to live for. He was my only sibling and we adored each other. My family has been through a lot of bad times already, particularly my mum's suicide when Si and I were teenagers, so to lose him to such a ridiculously rare ...

this says it all

So sorry shelleylou x

Oh Drn That is so sad. I can understand that I think. My dad is like your dad sounded and he is getting very old and frailer now. Your post stopped my breath for a moment because I could imagine. So very sorry.

Hi Scariboo, so sorry to hear about your friend. I had a friend that killed himself, almost 10 years ago now when we were only 18. It is an awful thing to happen, I think it can be so confusing because you've got so many more emotions getting all mixed up than if they had died of an illness or in an accident. For me the main one was guilt, like maybe if I'd tried a bit harder then he ...

It depends how well you know her. If it was a good friend I would ring her mum again and say, 'I want to come and give a hug. What do you think?' Then I would just turn up and have zero expectations. It could literally be a hug on the doorstep. So sorry for your friend.

I think you need to make an appointment for him with his GP. If you fear he won't speak with the GP, make a double-appointment and go in with him (one for him, and one for you, back to back, so you have a little more time with the GP than just one appointment). Express your concerns, and let the GP take it from there.

Hi Erika, so sorry you lost your sister, it must be awful for you. I can understand your feelings of sadness that your sister won't meet (yet) your baby boy. I felt exactly the same when my lovely mother died earlier this year, just 2 weeks before she was due to meet my baby boy. I hope all goes well for you for the birth and have no doubt that my mum and your sister will be up there ...

hi have you ever considere a clairvoyant?? I have been to one recently and one many years ago and always made me feel reasued.

I am so very sorry.