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Hi there, I am a man - on the other side of the equation. I want sex more like 2 times per week. Even 3 might be good but I've never really had a chance to discover if that's true. We have sex more like once a month or even fewer sometimes and we are both in our mid 20's with no kids! She never really wanted sex too bad either and over the years, I've realized there isn't much I can do about it....

Reading your question without even reading your post, my response was "that is up to you." Should you?  I have no idea.  My wife and I have  different sex drives.  I would prefer 3 or 4 times a week and she prefers about 2 times a month.  We both understand this about each other.  She's a Sex Camel and I am a Sex Horse. I would say though, that maybe your relationship (from his ...

I am sorry that you feel so cheated and hurt. I feel the same,except I am in my mid twenties and my husband and I have only been married for two years. I knew something was wrong when we first got married. But it has really affected me over this last year. I cant tell you the last time we had sex. might have been two or three months ago. maybe longer. I know the pain you are feeling. It really ...

truthfully if the way you profile yourselfis true than all jokes aside you man is out of his mind. i understand that the two of you have had a stable relationship for the past five years but what i dont understand is how do you love a man who you have never made love to and how can you just give oral sex for five years straight and not think that something is wroung after about the first mounth ...

I completely agree that if you throw down the "change in 6 months" or I am out of here" gauntlet, you'd better be ready to follow through. Not because if you don't you'll never have sex again, because seriously, no sex is not that big a step down from the amount you are having now.

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sorry to see someone in the same situation i donot know what to do , simply pray for miracle.

Unfortantly in my own experiance I was unable to do anything to improve the amount or variety of sex.  Many wonderful articles and links to support groups  on About. com requarding sex less marriages.   I recommend reading "With holding sex as a form of punishment" by Cathy Myer.     If you have married someone with a very low sex drive, that's not likely to change. Even if your husband is...

I'm interested in hearing more opinions on this. My own personal view is that there aren't too many things you can do that are stupider than making a sex tape for anyone, for any reason. Yeah, well there is that--the mere existance of such a video is tempting fate that the kids or the inlaws or someone at a garage sale will end up with it.... woohoo!  Plus, frankly, I'd prefer not to ...

It sounds like you and he have more problems in your life than lack of sex--it may be a symptom of everything.  I feel like I am the only one who puts any effort into having a relationship.  When I try to talk to him he says he is tired,  has no energy,  YOu say he snores badly enough that you and he have seperate bedrooms.  Has he had the sleep apnea test?  A lot of people have way ...