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user's latest post:
What is she doing?
Published (2009-11-27 13:11:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by cdt76 My ex is checking my myspace blogs almost daily. Does she want me to contact her? Why does she look at my page? And yes, I know she does check it. NC going on over 3 months. You're not even in NC. You have a tracker on your MySpace to keep tabs on her. Remove it, go into NC and move on.
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He Has "regrets" about...
Published (2009-11-28 13:03:00)
ok i couldnt help it i sent a text and said that if he cared half as much as he claimed he would call instead of email... i dont know if he is gonna answer but i dont expect it
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When she comes back, now what?
Published (2009-11-27 20:12:00)
You must have loved each other once. Any chance you could go to relationship counselling?
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Calmly We Walk Through This...
Published (2009-11-26 22:59:00)
Beautifully written. Here, I am. One of those nights when I feel being philosophical so here it goes. Sometimes I wonder if my life flashed before my eyes so that I can see everything properly - all of the mistakes I have made, all of the time I have wasted, all of the times I worried about the dumbest things imaginable, all of the times I have taken someone or even life for granted - whether it would make me learn my lesson? I am a strong...
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ex came back after 2...
Published (2009-11-25 05:39:00)
Hmmm. I've been much too nice to this guy; I think I need to draw a much harder line. I'm thinking about sending the following message, but I would like some feedback before I do so. And who knows, I'll probably change my mind in an hour. "J__ , listen. If you want to be in my life, do not text me. This is the 4th and last time I will say this. All subsequent messages will be unread and deleted. I do not want a a...
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I'm such a moron
Published (2009-11-26 17:40:00)
I think maybe he used you. Although bit confused if that is the case as he did a lot to please you.
user's latest post:
He Has "regrets" about...
Published (2009-11-26 23:09:00)
[SIZE=2]I think you should have one final conversation with your ex. In that conversation, even by email if easier or to make sure you say everything you want to say, you let them know how you feel, what you want and be as honest and caring as possible. Make it short and to the point. After that, there is nothing left for you to say and they know where you stand. Do not agree to be friends and do not contact him again. Then, it is up to him...
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Trojan Horse
Published (2009-11-25 14:00:00)
Actually, wasn't the whole fight started over Helen of Troy?
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is it normal to have this much...
Published (2009-11-27 16:50:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by cypresa well i think i just got my answer. He just emailed saying it was a great night but was suffering all day (hangover!) but then said "Thank you for letting me drone on about all my ****, it was indeed like old times and I miss those days as well. I am so pleased we could still hang out like that." so that is how he see's it. Friends and that is it. While he's thanking you for being...
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Latest active threads on Second Chances::
Started 1 week, 6 days ago (2009-11-19 02:11:00)
by 2sunny
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He said he respected the decision i made(Prob about NC) saying That i think it might be easy for him but its not and that he has alot of regrets for letting what happend happen, Is this him trying to reach out to see if im still into him, is this a second chance... what do i do?
he never stated that he would like things to change or be ...
Started 2 weeks ago (2009-11-18 14:17:00)
by Taucher
Weeeeell, you say that he could not commit. If that is the only reason that you two split up then it makes sense that he is contacting you and is happy to meet up etc. Because there is less need to commit now.
The dangers of this are:-
1) You are being a little bit of a doormat (no offence). He ends it with you cos he cannot commit so you have basically allowed this to happen. THe ...
Started 4 days, 9 hours ago (2009-11-28 10:49:00)
by dreams13
Update-Missing X
Last night Pat came over. As friends. We hung out, watched some movies and just talked.
I had a revalation last night. We only really talk to eachother because in our minds college and the time we were together was one of the best times in both our lives. That's ok, but I think I finally realized that I can't ...
Started 1 month, 3 weeks ago (2009-10-07 02:48:00)
by quarterlifecrisis
I am certainly not an expert, but go NC on her. I was a mess just a few weeks ago, but since going NC, I've heard that my ex who is now with someone else misses me and asks people how I'm doing. This doesn't necessarily mean anything, but absence does make the heart grow fonder. More importantly, I have a much clearer head and can prioritize other things over thinking about her. I'm not even sure...
Started 4 days, 16 hours ago (2009-11-28 03:51:00)
by aka-zero
Second chance for bold-faced liar? (bit long)
Hello everyone,
Here is my story: Ive been divorced for 3 years after a 15-year marriage. I get along well with my ex in raising our 12-year-old girl. And my ex now has a new boyfriend whom she loves dearly. Im very happy for her and we have never had any intimate contact since the ...
Started 6 days, 16 hours ago (2009-11-26 04:23:00)
by BigTenInchRecord
Well the answer is obvious, you don't.
Personally I think it sounds like your a little too happy at all these horrible things going on in her life, but maybe the way she treated you justifies that? I don't know, but from the way your talking I don't know why on earth you would ever even want her back. It sounds like bad news to me.
Started 5 days, 7 hours ago (2009-11-27 13:11:00)
by DenverBachelor
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Originally Posted by cdt76
My ex is checking my myspace blogs almost daily. Does she want me to contact her? Why does she look at my page? And yes, I know she does check it. NC going on over 3 months.
You're not even in NC. You have a tracker on your MySpace to keep tabs on her. Remove it, go into NC ...
Started 6 days, 21 hours ago (2009-11-25 23:15:00)
by DenverBachelor
I was wrong. Within four minutes, she replied with, "Thank you so much, JayBee (her old nickname for me). That made me cry. I hope you have a wonderful holiday weekend, too!"
It was the human thing to do because, regardless of how jaded I sound on here, I still very much care about her.
Started 5 days, 17 hours ago (2009-11-27 03:01:00)
by Midnight Rider
Whatever it was, you took him back so just try to focus on the present and your love. Forgive him of his past, and don't let these thoughts morph your perception of the relationship at this point. What's done is done, and you are back together now. One day in the future perhaps you will do something bad to him, and then he will take you back. In that case, you wouldn't like to ...
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-25 01:48:00)
by DenverBachelor
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Originally Posted by funktastic
Any advice how to read into this ?
Thanks for reading guys and girls and for helping me out
BN
Woah woah WOAH little horse. First of all:
1) If you're REALLY NC, why are you checking out her friend's wall? Are you snooping? Come on man, that's not ...
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Hot threads for last week on Second Chances::
Started 6 months ago (2009-06-04 02:54:00)
by Nuala83
Is anyone else having trouble with this site???? Everytime I go on it's either not updated or threads dissapear or my avatar goes back to what it used to be. What's going on?
Started 6 days, 21 hours ago (2009-11-25 23:15:00)
by DenverBachelor
I was wrong. Within four minutes, she replied with, "Thank you so much, JayBee (her old nickname for me). That made me cry. I hope you have a wonderful holiday weekend, too!"
It was the human thing to do because, regardless of how jaded I sound on here, I still very much care about her.
Started 1 week, 6 days ago (2009-11-19 02:11:00)
by 2sunny
Quote:
He said he respected the decision i made(Prob about NC) saying That i think it might be easy for him but its not and that he has alot of regrets for letting what happend happen, Is this him trying to reach out to see if im still into him, is this a second chance... what do i do?
he never stated that he would like things to change or be ...
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-11-23 12:56:00)
by DenverBachelor
Unless the title is, "How to get me back" and it was written by your ex, I don't think so.
Started 6 days, 10 hours ago (2009-11-26 09:45:00)
by mark982
not sure if i would call it a ego boost, but i sure would call you his booty call.
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-25 13:32:00)
by red_cloud
Denver, seriously.. you ARE the man for me.
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-25 18:59:00)
by leap83
It depends on how you view him. Do you think he's a great person and it would be a shame to not have him in your life?
Based on your post, I can't tell whether he is honest or not. Maybe he values you as a person and wants you in his life. He's definitively not offering a second chance though if he was up front about not wanting a future with you etc. So there's no hope there. But there might...
Started 2 weeks ago (2009-11-18 14:17:00)
by Taucher
Weeeeell, you say that he could not commit. If that is the only reason that you two split up then it makes sense that he is contacting you and is happy to meet up etc. Because there is less need to commit now.
The dangers of this are:-
1) You are being a little bit of a doormat (no offence). He ends it with you cos he cannot commit so you have basically allowed this to happen. THe ...
Started 1 week, 3 days ago (2009-11-22 19:47:00)
by name witheld
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I've not had sex with him since we got back together.
There's your reason.
Shallow as it is he probably is losing interest because of lack of physical side. I doubt this is a good sign.
Best bet is to talk to him and ask him why he is being distant again, but it looks like you have tried that.
Obviously he does not want ...
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-24 12:38:00)
by stace79
I think his complaint is immature. Everyone handles conflict differently. My ex used to be the same as you -- he wanted to walk away, cool off, and think before he spoke. I, on the other hand, wanted to hash things out right away, which sometimes led to hurtful words being spoken, on both sides.
Part of being an adult is learning to deal with different styles of managing conflict. I don't ...
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