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Wife and I are having problems -...
Published (2009-11-30 21:05:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Pyro and he doesn't seem like the type to admit when he is wrong about something. While I don't support his skewed view on life and have been pretty vocal about it, we have to consider how difficult it is for someone to give up their lifelong beliefs. Imagine having to self-actualize to the point where you have to acknowledge that your entire life has been a lie. Not easy to give up beliefs that also...
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Wife and I are having problems -...
Published (2009-11-29 01:55:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Sam Spade oh never mind (deleted) look, i forgot she was 45, ok?!?
user's latest post:
Wife and I are having problems -...
Published (2009-11-29 14:05:00)
Wog, I just wanted to add here that I'm close to 1 yr post divorce from a man who treated me badly and who's actions included infidelity. I am a bit older than your wife, the vast majority of my friends are married people, divorced women aren't welcomed with high 5's and back slaps for getting a divorce.. most often we're excluded from social events because now that we're single we represent a threat to those...
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My Husband Doesnt Know Why He...
Published (2009-11-27 00:13:00)
It was because he told me he didn't know why!!! This is the start of it y can't u believe that?? I know he loves me. And I see that is why he told me a lie! I just didn't like the lie is all it hurts, but I'm fine now, honestly for like the hundredth time...
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You know it's time for a...
Published (2009-11-30 21:33:00)
Being fair means a conversation that goes something like this. I am not happy. If you are willing to go to MC with me and are COMMITTED to trying to make our marriage much happier for both of us, I would like to try. And then let her answer or if she wants a day or two to think about it - let her have the time. And if she comes back with any response other then an enthusiastic commitment - then tell her you want a divorce and then do it. But...
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Wife and I are having problems -...
Published (2009-11-30 19:35:00)
I see why she might have been afraid to tell me but if she did that from the start it could have saved us a whole lot of drama. Of course he crossed a line and now he is cut off but I did not know about that until last night. I thought she was flipping over a conversation she was never meant to hear and that is why I took as her trying to control me. I have a question for the happily married women here. If you had to work with two who bragged...
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Wife and I are having problems -...
Published (2009-11-30 19:52:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Woggle I see why she might have been afraid to tell me but if she did that from the start it could have saved us a whole lot of drama. Of course he crossed a line and now he is cut off but I did not know about that until last night. I thought she was flipping over a conversation she was never meant to hear and that is why I took as her trying to control me. I have a question for the happily married women here. If...
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No Sex Because of My Weight Gain...
Published (2009-11-30 10:51:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by giotto I just think the OP will be bitterly disappointed when H will start blaming the wrinkles after she's lost the weight... call me cynical, but I know that type of man. .. Funny how you think you know him better than his own wife who says: Quote: Originally Posted by frustrated one RE: Cheergirl's compilation of insults .. . I appreciate the fairly exhaustive list of insults and accusations you culled...
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No Sex Because of My Weight Gain...
Published (2009-11-30 10:52:00)
Is there a simple equation?????? Quote: Originally Posted by EmmaLou Exactly... No man here can speak for every man, and no woman here can speak for every woman. Not all mans attraction is driven by strict appearance standards, and not all womens attraction is driven by romance and emotion. As evidenced in this thread and our experiences. And no, just because I have the feelings I have doesn't mean I'm fat (or maybe I am with some...
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Latest active threads on Marriage & Life Partnerships::
Started 4 days, 12 hours ago (2009-11-28 00:15:00)
by dazzle22
Sounds to me like both of you are struggling with maturity issues. What she did is too clingy and controlling and your response to her is hurtful and non helpful...
Started 1 day, 11 hours ago (2009-12-01 01:45:00)
by ComeUndone
Yeah I think that's strange. Maybe his wife just doesn't use FB that much so she doesn't really care, but still.. seems a little weird.
Started 1 day, 19 hours ago (2009-11-30 18:03:00)
by quankanne
ask him point-blank what his intentions are, if he thinks there are problems within the marriage that y'all need to address together, if he realizes that kind of information on a work machine is double-damning with his employers.
and don't let him hem or haw, just tell him you want unembellished, direct answers. Then go from there.
he could be up to no good, or he could just...
Started 1 day, 12 hours ago (2009-12-01 00:42:00)
by mem11363
My wife is killer funny and keeps me from being overly serious. We banter daily. She has helped me grow into the person I am and is the center of my universe. Is as much fun in the bedroom as she is everywhere else....
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I saw the title at the top of this forum...:
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Started 5 days, 4 hours ago (2009-11-27 08:38:00)
by mark982
garner, if you want out as bad as you say, then just stay away. the only one you can save is yourself.
Started 2 days, 4 hours ago (2009-11-30 08:20:00)
by delirious
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Originally Posted by Deanster
So, You know it's time for a divorce when...
You don't love each other any more..... and you have not mentioned love.
Started 2 days, 17 hours ago (2009-11-29 19:54:00)
by LucreziaBorgia
You made the right decision to cut him loose. There is no reason for him to keep coming over and buying you things, particularly when he won't tell you where he lives. My guess is that he is living with another woman who will take care of his bills and support him.
He is not a man in any sense of the word. You already have two kids to raise. No need to support his childish ass as ...
Started 6 days, 14 hours ago (2009-11-25 22:36:00)
by mark982
you know darn well this is wrong,or you wouldn't be asking! you're showing your husband a total lack of respect. your ex is a ex for a reason.
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Hot threads for last week on Marriage & Life Partnerships::
Started 4 days, 12 hours ago (2009-11-28 00:15:00)
by dazzle22
Sounds to me like both of you are struggling with maturity issues. What she did is too clingy and controlling and your response to her is hurtful and non helpful...
Started 4 weeks ago (2009-11-03 13:31:00)
by PandorasBox
I'm sorry you're hurting! Do you think, maybe depressions has added to your weight gain? What kinds of surgeries have you had if you don't mine me asking? You said you don't want to have sex sometimes unless you guilt him into it....so is it YOU that doesn't want to have sex mostly, or is it that HE doesn't want to? Perhaps its both of you that would rather not even bother? The only thing I know ...
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-25 11:12:00)
by Ody
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Originally Posted by WeirdedOut
I started to get mad, these were just women and not porn, I could understand porn, but just women?
That's the thing, it is porn. As long as your hubby isn't contacting these women or stalking them or knows them or whatever, it's basically porn. I'm assuming he's ...
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-11-23 01:26:00)
by lovebubble
my husband used to struggle with this as well when i first started exploring sex toys. he's also above average but, i've played with toys bigger than him and from my experience..
there is nothing like actual sex. intimacy. body contact, ect. yes, a nice size toy can and will please.. but it will be a different kind of pleasure. different does not necessarily mean better or worse.. just ...
Started 6 days, 9 hours ago (2009-11-26 03:45:00)
by EmmaLou
No I wouldn't... Even with kids you have to look out for yourself and you deserve romantic love. The kids would be happier around parents who are happy and seperate, than together and loveless. It sounds like it could end amicably and you would remain good friends.
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-24 12:48:00)
by lonelyandfrustrated
I've been the 'housebound mother', and no, pushing her out the door by herself is not going to work.
The reason why it won't work is because ' selfishness' has left the building. She has embraced the wife and mother role, and I can only speak from my own experience, but once a woman does that, she is perfectly pleased to put off her own wants, and in fact, doesn't even notice she has any. ...
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-11-23 12:07:00)
by Moanin
I'm curious as to how long you've been married. I am going through something very similar and have been looking for answers myself. I came across the attached website and downloaded the book. Even though your question didn't have anything to do with infidelity, the book explains a woman's relationship pattern. I was able to recognize myself in this pattern.
Here are some excerpts:
"women...
Started 5 days, 1 hour ago (2009-11-27 11:44:00)
by JackJack
You all have been married for 2 months and she is now willing to call it quits over a fight? So how did she act before you all got married, how did she handle things like fights etc?
Started 1 week ago (2009-11-24 14:17:00)
by soserious1
How do you start over?
It's been about a year since D day, I've gone out a few times with a colleague (totally no strings, strictly casual) a few times but now people are starting with the hook up's. You know, the situation where you show up for dinner and they've managed to drag in a spare man to seat across from you at dinner type ...
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-23 15:08:00)
by blair08
"but then she came down with a vaginal condition that often makes sex painful. BTW, the cause was the spermicide in contraceptive sponges. There is also chronic recurring pain even without sex, particularly when she is stressed".
I'm assuming this was diagnosed by her doctor as a actual issue? If so, did you hear this straight from the doctor as well?
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