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user's latest post:
I feel nothing
Published (2009-12-20 21:45:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Dark_of_the_Moon So...is still comparing men to your ex...for good or ill, a sign I have still not recovered? I'm trying to move forward but, I keep having these hits of memories or whatever....I've gone out a couple of times and had some nice conversations....nothing more with guys. I just don't FEEL anything anymore....like I have no emotions left unless I am weeping. I feel no pull or attraction...
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still missing her, pinning , etc
Published (2009-12-20 01:48:00)
You have YEARS & Years of time to meet the right woman...and you will!!! Think about this: I always assume whether it is true or not, that my ex thinks I am a joke. It makes me feel disdain for him and helps me want to stay away more. In a way, our exes DID decide that they didn't like sharing their life with us. Your ex is STILL in control of you. Start breaking away from her because it is not fair. Get your heart back because it...
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i ruined my f*cking relationship
Published (2009-12-20 13:36:00)
also i guess she wasnt that great. just a good cook, good job, gave me head a lot, and what really more do you need? oh yeah, love, trust and respect
user's latest post:
I feel nothing
Published (2009-12-20 21:21:00)
I feel I will compare my ex to other men for a long time realistically, as we were together 18 years and the love was so deep. But there will come a point where I don't want to be alone anymore. Feeling numb can be depression, I have had that before with depression. At the moment though I feel way too much and I really don't want to. I have a wall around me too, although not a very solid one where is my ex is concerned, he could get...
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Relapse
Published (2009-12-20 14:37:00)
take care xx
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Coping with lonliness/...
Published (2009-12-18 00:37:00)
Why not try falling asleep to the same movie every night, or an audio book (I do the audio book thing)?
user's latest post:
Relapse
Published (2009-12-20 20:36:00)
I think in the end I still would have been forced to move on... I would have cried much much more and hurt much much more... but I'd still be able to talk to him instead of knowing he's off limits... I'd know what was going on with him... but then again, those reasons aren't very good ones! Goes to show you I'm still not over him being gone from my life, without a trace. It probably isn't better, but I'm sure...
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Friends making it harder!
Published (2009-12-20 21:38:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by GrayClouds So next time you get everything You took the words right outta my mouth!
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What kind of man is this!?!?
Published (2009-12-20 11:25:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by westrock Sadly in their past (usually in their experiences with their parents), these people somehow associated others giving them love and goodness as someone who can also hurt them and abandon them. For these people who have mixed positive and negative experiences with others who have loved them or tried to bring goodness into their lives, these people find it too much to deal with and reactively as a way of...
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Latest active threads on Coping::
Started 2 days, 9 hours ago (2009-12-20 19:55:00)
by kickintheaz
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Originally Posted by HeavenOrHell
I can't stop crying and shaking, I feel like I'm going to throw up.
I have to go NC but it's killing me.
HOH.. Why are you doing this to yourself... NC won't kill you, or make you wanna throw up, it'll be hard, but jeez, i'd rather that than putting yourself in a ...
Started 2 days, 22 hours ago (2009-12-20 06:38:00)
by nobmagnet
hope is everything. Finding yourself is amazing. Life is for fun.I personally dont need somebody to make me see joy and excitement I can see it for myself. I do however belive that somebody out there might enjoy the company in the journy of life with me. Just a thought. x
Started 3 days, 16 hours ago (2009-12-19 12:38:00)
by twinklecat
Hello Limbo21
Only you can make the decision ultimately. However my friends and family have all been the exact opposite, saying to cut my ex out my life, it must be awful not having the support of those close to you for your decision. Perhaps you could try explain it to them? x
Started 2 days, 8 hours ago (2009-12-20 21:02:00)
by Taucher
Yes, I would say that comparing potential new partners to your ex IS a sign that you have not recovered totally yet. I can say this cos I feel the same way.
You say you dont feel that you are making sense even to yourself, but I dont think you have anything to worry about. Truth is, you are aware that you dont feel anything for anyone new and so your eyes are open. Try not to worry, it will ...
Started 3 days, 10 hours ago (2009-12-19 19:13:00)
by Angel1111
I don't really understand much about the circumstances of your relationship with your ex but I'm sorry you're hurting. I will say that by continuing to see him, he's probably not going to make the decision that he can't live without you because he hasn't really experienced that. What he seems to be doing is weaning himself from you and the relationship. That's why I wouldn't read too much into ...
Started 3 days, 8 hours ago (2009-12-19 21:24:00)
by TaraMaiden
*slap, slap, slap*.
Now shut up and pass the panettone cocktail.
look.
I know you're in a crappy place right now, but would it not be worth thinking this the other way around?
"Should have been married by now. Gave my all, i really did...but she's a wackjob. It's never going to change. Thank God I'm out of that. Imagine the aggro if we HAD got married!
Met a new girl who really ...
Started 2 days, 10 hours ago (2009-12-20 19:32:00)
by TaraMaiden
Started 2 days, 16 hours ago (2009-12-20 12:47:00)
by nobmagnet
I nearly went there. But I very quickly realsied waiting for texts/calls etc was messing with my already messed up head. I was back to a place I didnt want to be. Might just be me.
I really really enjoyed the attention though. I too had the tremptation to take a photo of this stunning tall sexy bloke and e.mail the ex.................didnt do it! hahahah the caption...............younger than...
Started 3 days, 14 hours ago (2009-12-19 14:33:00)
by Boundary Problem
That website changed my life. It explained to me how I was such a dreamer. I knew I was different from other more pragmatic women.
But it also explained how I see so much potential in people. Yet I have to manage that and force myself to look at how they treat me today.
That website is amazing.
Started 2 days, 16 hours ago (2009-12-20 12:38:00)
by nobmagnet
mcgupp
my oh my. Do I need to get on the next plane out of snowy blighty and box you round the head?????
Learn from this. Do something to give yourself a boost. Its ok to feel down about mistakes we all make them its not just you. You are not a loser and you never were. You had an emotional wobble and she wasnt strong enough to help you through. It says alot doesnt it?? Couples see each ...
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Hot threads for last week on Coping::
Started 6 days, 4 hours ago (2009-12-17 00:45:00)
by LovelyDaze
McGrupp, you always break my heart.
Don't beat a dead horse. Actually you need to splash your face with the cold ice water of the facts.
You say she was loving, caring, independent, etc. What word did you use that was perfect?..... WAS .
Your ex, like mine USED to be all of those wonderful things. They are not anymore. Like a gorgeous red apple on a tree...our exes fell down and rotted. ...
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-12-14 15:52:00)
by nobmagnet
im a dumpee.
soz
i feel your pain. but it might set you back to day 1. its so hard to say goodbye to all the memories and time together but i would like you to ask yourself this...........what if she is horrible to me?..............what if she shows me a thread of remorse?.................how will you feel? I know it has put me back many many times as I have children and cant do NC.
Just...
Started 4 days, 6 hours ago (2009-12-18 23:13:00)
by McGrupp
last time i sent her flowers she cheated on me the same night...OH!
think im going to cancel manana...
Started 6 days, 8 hours ago (2009-12-16 20:55:00)
by TheLoneSock
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Originally Posted by Bulldozed
I've wanted to post this for a while. I've been nc for a month and a half. I've been able to go back and assess with some clarity the red flags that were staring me in the face, but instead I was clearly too wrapped up in the "Fluff/honeymoon" feelings to act on them. I'm posting a list of the ...
Started 6 days, 5 hours ago (2009-12-17 00:27:00)
by LovelyDaze
I explained that process to other LS members.
Our exes don't want to be with us for the life of them....until they see us truly move on. Happens to me half of the time.
I'll say it is about half of my exes that will call, text or come by my home to reconcile just AFTER I got over them! It's like they have some kind of radar that has them stay clear of us until we feel better. It's like, "...
Started 1 week ago (2009-12-16 00:03:00)
by 9Lives
letting go for me means getting off the emotional roller coaster!!
Started 1 week ago (2009-12-15 22:48:00)
by curiousnycgirl
No question I want him to have an epiphany, realize what he's lost - and figure out how to make it work!
I've tried everything I can to make it work - unfortunately he never met me even a little bit.
Started 1 week ago (2009-12-15 15:58:00)
by angelface78
You wont be alone...believe me!!! Even if you want that to happen it wont!! You will find a wonderful girl who will love you!!! Sorry!!
Started 5 days ago (2009-12-18 04:57:00)
by tryagaintoday
I didn't. Ha! In your face, god!
Sorry if I offended anyone.
Started 1 week ago (2009-12-15 23:07:00)
by onemorechance
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Originally Posted by slamina
My ex just came on msn. Told me she is actually seeing someone else, after professing that she wasnt looking to be with a guy for 2/3 years. The inevitable has finally happend. She broke up with me 3 months ago initially because she tought things were getting too serious. Then some douche comes along...
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