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If I was him, I would be very concerned about you rather than thinking you're not a good girlfriend. He should be there for you, why else is he your boyfriend if he just neglects you when you're at your lowest?

Hope LC and friendship work out with her. As for me, I'm debating on whether or not to try LC with my ex as well. Yesterday I got an angry e-mail from her re: NC (and probably the fact that I deleted her pics from my MySpace), so I dunno.

I sounds like you still care about her. I don't want my ex to hurt, I don't want revenge for being dumped, it's not a crime to dump someone. Was she cruel to you in some way for you to feel like this? Quote: Originally Posted by DSM2709 Well, those of you who have read my past posts know what I went through over the summer. I had a really hard time with my breakup with my ex of almost two years, who I loved very much. Well it...

Quote: Originally Posted by Gatormaniac I've been struggling with something for the last few days, so I figured I would write it down here and solicit some feedback: I have been with my SO for about 9 months. I'm 53 and she's 50. When we met, it was instant attraction. No doubt about it, we " clicked ". In late June, we went to Chicago to visit her family, which was great. In October, we went to Connecticut...

Be careful. Your lady might be just a rebound. The fact that you call it revenge sounds like you wanna hurt your ex and that means that you're not over her and you still care about her. Right now you might think you're happy. But are you happy because you're hurting your ex or are you happy because you love your current girlfriend? Think about it.

If you are going no contact you just have to forget her or him at all matters. If they contact you and somehow prove to you that they miss you or still have feelings, than meet up and talk to them. But if they did something that you have no idea why they broke up with you, it means they are confused and don't know what they want. The only way to get through it is to make them realize that they were wrong, use their words against...

From what it sounds like the baggage with you and guy #1 will just always be there. I honestly don't think people really ever change, and if they do definitely not that quickly. I think he just hates the fact that you found someone else, and is clinging on to you doing whatever it takes when really he doesn't see the reality of it all. The past is the past and he had his chance right? Unless you REALLY missed him, and wished you guys...

Thanks to everyone for making this one of the most depressing threads ever! The love of my life is in the mirror. We'll never be separated. We'll always be a team together. Our relationship will last until I die, too.

Quote: Originally Posted by Gatormaniac I have asked myself that question. The answer is; I don't know. I do know a lot of damage has been done. The problem is Gatromaniac, its not just trust issues you need to be thinking about; its also her character flaws and her total lack of respect for you. While I know it hurts like hell, it should also piss you off plenty. The trust factor, in my opinion, is just the final nail in the coffin.

thanks katiex, i was hoping that maybe next time i see her - she would be with some other guy or pregnant or something that to me will hit me like its finally over and gone. Oh tizzy im 26 my ex was 21, she seemed quite young and eventually i did tell her when we broke up to go out and enjoy her life and get back to being young and carefree again. We wanted kids, marriage to live together in simplicity like all people do when your crazy in...