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Quote: Originally Posted by lilbelle Yes, I'm getting very angry then bouts of depression. It's like I can't stop it. I don't know why, I am a very strong woman. I just want to move on and be happy. I would give anything to be happy. Something happened to the post, quotes didn't work out

^Your right. I stood up for myself and I let him go. Its just I still hurt thinking about it and I'm really dealing with these feelings now.

Quote: Originally Posted by whichwayisup None of this is her fault and sorry, it's people like you that make it even harder for victims to come forward. SHE DID NOTHING WRONG. SHE DID NOT PUT A GUN TO HIS HEAD and say HIT ME CHRIS. Also, he ruined his OWN career, she didn't ruin it for him. Agreed. And I seriously doubt the OP was ever in an abusive relationship, or she wouldn't be so quick to blame the victim. Victim as in,...

Quote: Originally Posted by PinkToes Agreed. And I seriously doubt the OP was ever in an abusive relationship, or she wouldn't be so quick to blame the victim. Victim as in, the one with the battered face in the police photo. Yes I actually was. In my case, I put up with it until one day I got tired and flipped out on my XBF. He started choking me. When I thought I was really going to die for the first time, hydreniline came into me. I...

I have seen this with my ex gf. She was in an abusive relationship for ten years where he would be constantly by her side or on her back followed by physical violence. She is now with someone who displaying many of these characteristics except he has not been violent yet (and might not turn out to be). He tries to tell her what to wear, who she can be friends with, when to go out etc. etc. He gives her the silent treatment too and she also...

Quote: Originally Posted by atlast3 yeah it hurt really bad. Its hard to really even think about it. I understand we are sexual beings but I guess deep down its about expressing your love for someone...atleast thats how I looked it. I'm just really sad about it. Thats apart of the reason why I guess I'm just losing faith in men. Since men are biologically built to need sex(or so I read) I'm always left with this feeling that...

Quote: I'm always left with this feeling that I'm being used. Like when men have sex most of the times its just purely selfish because its a need of theirs. He can get it from anywhere so what makes me or sex between us so special. You’ll never feel “used” with a real man who actually knows how to make ‘love’ to a woman instead of using the act of sex as a form of masturbation. Truth be told, there are a lot of guys out there...

I left an abusive relationship over 2 years ago. I wanted to get healthy in so far as I wanted to be strong enough and aware enough to not find myself getting involved with another abusive man. Even though I've recently started to date other people I have come to the realization that I don't want to date/get involved with anyone. I don't have any lingering feelings for my ex nor do I ever want him to come back into my life but I...

Rhianna decides to speak about abuse. Chris Browns new album - Dec. 8 Rhianna's new album - Nov. 25 .....

Quote: Just because he is a man, people like you WWIU are quick to judge him as the attacker. For many years, women have abused men. That is kept quiet because men don't want to lose their masculinity. Men get abused too, I know that, so please don't put words in my mouth. THE EVIDENCE speaks for itself and as someone mentioned, the photo was leaked out to the press. Remember, she went back to him, and denied it happened. She...