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"Who you are speaks so loudly I can't hear what you're saying." - Ralph Waldo Emerson Boy, did I feel like he was talking to me tonight. __________________ http://web.mac.com/eastern.sun

That's so true. There are also what I'd call different levels of rape. The way I was raped, by a man who I loved and meant it when I said no is very different from a violent rape or child rape. __________________ FurryFury "I ask nothing but what you would freely give me. I honor you as you are, not as something to change." ~Me The stories I have here at Lit: Vote if you like the stories!...

Quote: Originally Posted by the captians wench She wasn't scolding you sweetie. Nor were ES or myself trying to wave red flags in your face and get you to stop in your tracks. We're all just trying to make you think so to speak. The thing you'll find about this board is that we all love conversation, but also the possibility of further conversation. Things that may seem directed at you, might not be directed at you at all. i...

Quote: Originally Posted by insert____here simply asking to better understand the subtext of submission...there are so many subtleties and nuances that are unexpected and new for me. it has nothing to do with "rules", and i'm certainly not going to base my relationship on anything you all might say. just trying to figure stuff out. can't always ask Him and it is nice to get opinions and discussion from people...

Play rape has aroused me. I drive away and park a block away. Come in and rape you by knife point or with a fake gun. Tying you up and having my way. Pretending you are a virgin makes it even better. But I also like virgin Daddy fucks too.

Who's counting? It doesn't matter if you enjoy it or not. Hopefully you get some enjoyment out of at least obeying. Submission is submitting to someone elses will. In my opinion that means all the time. If he wants you to eat chocolate--you get to enjoy it, if he wants you to eat shit...maybe not enjoy it. It's all submission. __________________ "Surrendered, Owned and Ecstatic" "Before you criticize...

I would ask who is counting too. Do you want to have relationship made of some vague rules made by outsiders? Only thing that matters is what counts for you, and him. Why not just ask him? __________________ Not looking anymore. Hate IMs, hate one-liners. Dont waste your hard on on me.

Quote: Originally Posted by eastern sun The New York Post is absolutely shameless in its reporting on rape/murder cases. I will admit to poring over every detail. Buying the newspaper just because I know that the steady stream of details will be there day after day. And all the while that I'm aroused by what I'm reading, I am feeling really guilty. I like violent sex where the boundaries between consent and non-consent are blurred....

Tho it could have been only a dream, I believe I was actually abducted by aliens and “examined”. The experience seems so real I have trouble accepting it was a dream or hallucinatory. I think it was “scientific” because “They” subjected me to every form of sensory stimulation: hot, cold, light, pressure, sound, puncture, orifice exploration etc. Although, I didn’t get a sense of any sexual intent, the examination seemed to intensify...

one thing I have learned to do..when my very dominant husband wants to be restrained, he really wants to be tied up but then have me use my body to please him...he wants a full-on experience of me touching him everywhere, rubbing myself all over him, etc. He's not a sub in any way, I honestly think the restrain thing is so he can give up responsibility for a while and just let me please him. Which is fine.