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Users activity: 53 posts per thread
Forum activity: 50 active threads during last week
 

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eastern sun
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the marks of a slave - Page 8 -...
Published (2008-11-27 11:51:00)
In conversations with a dom I've had the pleasure of knowing, I did a lot of thinking on the difference between a "pet" and a "toy." This is what I wrote at the time. ****************************************************** "both pets and toys belong to Someone the pet belongs to her Master, the One on whom she depends for her security, her shelter, her sustenance. the Master, in His position,...
Netzach
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the marks of a slave - Page 8 -...
Published (2008-11-27 18:17:00)
There's social pressure to some degree, for women "to rebel against men even when the man is right" maybe - MAYBE - depends on context. For about 30 years. There's social pressure most of the time for women to not rebel against men even when they're wrong for about as long as we've been walking upright. Sorry, this "it's so hard to be a femsub" meme really should meet the inside of...
Homburg
16
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Distance Domination-Support...
Published (2008-11-27 22:11:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by kittenartist On a personal side note: Thanksgiving apart just sucks. We were sort of fortunate on that front. MIS came down for a few days right before thanksgiving, travelling up to be with her family wedesday. My eldest daughter had the bright idea to do a mini thanksgiving tuesday night. Much props to eldest daughter. That said, be thankful that you have him, KA, and that he is (from last I heard) not in...
midwestyankee
15
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New High IQ Kinksters Discussion...
Published (2008-11-26 11:05:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Marquis Well, I hope you can forgive me if I am refuting your point. If anything, the notation is what is not universal. The concept of numbers and their interactions is completely universal, in the most literal sense of the word imaginable. Different cultures may teach different ways of doing long division, but with enough intelligence, there isn't any need for long division at all. Fair enough, Marquis. I...
JMohegan
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New High IQ Kinksters Discussion...
Published (2008-11-25 17:44:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Zoots_owner IQ takes age into account (in the case of kids), for them it's almost an intellectual age test. I've taken maybe 8 IQ tests between 4th grade and my late 40s, and the scores were all within 5 or 6 points of the median, despite using at least 5 different types of tests. I think that, barring massive brain damage or some other very unusual circumstance, there is something to the idea of the...
intothewoods
13
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the marks of a slave - Page 8 -...
Published (2008-11-27 15:55:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by eastern sun You always raise challenging points, itw. Part of the reason I always put the word slave in quotation marks is that I don't want to confuse my experience with real slavery. Lots of modern-day slaves end up in NYC through a series of desperate hopes and deceitful promises. They end up in Chinese restaurants, prostitution, and probably a lot of other places I don't know anything about,...
Kathykitten
11
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What do you consider to be your...
Published (2008-11-28 09:51:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by CutieMouse Mmmm... not necessarily nice or not nice, IMO. I wasn't experienced enough when I met him to know 100% for sure I was what I'm most comfortable being [submissive]. It was my choice to participate in the relationship, my choice to try, my choice to explore. It didn't end well, but just as much of that has to do with the pressures I placed on myself/how I internalized certain things, as how...
CutieMouse
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What do you consider to be your...
Published (2008-11-28 09:48:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Kathykitten Really not very nice of him that. It is as you say; can't really change who you are. But I guess we CAN change what we want to feel bad about and not. And if we will let the naysayers affect us. Mmmm... not necessarily nice or not nice, IMO. I wasn't experienced enough when I met him to know 100% for sure I was what I'm most comfortable being [submissive]. It was my choice to participate...
Lizzie_Borden
9
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What do you consider to be your...
Published (2008-11-28 07:43:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by the_mgp It's kinda funny how things can change with time. Very true It takes a lot of trust, a bit of patience and a bit of time to get past the fear and/or doubt and push those boundaries.
FurryFury
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New faces, come say hello... -...
Published (2008-11-28 16:22:00)
Welcome Dreamy87. *HUG*
 

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Started 12 months ago (2007-12-04 21:02:00)  by DomWharfsBitch
Stopping in to check in with all..Hope all are doing well
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Started 10 months, 3 weeks ago (2008-01-16 00:55:00)  by doveofserenity
Quote: Originally Posted by Shankara20 . . Don't know if Catalina has or even likes tatts, but i can see that fitting her perfectly.
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Started 2 weeks, 4 days ago (2008-11-13 18:31:00)  by Kathykitten
I have a fetish (one of many) for being fucked with unusual items. And I am sure others have it to! So I thought I'd start a thread where people could share what osrt of items has had the pleasure of their company, and which they loved the most! I'll start it off with the classic bottle, a lovely friend that never lets you ease up! The moment you start to soften slightly, the more it feeds ...
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Started 3 days, 15 hours ago (2008-11-28 18:24:00)  by MasterSeth
I've never been a part of a community such as this one so I don't get to ask questions of those with experience with BDSM. I'm curious to see how others got started in this kind of life. Mine started with my first real girlfriend. She was very open and energetic sexually so I think I was put on the fast track to sexual adventure. I was still seeing her and another young lady during my ...
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Started 1 month, 1 week ago (2008-10-22 11:26:00)  by tinylittlegnat
looking for ways to punish my girl when she is bad. not into leaving marks of flogging. no spanking with anything besides a hand. and teasing isnt a punishment. any advice would be good. we dont live together and i live with my parents so anything to wild is out sadly but would still like to hear about it for future reference
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Started 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2008-09-09 14:33:00)  by shy slave
It varies from person to person. I think it is best to discover between you what works for you both. I personally hate and loathe aftercare, finding it akin to nails on a blackboard. I have tolerated it, but that was because the Dom needed to do it for himself, not for me. I know I am not alone in disliking it, which means conversation before a scene, as oppose to finding out...
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Started 11 months ago (2008-01-02 12:55:00)  by Mistress-Flame
Hi my name is Mistress-Flame and I am relatively new to this site. I have only just realised my interest in BDSM and it is quite overwelming. But I have the curiosity of a beaver and am a quick learner also.
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Started 10 months, 1 week ago (2008-01-23 19:15:00)  by eriov
'have just been introduced to strap-ons for a few weeks... and I can say that, being an hetero male, anal sex will definitely be mine all over my sex life
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Started 5 months, 1 week ago (2008-06-22 15:49:00)  by VelvetDarkness
Just curious. Although technically I am a slave, there are still things that Master and I have no interest in and I can confidently hope that he will never ask of me. I know that people's kinks and squicks evolve as they mature in the lifestyle. For the sake of simplicity we can say that illegal and immoral practices like incest, paedophilia, necrophilia, bestiality etc go without saying....
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Started 2 weeks ago (2008-11-17 11:34:00)  by dreamz77
Does not seem to be much talk about this...
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Started 1 week, 3 days ago (2008-11-21 21:12:00)  by Laura_Palmer
Hello everyone, It's great to see the BDSM section of Lit is still going strong and lots of interesting topics are up for discussion! I have been reading the topics on this site for years and have learned a lot from it. My owner and I have started a new discussion group geared toward high IQ kinksters and those who love them. We hope to attract members from anywhere in the world and make ...
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Started 4 weeks, 1 day ago (2008-11-03 09:12:00)  by eastern sun
We're meeting at a comedy club on Saturday night. He's coming straight from work, so he asks me to bring him a change of clothes. Why does it turn me on that I'm holding his work clothes while I stand in line, dressed for a night out in leather and denim? Half of me relishing this hip, urban, fashion status moment. Half of me wet with my position as "slave." (after standing there...
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Started 5 months, 1 week ago (2008-06-22 15:49:00)  by VelvetDarkness
Just curious. Although technically I am a slave, there are still things that Master and I have no interest in and I can confidently hope that he will never ask of me. I know that people's kinks and squicks evolve as they mature in the lifestyle. For the sake of simplicity we can say that illegal and immoral practices like incest, paedophilia, necrophilia, bestiality etc go without saying....
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Started 11 months ago (2008-01-02 12:55:00)  by Mistress-Flame
Hi my name is Mistress-Flame and I am relatively new to this site. I have only just realised my interest in BDSM and it is quite overwelming. But I have the curiosity of a beaver and am a quick learner also.
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Dominant Training - 19 new posts
Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2008-11-23 20:12:00)  by Wolfspet
Even a casual search of any BDSM website yields tons of information on the training of pyl's. But where does a potential PYL even begin to gain the information that will make him/her successful and effective? Mentoring by a more experienced PYL and even coaching by an experienced pyl are two options that come to mind. But not everyone has access to a face-to-face community -- there are ...
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A manly chest - 19 new posts
Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2008-11-22 19:26:00)  by Feral_Intelligence
Ok, here is a poll for the ladies: who likes a man with some hair on his chest? I've noticed that a lot of women my age preffer a guy with a smooth chest. Hell, some of them want us to shave our legs too! However, with women that are a bit older they tend to find a man with some hair on his chest sexy. So what do the ladies of Lit think? Note: I never have been good at desciding ...
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Started 12 months ago (2007-12-04 21:02:00)  by DomWharfsBitch
Stopping in to check in with all..Hope all are doing well
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Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2008-11-23 08:34:00)  by dollfla
i've recently been promted to learn more about this lifestyle with the label 'BDSM', specifically the relationship dynamics between Doms and subs. In doing the research however, i've found the terms Dom/sub and Master/slave used to describe similar relationships in some cases and in others show vast differences. So, i'm coming here for some help. Are there real differences between a Dom/sub ...
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Started 2 weeks, 4 days ago (2008-11-13 18:31:00)  by Kathykitten
I have a fetish (one of many) for being fucked with unusual items. And I am sure others have it to! So I thought I'd start a thread where people could share what osrt of items has had the pleasure of their company, and which they loved the most! I'll start it off with the classic bottle, a lovely friend that never lets you ease up! The moment you start to soften slightly, the more it feeds ...
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Started 1 week, 4 days ago (2008-11-20 23:38:00)  by Mephistophelily
We've been experimenting with a bedroom-only BDSM relationship for awhile now. He has been playing with more dominant things over the last few years, but lately, he's been "bringing it up a few notches". He wants to take it a bit further, but is a little afraid of hurting me. We do have a safe word, something that would definitely catch his attention (I would only be yelling Silent Bob if there ...
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