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Hi Jeanette I'm glad the appointment went well, having no answers is hard, we know Amelia's death was caused following complications caused by her massive brain damage. What we will never know is what caused her to have the brain damage in the first place. I hope now that the inquest can reach a quick conclusion for you so that this part of the journey is over. Thinking of you Pippa

Oh sweetie Gentle hugs today - I'll be thinking of you. Please know we're here afterwards if you want to talk?? I'm glad she's fitting you in but hope she gives you the time you need. x x x x

Hope you have had your appt now, how did you get on? xxx

The appt went well, the doctor went through the post mortem with us. The cause of death is Massive Pulmonary Haemorrhage. The report explains however that otherwise Florence was perfect, no evidence of infection or congenital defects. She was perfect, and for a reason we will never know she had a massive bleed in her lungs which killed her. We do feel weirdly relieved, it's a weight off our minds in some ways,but of course hard to never...

Happy 2nd birthday Amelia you are such a special brave girl and i hope you and Olivia av a fantastic angel party 2day xxx thinking of you Pippa an your dh huge hugs xxxxxxxxxxxx

Hi Jenny, So sorry to hear of your sister and BIL's loss. Its lovely that you are looking out for them. They may want to contact TAMBA who have a bereavement support group?and can put your sister and BIL in contact with local help. The website address is http://www.tamba-bsg.org.uk/ I hope that helps. george

Thank you both for your kind messages and useful suggestions. As you say, the first few weeks really are a tough time, especially as it has happened just before Christmas. I will try and get back to see my sister and BIL in January, February, March etc and I think the text, flowers etc are a good idea. I already had the details for Sands and so does she, so perhaps I will talk her through the association when I'm around over Christmas (I...

Thank you so much for your posts, very kind of you.? I went up to Joseph's grave at the weekend and put his 3rd Birthday balloon up, looks so lovely up there with all the Christmas stuff etc. At work today so looking forward to going home, my parents are coming round for a meal, hate being at work today of all days. Lots of love to you all Lou x

Thank you for thinking of Katie today and on her birthday earlier this month.? Its been a busy month this year so we've not been able to do anything special in her memory but she's never far from our minds and my heart feels particually heavy today. Love and hugs to you all Linda xx

Hi everyone Sorry I haven't been posting much - things have been a bit hectic!? I just wondering how everyone was doing.....especially as I know how difficult Christmas is going to be. Christmas cards have been the worst for me this year (so far!) - I feel so bad missing Lily's name off the bottom of our Christmas cards, though? have added her to some card where I know people will understand.? Then there's the Christmas cards...