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Users activity: 36 posts per thread
Forum activity: 112 active threads during last week
 

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pendulum
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In serious need of advice...Age...
Published (2009-11-14 20:11:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Courtnee1972 So, basically by giving him exactly what he wanted and lossing my identity that's not good enough for him? I am or was very independant, very stable, great job and was my own person! Now, that I gave it all up for the man I love it's too much? I am trying to understand that concept, but guess it could be true! I stopped fighting for what was important to me and said and did everything for...
Larrylou'smom
28
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He's Hot and Cold, what...
Published (2009-11-14 10:57:00)
Well, you say you have great conversations when you're in town. Do you ever talk on the phone just to talk, and not to arrange a get together when you're in town? IF so, that's a good sign. If the only time he wants to talk to you is when he knows it's going to lead to his getting his hands on you, that's not so good. If he's got an "out of town, out of mind" kind of attitude, that's not so...
Courtnee1972
25
user's latest post:
In serious need of advice...Age...
Published (2009-11-14 23:16:00)
He no longer get's any more power over me! I am a strong, educated, professional woman and the only mistake I made was to believe this person, fall in love with him and then let him control whether I had a good day or bad day! NO more! I don't only deserve better, but it should mean something that the only 2 other relationships that I have had (one a 20 year marriage) prior to this one, those two men would take me back in a...
Redneon82
23
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In serious need of advice...Age...
Published (2009-11-14 18:23:00)
Doormats are not attractive. They exist for people to wipe their feet on. You probably attracted him BECAUSE you were independent, smart, stable, great job...now you gave all that up for him! Why? I didn't give everything up for my ex, but I did accept, ignore, justify a lot of things in order to stay with him, because I BELIEVED we truly loved one another. Then he dumped me for someone who refuses to give anything up for him, she expects...
rosequartz
21
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In serious need of advice...Age...
Published (2009-11-14 23:37:00)
Good for you! I'm glad to hear it! stay strong!
Kszan
18
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In serious need of advice...Age...
Published (2009-11-14 13:41:00)
Good, I'm glad to hear that you're coming to your senses. You really do appear to be a very intelligent person and I know you're better than this guy. So just do what you need to do in order to be done with this guy and move on. I'm glad to know that you're seeing what a lame guy he is because it really is NO big loss at all.
justkeeppraying
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How much do women expect to be...
Published (2009-11-13 05:08:00)
I agree, I think it depends on the woman. The more 'reserved' types of women probably find it slightly intimidating and feel more pressure from it. Others may see it as flattering, and consequently that will make them feel more desirable (especially if they're the snob type, but it's not limited to only them). Some women might expect for you to pursue them because they want to see 'what lengths you'll go to'...
Tubular
13
user's latest post:
gf says I need to gain weight......
Published (2009-11-12 18:46:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by justkeeppraying B/c something's seriously wrong with her. That's why. I'm not sure what she suffers from, maybe bipolar... but she could have borderline personality disorder. One of it's symptoms are dramatic and unpredictable mood swings. That one seems to fit. Another symptom is relationship issues dealing communication, that seems to be present. She also seems to be afraid of being alone, a...
melanie j
9
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He refuses to see my side - Page...
Published (2009-11-14 09:02:00)
thanks everyone for all your replies. Think... and hoping that something may have struck home with my Partner. We were going to see a family friend when the subject of Xmas came up. This year we will be having dinner with Daughter No.1 and her husband. Also there will be my son-in-laws mother, father and family. It wasmentioned by my daughter that a certain subject wasnt mentioned while in their company as it would cause her mother-in-law a...
Mileena42
8
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I think I should find another...
Published (2009-11-08 16:47:00)
Read "Me And My Big Mouth!" by Joyce Myer. We are what we speak.
 

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Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-11-07 17:49:00)  by Larrylou'smom
I think a lot of women experience this, especially in their first romantic relationships. The hormones that rage, the oxytocin and the endorphins can make you go overboard. Plus, the fairy tales we're sold as little girls don't help. Beauty and the Beast, if our love is pure and true and strong enough, it can turn a beast of a man into the prince we want and need him to be. Cinderella, we aren't ...
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Started 1 day, 18 hours ago (2009-11-15 01:46:00)  by Larrylou'smom
Well, I think recognizing the problem is more than half the battle. Congratulations on that. Now you just have to get to work on rising about your raising. I think you can if you work hard at it. Perhaps a good therapist could help? I know some people are really opposed to it, but it can help get some good, objective third party input. You have to find a way to forgive your parents for not ...
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Started 5 days, 4 hours ago (2009-11-11 16:27:00)  by rosequartz
YOU make the decision to stop letting him yank your chain..... this madness will continue as long as you allow it..... cut him loose once and for all, by now you should know that history repeats itself and this will happen again and again and again into infinity
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Started 4 days ago (2009-11-12 20:16:00)  by Larrylou'smom
Are you in professional treatment for your anorexia? I think getting that in control is job one. These insecurities, being so sure your boyfriend will cheat, almost feeling like "ok, go ahead and cheat and get it over with", this is all part of the same thing. Trust is an essential part of any relationship. IF you don't or can't have it, then a healthy relationship is pretty much ...
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Started 5 days, 15 hours ago (2009-11-11 05:05:00)  by pendulum
Wel, this is not totally clear to me, but... Yes, he probably sounded insensitive to your ears when he said those things, about not liking you so much as you seem to like him. But - I am assuming this - perhaps you sort of forced him to give you an answer. He was blunt, but honest. You didn't hear what you expected to hear, but that is reality. I could be wrong, but I find your bf to ...
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Started 4 days, 21 hours ago (2009-11-11 22:52:00)  by justkeeppraying
Quote: Originally Posted by applesauce11 A month went by... he didn’t ask me out at all. I even had a talk with him about that night and we still didn’t get anywhere. I asked him once if he thought we’d break up and he said yes... without any hesitation. He went overseas for school for 4 months... we’ve been apart for maybe...
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Started 3 weeks, 1 day ago (2009-10-25 04:00:00)  by Calif. guy
Hello, 00lady00 . If you're having relationship issues over this, try actually talking with your "man of interest" because pursuing a relationship or even dating him, it's such a major part of your life it will eventually become a part of his if you start dating, this could cause conflict and other severe relationship problems. < edited > If he's really the one, he'll drop ...
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Started 2 days, 9 hours ago (2009-11-14 10:57:00)  by Larrylou'smom
Well, you say you have great conversations when you're in town. Do you ever talk on the phone just to talk, and not to arrange a get together when you're in town? IF so, that's a good sign. If the only time he wants to talk to you is when he knows it's going to lead to his getting his hands on you, that's not so good. If he's got an "out of town, out of mind" kind of attitude, that's not so good,...
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Started 3 days, 7 hours ago (2009-11-13 13:10:00)  by Js1976
I think you are right about the thought of him being depressed. I go on vacation JUST to spend time with my family. Does he just not want to spend time with "his" family (since 26 is a whole lot of family at one time) or everyone? Personally I wouldn't enjoy doing much with my whole family at one time because they would get on my nerves. I would however jump at the chance to spend quality time ...
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Started 6 days, 10 hours ago (2009-11-10 09:55:00)  by pendulum
I haven't heard his "jokes" and haven't read your text messages to him, so it's difficult to judge. But maybe, MAYBE, this man was really just joking, and unpleasant and inadequate as he may have sounded, he didn't deserve such a severe treatment. You say your messages were very abusive. Did you offend him? Did you call him bad names? I know, I know, you were stressed out with all his ...
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Started 5 days, 4 hours ago (2009-11-11 16:27:00)  by rosequartz
YOU make the decision to stop letting him yank your chain..... this madness will continue as long as you allow it..... cut him loose once and for all, by now you should know that history repeats itself and this will happen again and again and again into infinity
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Started 6 days, 10 hours ago (2009-11-10 09:55:00)  by pendulum
I haven't heard his "jokes" and haven't read your text messages to him, so it's difficult to judge. But maybe, MAYBE, this man was really just joking, and unpleasant and inadequate as he may have sounded, he didn't deserve such a severe treatment. You say your messages were very abusive. Did you offend him? Did you call him bad names? I know, I know, you were stressed out with all his ...
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Started 1 week, 1 day ago (2009-11-08 08:19:00)  by pendulum
I am not a woman, but I do find this a bit strange. Women in general are very fond of "things" that mark an event or a date. She says that she doesn't want the engagement ring, but does she really mean it? If you gave her one, do you think she would refuse it or throw it away?
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Started 1 week, 3 days ago (2009-11-06 04:52:00)  by pendulum
I am afraid there is only one way - despite your potential envy/jealousy - that is, to encourage both guys to find a decent girlfriend themselves, perhaps from among your own female friends, so that you won't be worried that they are dating "dangerous" strangers. How come these two fabulous men have no girlfriends at this point! It scares me to think they are holding back because of you, ...
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Started 6 days, 4 hours ago (2009-11-10 16:21:00)  by Kszan
In what way? What do you mean? You need to provide more information about specific details otherwise no one can help you.
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Started 2 weeks, 5 days ago (2009-10-28 00:08:00)  by digmusic
Whoa whoa whoa... this is really messed up/bad. You were exactly right when you said "this is not my problem" and then she walked out and slammed the door? She is so deluded that she can't see that she is trying to force YOU to change YOUR body just so she can feel better about herself? This actually makes me feel angry... she has a lot of issues that certainly you can not help her with; she ...
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Started 3 days, 12 hours ago (2009-11-13 08:14:00)  by pendulum
Hi I am far from being a guru, lol, and I don't think anyone on these Boards considers themselves to be one, either, but I might share some advice with you. Anyway, I would like to ask you a question first of all. I presume that as most modern couples, you are already having sex with this girl, although you are not married to her. Does the fact that she really doesn't light ...
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Started 6 days, 23 hours ago (2009-11-09 20:54:00)  by Larrylou'smom
Erin - I think everything you're feeling is normal and even natural. I went through something similar and I know how hard it can be. It takes time AND hard work and a desire to get past it, but you can if you want to. In time you'll realize this guy wasn't right for you. Concentrate on you. Get back to you. Read a book you've always wanted to read but never had the time, treat yourself to a...
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Started 1 week, 2 days ago (2009-11-07 17:49:00)  by Larrylou'smom
I think a lot of women experience this, especially in their first romantic relationships. The hormones that rage, the oxytocin and the endorphins can make you go overboard. Plus, the fairy tales we're sold as little girls don't help. Beauty and the Beast, if our love is pure and true and strong enough, it can turn a beast of a man into the prince we want and need him to be. Cinderella, we aren't ...
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Started 1 week ago (2009-11-09 17:43:00)  by friendsville
You require some professional help.Either with him,or without him.If you do not seek it,you will most likely wind up a statistic in the mental health world.Please do not assume you are going to change anything,by yourself.You deserve more than this. Bill
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