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user's latest post:
What Should I Do??
Published (2009-11-25 09:52:00)
So, I admit that I should not have been in my husbands email account, but I just wanted to know if he had ordered me anything for Christmas yet. I don't like surprises... I like to be prepared and want to make sure that I will have a comparable gift if needed... Anyway... I never suspected anything with him, but while in his email I found some emails that he sent to another woman... with naked pictures of himself and little notes to go...
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What Should I Do??
Published (2009-11-28 03:44:00)
Hello Happydayz125, Welcome to the board!? Before I would offer any advice as to stay or work things out, I'd like to ask a couple questions. It seems as though your snooping was "innocent" enough.? It is the time for snooping for Christmas gifts!? Can you tell me that this was a complete surprise to you?? You had no idea he was "up to something"?? It's easy for married couples to get into a rut where they are...
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Marry him knowing what I do?
Published (2009-11-29 05:10:00)
My fiance and I have been together for 5 years now. He is in the military so we have endured alot of seperation but made it through. About two years ago I discovered he had a profile on a sexually explicit web site, also had a Myspace account with alot of?scantilly clothed women "friends." At the time we were in a long-distance relationship. I confronted him and he promptly took everything down and said he was so sorry he...
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Marry him knowing what I do?
Published (2009-11-29 21:05:00)
I would definitely confront him if i were you... and i think you should let him move overseas because is sounds like neither of you are ready for a commitment. Time apart will do both of you good. It will help you decide what is best for YOU. And no, its not harmless. what's next? meeting women on the side too? Do you really want to be with someone you're not sure you can trust?
user's latest post:
Marry him knowing what I do?
Published (2009-11-29 22:59:00)
No!? Do not marry him.? He did this before.? Now you catch him again. This is just the tip of the ice berg that you happened to catch!? You have no idea what he has been up to.? And he's been away from you for long stretches.? Given what you have found, how can you possibly know he hasn't taken it further. ? Do not let him know you know.? I would hack into this email and see what the he... he is up to.? I would have his balls for...
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Latest active threads on I Feel Betrayed::
Started 2 days ago (2009-11-29 21:05:00)
by emscemily
I would definitely confront him if i were you... and i think you should let him move overseas because is sounds like neither of you are ready for a commitment. Time apart will do both of you good. It will help you decide what is best for YOU. And no, its not harmless. what's next? meeting women on the side too? Do you really want to be with someone you're not sure you can trust?...
Started 3 days, 17 hours ago (2009-11-28 03:44:00)
by cl-camperchik
Hello Happydayz125,
Welcome to the board!
Before I would offer any advice as to stay or work things out, I'd like to ask a couple questions.
It seems as though your snooping was "innocent" enough. It is the time for snooping for Christmas gifts!
Can you tell me that this was a complete surprise to you? You had no idea he was "up to something"?
It's easy for married ...
Started 2 weeks ago (2009-11-16 23:42:00)
by cl-camperchik
Lorelei,
Your BFF deserves better than what she's getting from her crush.
He may indeed be in an unhappy marriage, but he doesn't think enough of himself to get out of it. Won't spend the money so that he and his wife, who is apparently also miserable in the marriage, can move on.
It's one thing to be friends with someone, and occasionally text and chat. However, it seems that ...
Started 4 weeks ago (2009-11-03 09:51:00)
by khatru1
It is probably fortunate that you found him out as soon as you did. I think things could have easily spiraled out of control (meaning got physical) for as much communicating as they did.
Started 2 weeks, 5 days ago (2009-11-12 10:25:00)
by sparkledust27
Well, to be perfectly honest, from what you've described, I really don't understand why you're still there. I mean, he's obviously lying, you say that you're only hanging around for the sex and there isn't much of that, and it sounds like he's just dragging you down. Have you tried marriage counseling? Are you even interested in trying that? If everything in your gut is telling you to bail, I ...
Started 3 weeks, 1 day ago (2009-11-08 22:06:00)
by sparkledust27
I hate to say it, but it sounds like the writing is on the wall. He wants to play, he's not serious about the relationship, and it doesn't even sound like he's trying too terribly hard to be secretive. Maybe he figures that you're stuck there so what does he have to lose? I would confront him about it as a formality just to see if he's willing to try and work it out, but the fact that he's ...
Started 4 weeks, 1 day ago (2009-11-02 13:51:00)
by khatru1
He definitely seems to have a history of reaching out to people outside your marriage and he is still doing it. Who knows what he is doing when you are at work all day? A person does not need to be engaging in cybersex in order to be cheating. It could be flirting and things leading to an emotional affair. Actual cheating or not, your partner should not be doing things online or otherwise that ...
Started 1 month, 1 week ago (2009-10-23 03:31:00)
by cl-camperchik
Ivil_blue123,
First of all, a big hug! I am so sorry that you are dealing with this stuff.
Next, I want to be sure that you realize I am NOT a licensed counselor, these are just my opinions.
In my marriage, any type of physical contact infidelity is a deal breaker. No questions asked, no negotiating. Done. He knows that. He knows that I have forgiven certain things, I tolerate ...
Started 1 month ago (2009-10-27 16:49:00)
by cmstephanie
Given your history with him, I can see why you wouldn't trust him, but do you think you'll ever be able to trust him again? If not, do you think you can have a successful relationship with a man you don't trust?
Here's some food for thought:
Trust Issues: When His Ex Is a Factor
Found Letter to His Ex: What Now?
He won't let go of his ex
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Hot threads for last week on I Feel Betrayed::
Started 2 days ago (2009-11-29 21:05:00)
by emscemily
I would definitely confront him if i were you... and i think you should let him move overseas because is sounds like neither of you are ready for a commitment. Time apart will do both of you good. It will help you decide what is best for YOU. And no, its not harmless. what's next? meeting women on the side too? Do you really want to be with someone you're not sure you can trust?...
Started 3 days, 17 hours ago (2009-11-28 03:44:00)
by cl-camperchik
Hello Happydayz125,
Welcome to the board!
Before I would offer any advice as to stay or work things out, I'd like to ask a couple questions.
It seems as though your snooping was "innocent" enough. It is the time for snooping for Christmas gifts!
Can you tell me that this was a complete surprise to you? You had no idea he was "up to something"?
It's easy for married ...
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