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user's latest post:
I need some help, advice...
Published (2009-12-16 14:29:00)
He said if we broke up we'd have to sell cos neither he nor I would be able to make the repayments. I'm not sure how much we'd sell the house for or how much equity it has. I don't really want to rent.
user's latest post:
he signed the passport but.... -...
Published (2009-12-16 22:01:00)
thanks bubmum i think at the end of the day we as mums do what we think is best by our children and its not for others to criticise.... i think there are too many supernannys in the world! mumma2lilb i really feel for you... it sounds like your ex was far worse than mine,,, i really hope the courts will rule in your favour... as you said they do nothing but inflict hurt and still have so many rights... hopefully they will see all documentation...
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I need some help, advice...
Published (2009-12-16 14:53:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by mum2bubba He said if we broke up we'd have to sell cos neither he nor I would be able to make the repayments. I'm not sure how much we'd sell the house for or how much equity it has. I don't really want to rent. Hey Cassie, I know it's hard to do but you have to start focussing on the positives instead of the negatives. Even if you have to make yourself a little sign to stick on the fridge...
user's latest post:
Birth - support person? - Page 2...
Published (2009-12-16 21:07:00)
I had my mum and she was fantastic. FOB wanted to come to the birth which I said "f off" to, then he wanted to sit outside the room while I was in labour to which I also said "f off".
user's latest post:
Birth - support person? - Page 2...
Published (2009-12-16 16:53:00)
my mum was meant to be my support person. in the ended never needed her anyway as she was just bout to go down for a sleep and i was just popping out coop and didnt know it. is there someone who you are really close to? any family around?
user's latest post:
I think I'll be a single...
Published (2009-12-16 18:36:00)
Aweful thing is I want him to be happy with someone else, He's got so much love and affection to give, im just not into that affection stuff
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Hi, I'm a new single Mum -...
Published (2009-12-10 20:14:00)
LOL top work missy, welcome to the clan already, your going great guns!!
user's latest post:
ex DH with issues and visitation...
Published (2009-12-16 12:04:00)
Quote: Originally Posted by Bubmum Go with your gut...If you get concerned over the weekend, call straight away. I know you said you are worried that this impacts on your current relationship (and past relationships should be able to stay in the past, but that isn't the case when you have kids unfortunately)...this situation is a part of you and your life, and your partner is going to have to take that on board, if he wants to be with...
user's latest post:
Am i doing the right thing?
Published (2009-12-13 11:45:00)
Your situation sounds exactly the same as mine, except mine happened 12 months ago! I just had a baby this year in June (my due date was also the 17th! I ended up having him on the 23rd though) I had the same feelings about my boyfriend (now ex-boyfriend). We tried to stay together but eventually split in February last year when I was 5 months pregnant. I don't regret ending the relationship. I was unhappy, he wasn't the person who I...
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Latest active threads on Single Parents::
Started 2 days, 17 hours ago (2009-12-15 21:52:00)
by firsttimepregnant
hi there..
sorry to hear about your troubles, just wanted to give you a big hug.
i can't imagine what it's like with someone lying like that when he never wanted anything to do with the child. I'm pregnant and the FOB doesnt' want a single thing to do with us, and I only hope this manipulative behaviour doesn't happen to me when I claim child support. It seems he is only doing it out...
Started 1 day, 9 hours ago (2009-12-17 05:41:00)
by Maire
AM, other people will know more, but I believe that you can ask for an assessment at any time. I think if you don't it does get reconciled at tax time though
Started 2 days, 17 hours ago (2009-12-15 22:16:00)
by lochiebearsmum
hi i did my whole pregnancy by myself,,, my mum was my support person although i chose never to go to anti natal classes, pretty much because i didnt want to see all the happy couples.. i can also say they wouldn't have helped even if i had have! you push when you have to push! my child health nurse also said she would arrange for a single room so i wouldnt be upset seeing other dads etc... i ...
Started 1 day, 20 hours ago (2009-12-16 18:51:00)
by bubbleandme
well, i'm close to my mum and dad so we're going up tomorrow to have a big family chistmas (not huge lol but family-filled)
if i wasn't close to mum and dad (i think i would have gone mad by now, they've been great) i'd probably crash someone elses christmas or go to one hosted by a charity. then i'd feel less lonely lol
hope you have a lovely christmas
emma
x
Started 1 day, 10 hours ago (2009-12-17 04:52:00)
by AM
That well and truly sucks. I'm sorry you are having to put up with such crap.
Started 1 week ago (2009-12-10 21:10:00)
by Travdan
Oh, you sound like a wonderful person and mum. I dont have any advice but I hope things start looking up for you and your ex soon, but I think you're doing the right thing.
Started 2 days, 1 hour ago (2009-12-16 13:58:00)
by tuttifrutti
I reckon the evenings are the worst. It is very hard sometimes to be alone. I try to keep busy, or phone friends. I also have a close friend who visits often.
Hang in there! You'll get more used to it. It's all been so recent for you. But yes, I agree that that time of the day is tough.
Started 1 week ago (2009-12-11 12:03:00)
by SweetSerenity
Hey hun
When I left my ex husband, I went to centrelink after deciding to leave.
I was working at the time though so I was able to have some sort of money until centrelink gave me assistance but they are generally pretty good with getting things going for single mums.
How do you think Grant will be with the news of you wanting to leave?
I think you are doing the right thing hun for...
Started 2 days ago (2009-12-16 15:04:00)
by Booo
Theres alot of views.... just no replies
Started 3 months, 3 weeks ago (2009-08-28 13:12:00)
by bubbleandme
me!
bubbleandme> shepparton, victoria
i'll be moving soon though!
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Hot threads for last week on Single Parents::
Started 1 week ago (2009-12-11 12:03:00)
by SweetSerenity
Hey hun
When I left my ex husband, I went to centrelink after deciding to leave.
I was working at the time though so I was able to have some sort of money until centrelink gave me assistance but they are generally pretty good with getting things going for single mums.
How do you think Grant will be with the news of you wanting to leave?
I think you are doing the right thing hun for...
Started 2 days, 17 hours ago (2009-12-15 21:52:00)
by firsttimepregnant
hi there..
sorry to hear about your troubles, just wanted to give you a big hug.
i can't imagine what it's like with someone lying like that when he never wanted anything to do with the child. I'm pregnant and the FOB doesnt' want a single thing to do with us, and I only hope this manipulative behaviour doesn't happen to me when I claim child support. It seems he is only doing it out...
Started 1 week ago (2009-12-10 18:28:00)
by lil'pixie&me
Welcome!! I'm probably not full of all the info that some other single mummies here are, but always here to lend support
Started 2 days, 17 hours ago (2009-12-15 22:16:00)
by lochiebearsmum
hi i did my whole pregnancy by myself,,, my mum was my support person although i chose never to go to anti natal classes, pretty much because i didnt want to see all the happy couples.. i can also say they wouldn't have helped even if i had have! you push when you have to push! my child health nurse also said she would arrange for a single room so i wouldnt be upset seeing other dads etc... i ...
Started 2 days ago (2009-12-16 15:04:00)
by Booo
Theres alot of views.... just no replies
Started 6 days, 8 hours ago (2009-12-12 07:15:00)
by mum2bubba
If you're not happy then you need to be honest with youself and with him. Don't deny yourself happiness. If you don't want to be with him anymore tell him so he can move on with his life (and you can too). It's only fair.
Started 1 week ago (2009-12-10 21:10:00)
by Travdan
Oh, you sound like a wonderful person and mum. I dont have any advice but I hope things start looking up for you and your ex soon, but I think you're doing the right thing.
Started 1 day, 9 hours ago (2009-12-17 05:41:00)
by Maire
AM, other people will know more, but I believe that you can ask for an assessment at any time. I think if you don't it does get reconciled at tax time though
Started 1 day, 10 hours ago (2009-12-17 04:52:00)
by AM
That well and truly sucks. I'm sorry you are having to put up with such crap.
Started 6 days, 8 hours ago (2009-12-12 06:43:00)
by nic255
That sounds about right! (sorry not a single parent who has used JET, but a child care director, so I know the other side of the table!)
We have families who send their children for 3 days a week (works out about 31.5 hours) and they pay $3.15 for the week and the government pays the rest.
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