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Quote: Originally Posted by lululeah I would confront your partner and say something along the lines of "my sister called me today and confessed about everything thst happened with you guys" and see what he has to say. Or say the same thing to your sister. This doesnt ALWAYS work but you can try it

Quote: Originally Posted by stevi I know it's not exactly the same. But when i moved out of home at 16 i started having a better relationship with my mum and step-dad. Maybe it's just getting a bit easier to be nicer? If you know what i mean. I hope not to make you sad about this. But some people when they are together make each other unhappy. Either they have just learned to do it over time. Haven't maintained the...

Soulmates?? WTF?? OMG. You are SO doing the right thing.

Quote: Originally Posted by keiaras Mum You fell pregnant by a casual fling youo chose to have this baby knowing you would not have any support from the father or his side of the family. The Grandmother is doing the best she can. Her Son has made it clear he wants nothing to do with you and weather she likes it or not she will support him. Give her credit for making the effort she is making. if you don't like the little effort she is...

crap. You're all right... crap... crapity crap crap. THATS why I'm still really unsettled about DP being so much nicer to me and to Jasper. Because he's CHOSEN to switch off 'jerk mode'... which mean he CHOSE to switch it on in the first place. Well... my eyes are wide open... I'm getting Jasper's name changed to my surname while DP trying to win me back - thats the only perminant thing that matters... if...

You don't have to tell anyone you're pregnant. Ring up a domestic violence hotline and ask for help. Ring Centrelink and ask for help. Just ring one of those lines right now. I know everything seems overwhelming but you will get there if you can just start taking the small steps that you need to take... there is help out there.

Quote: Originally Posted by MissMetal seriously, all these things that are happening will be proof for court if ever needed and he will have NO chance getting your bub!!! As unfortunate as the situation is, that's not necessarily true. Booo, I would be packing up now and moving far away if you want what's best for your bubba.

No. not harsh. Sometimes people are no good for us and it sounds like your mum has a lot of issues that she refuses to acknowledge. It also sounds like your life is going to be a whole lot less complicated from now on. I'm at the same point with my mum, who was a terrible parent growing up and I recently I found out she was bagging one of my children I actually WISH she would send me an email like that so I could cut her out of my life...

When DD was that age and asked, she was just told that grown ups sometimes stop liking each other, and that sometimes people can be better friends if they're not sharing the same house. As she got older (she was 9 for the most recent split) I was able to say that they were having "issues" that was between Gran and her hubby and that it was nothing she needed details on. I've separated from her Dad, so she also had...

I'm so sorry honey ... maybe it's time to change your profile name to 'finallysmelledthecoffee' hope you can see the lighter side of that! At least now you are aware - and fully aware and can see the bad stuff and are ready to move on. You'll only ever go forwards from here babe. You sound so strong... you really sound ready to go...